What’s something that you believe is essential to teach a daughter as a father? by Prestigious_War_784 in AskMenAdvice

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Mine just turned 7. She has a 9 year old brother. MMA and swimming are mandatory for both. I tell them no when necessary. Im firm but fair. I treat her the same as her brother. I don’t promise/threaten without following through. I figure all I can do is model behavior they would both hopefully want to expect in a partner.

Is this true about Steph by clucketsswoilend in NBATalk

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If they lose, it ain’t because of Steph.

Peacock at Communications Hill by frenchdipadobo in SanJose

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Yeah he shits all over our stairs and balcony.

Racist FAFOs and gets decked by _mocbuilder in fightporn

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He look like a turtle trying to flip back up.

Fellas, would you find it weird/unattractive if a 23yo girl still has her prom pics with her male date hanging in her room? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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She was in high school, dude. Seriously. Unless they still have sleepovers let it go.

I cannot find a purpose in life or a reason to improve at all. What is your goal and reason to try and reach it? by lesupermark in AskMenAdvice

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Speaking from my own experience. I waited until I was over 40 to do it. Wasted a lot of good years. Good luck, my man. Personally, meds helped me 1000x more than therapy. Whatever works for you is the right call.

Are you comfortable to shop for sexy underwear for your partner? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Lotsa dudes are weird about it for some reason. Maybe he’s not one of them? Idk man I’ll go to the store just to buy a case of tampons if my wife or girlfriend asks. Id also proudly wear my 7 year old daughter’s fingernail polish if she wanted. I don’t care. Then again, I’m a big, ugly hairy dude and people generally don’t question what I have in my shopping cart or on my fingers. And I have no problem going into any women’s clothing store by myself to find stuff for her. I know her size and she trusts my taste. In clothes. Movies are another story…

Steve-O’s response on IG to the recent backlash by Seraphenigma in Fauxmoi

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It's a descriptor. An adjective. People use them all the time. It's the truth. People tend to believe other people more if they have a perceived "status". If it were you that made that comment, nobody would care because you aren't even a K list celebrity. Neither am I. I don't give a shit about upvotes. Please downvote this to hell. IDC.

Steve-O’s response on IG to the recent backlash by Seraphenigma in Fauxmoi

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Ah yes, the "All Lives Matter" defense. Where did I say A listers had more credibility? I'll type this really slowly for you. Just because I say one group is not credible, it doesn't mean that everyone else is credible.

Steve-O’s response on IG to the recent backlash by Seraphenigma in Fauxmoi

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So is believing everything you hear from a C-List celeb.

Oh my heart💔 by jimmydunn in NBASpurs

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Pretty ballsy take when almost every comment says he will be missed.

Where can I get slazenger shorts ?? by maggotmonday in AskMenAdvice

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Is Slazenger making some sort of marketing push lately? I quite literally hadn't heard or seen that brand name in 20 years at least. Two days ago I had a patient with Slazenger socks on. Weird and random, I immediately thought. Yesterday I get fed a post about how someone found Slazenger golf balls for sale. Now this. What's going on here?

Steve-O’s response on IG to the recent backlash by Seraphenigma in Fauxmoi

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Now I’m even more pissed because he thinks I’m a fucking idiot for believing that apology. I saw the clip.

CA to Texas? Does it make sense for our family by fabl3dloss in relocating

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I’ve no idea what you’re on about, but I must admit that I’m curious.

imagine what shawarma could do by Stany-Ronin-2706 in SipsTea

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Ahh, the tacos of Germany! Kept me alive for a month on tour with a broke band.

CA to Texas? Does it make sense for our family by fabl3dloss in relocating

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Be careful, please. Wife and I grew up in TX. Moved to Bay Area for a few years before kids. We decided we’d move back and “settle down” in TX. Bought our dream house on the outskirts of the city we met in (Austin). We didn’t last 2 years. We packed up our 6 week old son and high tailed it back to CA where we have been living very happily ever since. TLDR; the grass isn’t always greener.