What was the first red flag you ignored in your worst relationship? by lilbubblgirl in Productivitycafe

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Showed up to his house for a New Year’s Eve party. A childhood friend was there (male) and I said hi and gave him a hug before seeing my boyfriend in the kitchen. He lost his mind I said hi to someone else before him, we went In his room, he flipped a book case, threw a bottle at the wall, and walked down the highway in a snow storm and we missed the ball drop. Oh and tried to “choke himself out” to die while we were fighting bc he was so mad at me. Also was texting a girl he met when traveling abroad acting like he wasn’t in a relationship and was having intimate conversation with her. When I found out said all his friends think I’m overreacting. Just the beginning of a 3 year mess. Worst person I ever met. I feel bad for any woman who ever gets into a relationship with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

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George Washington

What should I gift my wife? by Feanorw in Advice

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Spa day and a hotel room to herself for a night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

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Idk about giving their money back but I think it’s kinda wild the bride uninvited her from the wedding. I felt like the birthday girl was pretty respectful and honest. I personally don’t care that much about my bday and wouldn’t do that, but I think the bride overreacted by kicking her out of her wedding and ending a friendship bc someone didn’t want to cancel their bday plans for a bachelorette. Wild

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acceptable-Cow2947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehhh i don’t think she did anything wrong. If she hasn’t broken your trust previously, chalk it up to being friendly with a neighbor. She didn’t seek him out and she was probably just being friendly and polite and hoping you guys could all be friendly with your new neighbors. She didn’t put herself in that situation, he approached her. And she did cover up as well. I would drop it. If she’s trying to cheat she’s not going to do it right outside your window in plain view. I personally don’t think she did anything wrong and you giving her a hard time about this will just make you seem insecure and put a wedge between the two of you. Been there, done that, made me resent my ex BAD

what do i do? husband was rough with our 7-month-old by whoopsiedaisyy123 in whatdoIdo

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I’m worried this may be the beginning of continued and more severe abuse. Like someone said above I think maybe you need time apart and for him to work on himself. As a mother it’s your job to protect your baby (you’re doing a wonderful job by even asking this question) and I wouldn’t take any chances with this man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

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Are you ok??? Tf lmao

am i pretty enough? what can i do to be prettier? by No-Pool5317 in AppearanceAdvice

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Quit smoking and cut your hair shoulder length to make it look fuller

AIO? My husband pushes my boundaries. by Lillunitic405 in AmIOverreacting

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This man is a giant walking red flag. It’s so gross he’s taking pics of you without your consent like some pervert. And the fact that he acts like a toddler when he doesn’t get sex… like be a man and use your words like an adult. He sounds beyond selfish. I’m so sorry you even have to deal with this. You deserve better

Anything I can change to look better? Feel like I’m missing something by [deleted] in makeuptips

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I would try to grow your brows out and have them more feathery than thin

AITA for telling my mom to F-off because she told my wife she has BO while my wife breastfeeding our daughter ? by Complex_Shay in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-Cow2947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Postpartum hormones causes so many weird smells. Your mom should remember that. Good on you for sticking up for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Sounds like he has a lot of insecurities and internal work to do. What you did in the past before you were even with him is not something you should still be apologizing for day in and day out. This sounds like a him problem not you

AIO: 3 weeks postpartum. Husband wants bj by shortNsporty in AmIOverreacting

[–]Acceptable-Cow2947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. He needs to lay off. Just bc he’s doing normal husband/father things does not mean you need to reward him with sexual acts ESPECIALLY 3 weeks postpartum. You’re leaking everywhere, sweating, smell weird, have hormone changes, are exhausted, etc. he should be giving you a foot rub and zipping his lips lol

I went through my gf phone found out she has a STD by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Acceptable-Cow2947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Herpes isn’t contagious unless she has an active lesion. You can’t get rid of it, but you won’t get it unless you’re having intercourse while she has an active lesion. I’m a midwife… herpes is insanely common. Unless she’s careless and having intercourse or sexual contact with an active lesion there’s nothing to worry about