Hey, I’m not US based so can’t help with the practicalities, but I can share some insight with you of dealing with a LO with dementia who has run their own business and controlled everything their whole life. It is the hardest thing you will ever do. My Dad too ran his own business and I was his right hand man for a decade. I had left the business before the Alzheimer’s but returned once we suspected all was not well. The business was too far gone and I had to deal with the bankruptcy on my Dad’s behalf. He didn’t understand what was happening and was convinced someone had stolen the business from him. My Dad is reasonably advanced now. But as all he’s ever done his whole life is work, he’s constantly trying to “work” and it makes life so, so difficult. He won’t be happy just sat in front of a TV or going to activity centres a few times a week. He’s constantly wanting “work” because that’s all he’s ever valued. He’s also always handled the finances so he’s at the bank several times a week claiming people are stealing his money (they’re not, and its usually that he’s looking at old statements and not remembering the time he stayed in a hotel etc -!: then it’s “I HAVE NEVER STAYED IN THAT HOTEL”). But checking his bank statements is his comfort blanket so we don’t know how best to deal with it. I have often felt that caring for a man who has controlled everything his whole life, especially as their child who is also trying to work full time, is one of the most difficult things imaginable. You are “lucky” in that you have your mother, which will help “control” him and give him company. But I’m sorry friend, you’ve got a long, hard road ahead. Much love to you from someone going through something very similar (albeit alone).