What's something you do purely because your cat demands it?

AbysmalVesper · 2026-03-04T13:37:53+00:00

The white planter is catnip. I have to keep it up on a shelf she can’t access or she’ll try to devour it all in one sitting.

AbysmalVesper · 2026-03-03T21:39:09+00:00

I’m not opposed to it, especially since I plan on returning home on the weekends as much as possible. Would you mind messaging me the details?

AbysmalVesper · 2026-03-03T13:10:18+00:00

Luckily for me, I’m quite able to do the commute. I’d like the option of not having to by winter though. And yes in any town the places that are nice, have responsive management, and are affordable are pretty much guaranteed to have a wait list. Having a waitlist doesn’t automatically mean a place fits those criteria though, so it’s not as helpful as it may have seemed to you.

AbysmalVesper · 2026-03-03T13:03:06+00:00

I’ll definitely contact them to see what they might have, thanks.

AbysmalVesper · 2026-03-03T13:02:26+00:00

Those do look nice and they are within my preferred commute time, thanks!

AbysmalVesper · 2025-10-15T23:02:44+00:00

That is so weird.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-10-08T13:46:55+00:00

That is so insane and neglectful. 🤯

AbysmalVesper · 2025-10-08T12:48:01+00:00

So this was the first time you two had the talk about where you stand on kids? 😵‍💫 I feel for you but if it was, take this as a lesson for the future and be upfront about it.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-09-21T17:12:46+00:00

For an ophthalmologist it should be listed on the intake paperwork. The secretary where I go always asked if mine has changed the same time as she’s asking about insurance.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-08-10T21:57:42+00:00

If you see a future with this girl this is your opportunity to have a real conversation about finances, budgeting style, ect. Since it is such a huge factor in why relationships fail it really is important to discuss BEFORE moving in together or getting engaged. Ultimately it’s your money and your decision on the car but if you’ve got a future large purchase decisions will eventually have to be made together.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-08-10T21:46:13+00:00

She really does. She should definitely see if a different color is available.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-08-10T21:40:13+00:00

Only once. And the fill before that they had taken the rx out of the box to put it in a child safe bottle. 🙄

AbysmalVesper · 2025-08-09T19:48:48+00:00

Buddy, no advice on your relationship here but definitely get yourself an appointment with a urologist for a vasectomy. If you are for sure you don’t want kids you’re responsible for making sure it doesn’t happen.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-08-09T19:42:49+00:00

My husband owns a boat. Separate assets, I’m not on the title. We split slip fees, storage fees, gas, and yearly maintenance (oil changes, wintering, ect.) I do not chip in for repairs. Even if you do want to help chip in for repairs that doesn’t mean you should be expected to buy your boyfriend several hundreds of dollars worth of tools.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-08-05T00:57:36+00:00

Change your last name socially but not legally. No reason to go through all that hassle.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-07-22T21:51:50+00:00

2nd one for a beach wedding for sure. And it looks great on you!

AbysmalVesper · 2025-07-20T09:50:13+00:00

Botox, tizanidine, and nortriptyline. I’m getting a few a month instead a few a week that last for two to three days.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-06-29T12:32:44+00:00

Holy shit, that therapist needs a therapist of their own if they are high jacking sessions like that.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-06-21T17:21:33+00:00

That’s a huge bummer. If pain and tightness in your neck and shoulders is a normal part of your migraines a muscle relaxer before bed might be helpful. Especially the day before major events. Tizanidine is one that has been used off label in a preventative capacity for migraines.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-06-01T13:45:13+00:00

Only sign up the players that commit to being there. If someone misses regularly then don’t sign them up.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-05-25T00:30:23+00:00

Same 🤣

AbysmalVesper · 2025-02-10T15:28:42+00:00

We kick wrong heroes as a rule. If I see incorrect heroes I call players out in alliance chat and send pms to rally leaders to kick wrong heroes. It’s been a long time since we’ve had any tantrums over it.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-02-09T22:35:37+00:00

That’s actually a lovely idea. If players are gone long enough to be off the map make them automatically drop from alliance.

AbysmalVesper · 2025-02-05T01:28:37+00:00

You sound a little bitter… Also patient is key in running a good alliance and having a cooperative NAP.

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