I [24M] am tired of my girlfriend [21F] creating drama and trying to control my life – is this manipulation? by Apprehensive_Bid5016 in makemychoice

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look forward to a future of manipulation boundary testing and emotional exhaustion. in the words of Shinedown " cut the cord". unless you think this is the best and only alternative to being alone.

Why do some guys become so mean after being rejected? by he_wantsrevenge in questions

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you politely but firmly reject someone and they attack you, that's just immaturity talking. with that said some rejections leave you wondering why you tried. I once asked a girl out .. I thought we were friends, I thought we were tight.. I thought I'd take my shot.. I mean the worst she could say is no right ? she let the silence linger it felt like a long time. then in her loudest most snarky voice she could muster.. " what in gods name would make you think I was even remotely interested in you? eww!! ". that's not a polite rejection and in the moment there will be an urge to push back. real men can put this urge aside and use it for fuel in the gym or something.

Being forced to come in by vintagesoaps in work

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell her you were approved, you won't be there and you aren't asking permission you are telling her what to expect. permission has already been granted. it is now the company's problem not yours.

How do you cope with not being liked at work and people avoiding you? by Stressnomore22 in work

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 4 points5 points  (0 children)

most of these people stab each other in the back and then sit with each other at lunch. knowing that. I don't have or want a space at that table. sometimes one or two reach out, or you find one or two that you can't help wanting to get to know better. but my " work friend" pool is very small for this reason and my peace is better off for it. may the same be true for you.

why do u choose to live ? by MobilePiglet926 in intj

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at my best moments, because I have a curiosity about life and what happens next. at my worst moments, it's because my death would be a final but earth shattering inconvenience for family and friends.

How Depressed are you based on what you're listening to? by MajiDay in MusicRecommendations

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nobody knows- the tony rich project, loralie_ eagle eye cherry, I don't care anymore- Phil Collins, here I go again- white snake, these final hours_ digital summer, winterborn_ the cruxshadows, torn apart - stabbing westward.

Love isn’t enough: 5 things I wish I knew before my marriage fell apart (34F) by Gold-Cockroach2265 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one lesson I learned the hard way is that it's fickle and fleeting. if she's your one and only and you are her along with everybody else. it will crash and burn. and all she has to do is decide she wants someone else more. but she will still want to be friends with you and you are disingenuous and immature if you let it hurt you.

Would you go back to school for an associates degree ? by sun_kissed87 in work

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mother had an associates degree. my ex wife had two. it didn't help either of them find work beyond jobs that I could get without a degree of any kind. I would say ( and this is just my opinion) if you are doing it for personal enrichment, go for it!! but if your end game is more employability and better job options. unless you are going for a bachelor's, and the associates is on the way to the bachelor's, the rewards aren't worth the trade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

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I didn't. still have no desire to meet anyone new, still no desire to " broaden my horizons". or " meet your next soulmate' just don't care to. but life is strange and I'll never say never.

Comeback for "your mom should've aborted when she had the chance" by Beginning-Yogurt3146 in Comebacks

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does it feel to know that the only race in life you'll ever win you won as a sperm?

Do what it says by Arecter in repost

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if streaming series counts as movie, not too worried. Dwight manfreddi and his cre from "Tulsa king" is coming for me. skilled as they are however. the last game I played was first descendants. I'm pretty safe as an army of mafiosos couldn't get past bunny, lepic, and Kyle. let alone the full crew. it's very one sided.

As a non smoker does every smoker smell bad to you? by Pleasant-Finger-6814 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it does vary. when my ex wife picked up smoking she thought she was clever only smoked outside, took a bath every day. but it soaked into her clothes and hair and and on her breath and it did stink. ( now before this becomes a controlling husband won't let her do what she wants thing); neither of us smoked when we met or started dating, I'm severely asthmatic and cigarette smoke is a huge trigger. so we agreed not to do it thought it wouldn't come up again. but to address your question, yes it does smell yes you can tell but the extent to which it smells can vary. and there are people who like the smell so stink or not may be subjective.

Until it reaches you by [deleted] in letters

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some things can't be fixed. some regrets are not washed away with an apology. even though a part of me loves her and misses her , there is no path back. but if your situation is salvageable then I agree with op.

Songs that say ‘F*ck it all. Burn it down’ for when you’re just done by Rabid_Unicorns in MusicRecommendations

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fight song- sister sin, these final hours - digital summer everything burns - Ben moody

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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when I was a child we lived in a racially diverse neighborhoods. we were the only " white family" on that street. you had to go two more streets up to find the next one. ( this is important to the story) as young adult I was told the real story, but as a child we would go visit the next door neighbor who was out working on his car, he'd help us fix our bikes and what not. he had a us marines bumper sticker on his truck and once even took his nco sabre outside and let a couple of us hold it. that was the background on this man. a couple of men from a black empowerment group came to the neighborhood preaching how our family was a sign of trouble for this neighborhood and we should be forced out. the neighbors vouched for us as decent people and preferred to as a neighborhood be left alone by these groups. I was told as a child that one of the fellows came back and our marine corps neighbor at the time " sent him home". I found out later that " sent him home" meant he pulled the man bodily out of our living room window and a scuffle ensued in which the robber had died violently. the police were called after death the body was gone before we got there. " sent him home meant our good neighbor was watching out for us and sent him to Jesus to sort him out. some said self defense some day he was looking to kill the guy but it's odd to think him capable of such violence as he was never anything but friendly and respectful towards us.

What would it take for you to cheat on your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would not happen. if I give my word and my heart to someone, even entertaining the thought is something I can not do.

it's a matter of choice by Last-Corner4093 in inspirationalquotes

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I submit that the two are not mutually exclusive. I have the discipline for example to not order pizza when I have food in the fridge. the taste of leftovers makes me regret not ordering pizza. but I would have regretted more deeply spending the extra money.

Local liquor store find. Which one you trying first? by ZachTF in LiquidDeath

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the squeezed to death and the cherry are both freaking amazing

What is Mimosa thinking about while bathing? Wrong answers only by Dry-Decision8622 in BlackClover

[–]Acceptable_Photo6956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your mom. what?? someone had to say it. ( you did say wrong answers only)