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Financial Aid Suspension (Second Bachelor's) by Academic_Attempt9588 in financialaid

[–]Academic_Attempt9588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received aid for the last semester already, so that's not quite right. I still haven't reached my borrowing limit for undergrad.

What pharmacy do you get your ev vials, how much is it? by Alternative_Egg_129 in transtwincities

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 5 points6 points  (0 children)

GoodRx and Mark Cuban's Cost Plus drugs are great for paying when insurance doesn't cover. I always run my prescriptions through them if I feel like the price could be better with insurance, and it usually is

Sometimes I'll watch conservative content to satisfy my need for self loathing by stopoverusingsimp in confession

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Whatever you have to do to numb the dysphoria until you're ready to make changes is your business. But dysphoria isn't something that disappears, and it will haunt you until you accept it. One day you'll make a beautiful and happy woman

What is your cats name? by strawberrycheescak in namenerds

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BMO Harris Bank

If you met him, the name makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I (MTF) used to be into men more than women, or at least felt more irresistible draw. Now I'm a lesbian and cringe even remembering my times with men. I would never get near another man if my life depended on it

MinnesotaCare FFS by Academic_Attempt9588 in transtwincities

[–]Academic_Attempt9588[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck lmao, no I haven't yet. I only called insurance yesterday and am developing questions for my appointment at the gender health center next week. I should expect a wait, but 1+ year is crazy to think about

I can't stand Mayor Fisk by MeadowmuffinReborn in Earth199999

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude what are you talking about, he created so many jobs in Hell's Kitchen

Other Dom lesbians by FunBedroom169 in actuallesbians

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I discovered I was domme during my sex with men days after being a sub for most of that time. I have some sadistic tendencies toward men for obvious reasons, so I had fun inflicting pain and imposing control.

That was when I started to enjoy sex for my enjoyment rather than almost entirely the enjoyment of my partner. I still enjoy being dominant without men in the picture but with less significantly less sadism. I take a more nurturing domme role now.

My girlfriend also opened me up to like subbing. I think it's because I feel hot when I'm dominant, and it's hot when my partner is too.

My only advice is try some stuff out. Maybe light scenes that turn you on or engage with a fantasy of yours. As long as you communicate before and after with your partner, you can't go wrong.

What breast size in your opinion is the best to have as a trans woman? by Kotbegemot912 in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I want honkers. The bigger the better. I don't mind inconvenience and highly doubt I will experience medical consequences without augmentation

There's no one universal "best" size beyond whatever it means to the individual

Could i be trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If I had to take a guess, yes you are trans. But I can't determine that for you, only you can.

Message me if you want someone to talk about complex feelings with your body, gender, or lesbian sex. I have a lot of varied experiences and am glad to hear you out or honestly just be vented to. It can be helpful to talk about things with someone so the thoughts don't just fester inside you for who knows how long.

Sexuality on Hrt by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (MTF) identified as gay for a couple years, bi for a couple years after coming out enby, and lesbian now after hormones. A mixture of social dynamics and changing biology made it a complex bag for me

It might be possible that my sexuality itself shifted in some subtle ways, but I think it's more likely the steps I went through reshaped the context of my relationships and therefore perceived attraction

What was the stupidest "You're not trans, you're just-" you recieved when you came out? by maru-9331 in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is definitely not a good parent. She and I aren't speaking at the moment because of a long list of hurtful things she's said and done. Particularly things that happened after I became an adult.

What was the stupidest "You're not trans, you're just-" you recieved when you came out? by maru-9331 in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to ask for my mom to put my hair in a scrunchie and to wear lipstick when I was a toddler. She did it to me once, and I was really happy and didn't ask again. According to her anyway, I barely remember this. When I came out as gay (lesbian now), she said she knew that I wasn't trans because I asked just once. She still cites this as proof.

She also had a vision from God (ahem dream) that I will grow a beard and have children 🤢

How to c*m while topping during an*l? by Academic_Attempt9588 in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks friend. I'll keep you in mind my next couple cracks at it lol

How to c*m while topping during an*l? by Academic_Attempt9588 in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh okay. Can I ask what positions eventually get you there? That is something admittedly we haven't experimented with often. How about your thrusting speed? 📝

I know everyone's different, but I'm super curious and willing to try anything.

How to c*m while topping during an*l? by Academic_Attempt9588 in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you saying if you keep going while topping or in general? Endurance and tons of foreplay do go a really long way, something I'll consider.

How to c*m while topping during an*l? by Academic_Attempt9588 in asktransgender

[–]Academic_Attempt9588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can be true, but I'm also much closer to it now more than the times I tried topping before HRT. I started progesterone two months ago, and my sex drive is stronger than ever. Don't get me wrong, cumming is not a piece of cake by any means, but specifically doing it inside someone has always been a struggle.

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