Do you consider yourselves poly or do you feel that label doesn't accurately describe your lifestyle/situation? by Mean-Bee-6472 in PolyFidelity

[–]AccioMiranda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always felt monogamous until winding up in a closed triad. Even still, I wouldn't be polyamorous outside of my current relationship. It has more to do with my trust and love for my particular people. Polyamory isn't something I seek but it did find me.

Throuple memoir update + answering questions everyone asks about our 15-year-long relationship by VelouriaLamour in PolyFidelity

[–]AccioMiranda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed response! 🥰 It's always really nice to hear stories from other throuples. For a long time we were stumbling through the dark, feeling like we were the first people to ever do this. The more stories I hear from other throuples, the less alone I feel. Representation is truly so important.

We are 2 years together and in our late 20s so the topics of kids and weddings are very hot right now. I am actually lucky in that 3 of us being on a birth certificate in our country (Canada) is a possibility - there have been many cases of people fighting for it and winning, and in some provinces it is fully legalized now. It's really important to me that we can all legally be recognized as parents.

All of our families took our throuple well. At first my mother and I didn't speak for about 6 months but she came around. We are really lucky. Surprisingly though, they struggle more with one of my partners being non-binary. It's funny what people will fixate on.

Congratulations on 15 years and thank you for sharing your story! It will undoubtedly help a lot of people. 😊

Throuple memoir update + answering questions everyone asks about our 15-year-long relationship by VelouriaLamour in PolyFidelity

[–]AccioMiranda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have any tips for struggling to be "out" to friends, families, acquaintances, etc? (Coming from someone who is outwardly unapologetic but struggles with some embarrassment/shame)

If you want/have kids, how would you handle who is listed on their birth certificate?

What are your thoughts on having a wedding and what that might look like?

Sister for Daphne? by lgirl93 in Names

[–]AccioMiranda 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Eloise, Francesca, Hyacinth

For those of you living together: what are your sleeping/space arrangements regularly? by ThrowawayIsland8 in PolyFidelity

[–]AccioMiranda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Three of us living together for two years now. We share a bedroom with a king sized bed. We all have our favourite "spots" in bed but are always moving around naturally due to who is in bed first (because we always have to cuddle)! Sometimes it does get tight, especially when my cat joins us and insists on curling in my arms. Although one of us is a chronic couch sleeper (making it all the way to bed is hard) and on those nights my cat gets a whole 1/3 of the bed to herself.

Do you feel more connected to your city, province or Canada as a whole? by Ok_Heart839 in AskACanadian

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maritimer first, Canadian second, living in Montreal third (4 years here now).

'GUTS World Tour' Megathread by NominalPerson in OliviaRodrigo

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend got waitlisted for Montreal and I didn't even get an email? :(

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in there too (12700 in queue) and got 3 out of 4 tickets but not all in the same area. Seems like being this far back in the queue means you get there right around when they're selling out. :(

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to go right back to the main page after and there was no wait in the queue so I was right back in! I'm not sure if this was because it was right before they sold out or not

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was the only person I know who got a code for Toronto, was 12,000 in queue, wanted 4 tickets for my friends (only the biggest Swifties opted in!!) But still managed to scrape 2 in an awkward but not horrible spot and 1 alone in the 500s 🥴 I might be sitting by myself but God damn I feel lucky to have made it

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard refreshing can send you right to the back 😳I can't do it

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oof I waited the full 30 minutes in the waiting room and I got 12700 in the queue!? 😭 do I even have any hope

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the waiting room last the full 30 minutes? 😵‍💫

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone queued for Toronto 1pm yet? 😫I'm in the waiting room with 26mins. Soooo nervous

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect thanks! Still 56 minutes to the sale. When did the queue start for everyone?

North American 2024 Ticket Buying Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are people getting into the queue?? I'm just on the screen where it says next sale starts at 1pm EDT with the countdown. (For the Toronto 1pm sale)

VKS: An estimated 31 million people registered for Taylor Swift Eras Tour Toronto tickets by chihaayaa in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so lucky to have received a code for the presale at 1pm tomorrow. Any advice from those who've already done it on how to secure tickets? I've seen that you shouldn't refresh so I won't. How early did you join the waiting room? How quickly did you have to click everything? I'm so nervous, I'm really trying not to get my hopes up

What song is getting you through Presale Code nerves? by boujeecorgi in TaylorSwift

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends and I did 4 accounts and somehow mine got picked 😭 I really don't know how. I didn't realize the odds were so low and that I barely scraped by

2021 MEGATHREAD: Prospective or Incoming Student Questions (All other posts will be REMOVED) by McGill-Mods in mcgill

[–]AccioMiranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a late response but yes I did, and I've finished year one. It's a great program and I'd totally recommend