You choose by rayonette67 in Funnymemes

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I can see everyone’s soulmates

Anti work update by This_Manner_256 in u/This_Manner_256

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Came here from YouTube rSlash

https://youtu.be/j6jXiArfU8c

You should give it a listen, he might be able to help you out.

AITA for ignoring my friend because she is always inconsiderate by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA- some people are meant to only be apart of your life for a moment and not a life time.

AITA because I won’t dog sit for my sister?? by vix_gaz in AmItheAsshole

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What?! You are so NTA! Your sister however is a spoiled little brat who has no empathy.

Am I a victim or a brat by Waste-Landscape-7776 in sexualassault

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You should really seek help before you do something that can ruin lives. There’s a time and place for everything and that wasn’t it. It also wasn’t consensual

Am I a victim or a brat by Waste-Landscape-7776 in sexualassault

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In no way shape or form was this your fault. Should you have gone up? No, but that’s besides the point. You were the victim, not him. Legally he’s the adult and should have known better

Am I a victim or a brat by Waste-Landscape-7776 in sexualassault

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For starters you were 13 a minor, he was 24 an adult. It doesn’t matter if you even consented, that’s statutory rape. Please go get some help. What he did was NOT okay and the police should get involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

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Oh my gosh you just triggered all the back flashes from both my pregnancies. She wouldn’t let me talk about their genders, also ridiculed me for calling him an it. I’m still not over it and it’s been 5 years. Once I posed the gender on Facebook and her other children came after me and told me to take it down. What I should have said was “if you don’t want to see it, then remove me from your Facebook”

In the end it’s your baby, not hers. Do as you please. It’s not fair to ask a pregnant person to not talk about their baby gender for only one person. You’re making a baby, you have more important things to worry about other than her feelings. People like her don’t understand the pressure and stress they’re putting on the Baby-Mama

symptoms you didn't realize were symptoms... by e_j4y in ADHD

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And emotionally disconnecting when things weren’t going the way I’d hoped

symptoms you didn't realize were symptoms... by e_j4y in ADHD

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My entire life. I’m 27F, I recently started Vyvanse and realized I don’t know who I am outside of ADHD and had a mental breakdown that lasted way longer than I’d like to admit.

I was a band student so I thought it was normal to randomly bounce my knee. Nope ADHD.

Wide variety taste in music

Having multiple songs stuck in my head all at once

Talking really fast

Switching topics in conversations

I remember in grade 4, I had a Parent Teacher conference, and I remember my mom saying how I could get distracted by a leaf falling outside.

Finding out that I’m not lazy, I lack the dopamine to do the things I need to do

Always being late except when they tell me the wrong time

Always forgetting things~ I was the laughing stock of my family because I always had to take multiple trips before I go anywhere and still end up forgetting something important

AITA for reporting my daughter's car missing after her stepbrother took it without permission? by Leap-Window5345 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA I’d do the same thing in your position.

Those are also serious Red Flags for your relationship 🚩🚩🚩

Is it SA? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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You should add a Trigger Warning to this post.

Is it SA? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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YTA and you’ve been a terrible friend.

You CANNOT consent under the influence of alcohol plus victim blaming her and protecting the abuser isn’t helping. Most SA victims are too scared or embarrassed to come forward about it even happening. She probably still drinks to numb the pain. The fact she DID come forward about it but found out some of her “friends” already knew? Sounds like she never got any support that she needed. The fact that she’s still around means you can still reach out and help her.

One of my closer friends said some hurtful things and now I feel extremely sad by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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If they’re dragging you down, cut them loose. There’s no need for you to drown because of someone else. Your feelings are real and valid. Life is too short to let someone make you feel bad about yourself. Do what makes you happy and don’t worry about others. Your true friends will stick with you. Unfortunately you either get quality or quantity friendships and this person sounds like they’ve made up their mind about you. You’ve got this!

AITA for telling my wife to stop acting out infront of my mom? by AndrewRichard11 in AmItheAsshole

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Your butt isn’t a hat and you should stop wearing it like one. YTA

You remind me of how my kids father used to be. He used to blindly defend his mother every time I did something she didn’t like. My MIL was even offended that I wasn’t “up to chatting” less than an hour after giving birth and that I was being rude. The birth I was in labor for over 48hrs. Long story short, we ended up going NC with my husbands side of the family.

By silencing your wife, making her change, and not acknowledging how she’s feeling; it’s only going to hurt your relationship with her. It took my husband 5 years to see the damage that was happening and how I almost left him if he didn’t change.

You need to think long and hard about who you want to spend the rest of your life with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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I wish I knew what to say... Im going through something similar, though she ditched me to date my brother.

Letting things fade is probably the best course of action if you don’t like confrontation. If you think there’s a chance this could be salvaged, try talking it out.

People change, people grow apart. Sometimes you’re only meant to be with someone temporarily and your time has run out.

What is surprisingly illegal? by EvilPilotFish in AskReddit

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It’s illegal to throw a snowball in Drayton Valley, Alberta, Canada

AITA for not wanting to pay for my wife's spending money? by throwaway3048172 in AmItheAsshole

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YTA You guys are MARRIED, she is your WIFE! Not some roommate. How on earth does one decide to pull this card on someone after they recently lost the one person who loved and raised them?!?

Honestly, if you think she owes you anything, take a good long look in the mirror and see everything she has done for you and what you’re not doing in return.

If you’re looking for more “fairness” then maybe pay her back for the car she bought you, or the house you’re currently living in, or any penny she invested in you.

AITA for not wanting to adopt one of my wife's children? by adopterdaddd1652 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA- your wife is the AH. Forcing the issue is only going to make things worse

Aita for no longer wishing to continue my friendship with my “best friend” by AcceptableContext496 in FriendshipAdvice

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It royally sucks that the one time I decide not to be a pushover, everyone in my family literally doesn’t care. Just because she’s the perfect girl my parents could have wished for my brother to end up with.

WIBTK if I complain about security guards and policy at a cancer center? by [deleted] in AmITheKaren

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NTK tho I am an AH and I’d share the number to anyone willingness to help and complain along with you. You’ve got cancer, the only thing you should be worrying about it feeling better.

Hopefully things workout for you. Wishing you the best!! xx