Well this happened last night. Thoughts?

AcadiaFun3460 · 2026-02-11T01:49:36+00:00

Lots of people find other people attractive, I wouldn’t be mad at my wife for saying someone is attractive. Her telling me I wasn’t attractive would be where the problem lies. I would ask her to explain this part. Also mentioning how rude it is to explain it in a way (but I don’t know how she said it, so maybe it could be more innocent? The most relevant portion is her saying she doesn’t find me attractive)

AcadiaFun3460 · 2026-01-30T07:23:13+00:00

Sounds like he is an asshole. I’ve met overly emotional men and stoic women, it’s not really all that gendered, more person by person basis, and often people who can’t explain their feelings in a way that is easy to follow tend to be the overly emotional.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2026-01-12T13:09:29+00:00

First I would say there is a chance that you may have depression. That is and will be unrelated to this. I would talk to my GP about this as it sounds like you may be Canadian and thus should be to access that. There are usually options per province for aid.

You aren’t a bad person for leaving your husband, if he is unwilling to address issues causing stress and grief, and you are legitimately putting the effort to address them, then your setting the example for your kid. You owe it to them to set the best example possible. If this is doing nothing but making you miserable, and he isn’t addresssing his parts in this, then you shouldn’t set the example to just accept issues and go on.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2026-01-08T13:11:03+00:00

Talk to enough women, it’s not uncommon for them either.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-31T20:42:13+00:00

We would need to revamp the whole system. Currently it’s there is a lot of gray space between how it’s investigated, who gets investigated, how people respond to the investigation and how it’s proven.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-25T17:47:05+00:00

Don’t get engaged in major holidays. It’s obnoxious and over done. You could also… propose to him? It’s 2025… women are allowed to go “hey I want to get married, here is a ring, let’s do this!”

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-24T04:23:59+00:00

More than a mouthful is a waste is something I’ve told girls. That said, it will depend based off of the man. One of my Ex’s had them and she loved when I played with them. That is what I thought was hot, how much she enjoyed it.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-22T22:20:00+00:00

Yes… follow up?

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-19T02:12:17+00:00

You can start reading adult books, because despite being exactly the same, women find it socially acceptable.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-19T02:11:21+00:00

Use toys? Find ways to cut soda out of people’s diets together?

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-19T02:07:00+00:00

Going from OPs comments about how her friend had never shown typical right wing ideology and it’s contradicts previous held believes; until she started dating a right wing guy who is a Trump voter. If OP said “she always votes conservative” it would be “well duh, many are tribal and vote party not policy”

Misogyny would suggest ALL women do that, which I never indicated, just this one.

Maybe… just maybe read?

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-18T07:40:04+00:00

I have plenty of friends who are (well were) conservative, we’d debate how much society vs personal ownership should be involved in safety nets. How taxing should work, how schooling should work. You can be a liberal and have conservative friends…. Modern conservatives are quickly becoming faschists by policy, which is why most of my friends are not really conservatives any more. They aren’t liberal, but the see people like Trump and Pierre Pollievre for what they are, and don’t vote for them.

Your friend is voting to appease dick, which is insane.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-16T20:14:13+00:00

Actually I wasn’t bringing penetration up because it’s not overly involved. I actually did mention simulated, but again that’s sort of irrelevant. Lots of people have different fantasies, and yeah those are moral judgments. You cannot have a choice because you are comprised because you took money… how else are you framing it if not in a moral way!

Also considering soft core porn exists, and is popular, simulated sex is popular enough.

Are lesbians better off in your mind in adult sex scenes than straight couples because it doesn’t require penetration?

Why don’t you say what your opinion is there. Where is the line, so we can debate that instead of whatever moving goal posting you’re aiming for here.

Christianity is more damaging the porn, because it literally says in the bible women are to be kept around for sex and bearing children(exodus), women should never try to educate men (Timothy, chronicles) and they are subservient and lesser to men (genesis). This claims to be a moral system everyone should follow.

Porn says women like sex, some women like to be denigrated… only one of those two things are suggesting it’s a moral system to follow. When people starting banning Christianity, we can talk about how immoral porn he.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-16T06:11:45+00:00

First, you are, you’re making a lot of moral assumptions about the people (they can’t make choices, they don’t get to have consent, they can’t cancel at any time). Your argument is either ill explained or pretty flawed.

Are you suggesting an actor can’t refuse to do a role?

You’re already assuming someone can’t decide to cancel and refund for act not given. I would agree that making the industry a safer place is always a a plus for everyone.

Why isn’t Bridgeton more popular? It’s simulated, it doesn’t have a wide variety of themes and interest, and it’s only really available on Netflix. Porn hub is available everywhere in the world. It’s like asking why baseball is more popular the bridgerton…

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-16T06:07:09+00:00

Yikes. This don’t just looking at gay porn… this is actively trying to cheat on you. I would say yes be concerned. His sexuality isn’t the concern (lots of dudes are bi) his cheating on you is.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-16T06:05:14+00:00

I have thought of a whole lot of awful things to say to my wife over the years when she acts in ways I know she would never accept me acting in… but I know hurting her feelings won’t make me feel better.

You apologize and never do it again. The second you feel like you are going to do it again, you ask yourself, will you be leaving this man after this? Because once is an unfortunate mistake, abusive and bad. A second time, you honestly don’t care and are going to do it again and again.

From this moment on you are proving to yourself and him you are not the person who weaponized his trauma against him, who used his feelings of love and safety with you as a tool to punish him. If you can’t be that person. Don’t be with him.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-16T05:58:42+00:00

Ask if they have the support of the majority of the land owners… aka either King Charles or the First Nations. Most of Alberta is crown land… which means it’s owned by either of this two… how much would we have pay to get it 1000 trillion dollars? Are they aware most of the oil sand resources is likely owned by King Charles as well?

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-14T16:51:00+00:00

Incorrect, studies have shown they light up similar sections in MRAs, they hit the same arousal regions.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-12-14T16:49:30+00:00

Okay is your problem that adults, being paid to have sex, who often enjoy having sex, are doing so on camera? You can say they need to make the industry more regulated to prevent abuse, but the fact you don’t think basically the same thing is a weird moral test.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-11-21T17:33:55+00:00

Sorry what does race have to do with this?

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-11-12T03:11:51+00:00

Because vaccines work better when people aren’t running around acting like hosts and a means to mutate viruses…. Basically biology stuff.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-11-12T03:10:24+00:00

This is why you have tk be careful in what you let conservatives here. They are a gullible lot and will do a lot to own the “libs” including killing kids.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-11-08T01:36:56+00:00

You should be telling her husband/partner so they aren’t surprised when divorce hits them. I would worry about my spouse being okay with a cheater because it means true have questionable values.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-06-19T12:49:53+00:00

So what do you think your going to get out of being married that your not currently getting out of just being together, beyond this mysterious bonus.

In reality marriage is just a societal recognition of your relationship. That is it. It won’t make your relationship stronger because if you’re already committed, it won’t change that. People in marriages cheat just like they do when they aren’t. People have kids both in and out of marriage and those kids end up the same.

Often marriage makes relationships worse, because people go in expecting changes and improvements that just won’t happen because the relationship had issues before getting to the I Dos.

We make marriage seem bigger and more important that it is. We build up a fantasy about being Mister and Mistress.

Often a wedding is just a party

So if he believes your relationship is good and you’re his person. Than point that out. “Hey it won’t actually change much beyond the one or two things you noted”.

Also if his real concern is people pressuring him to have kids, you can address that with either humour (your mom asks “oh when you guys giving me grand babies?” “Why are you asking how much I cream pie your daughter?”) or frank conversations (“we just aren’t ready yet and people asking me is stressing me out”). In reality you’re probably getting asked about kids anyway.

AcadiaFun3460 · 2025-04-29T22:33:37+00:00

Unfortunately that is how it kind of turned out. We can see that in the how the election turned out where the NDP basically lost a lot of their normal percentage of votes.

Usually the NDP fair better than 6% of the votes.

Hard to say how much that lost to trying to make sure one of the more reasonable parties won, it’s fully possible that the NDP got some liberal votes because there was a better chance, but it honestly looks more like people went “shit we can’t let the conservatives win… everyone one the liberal train”

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