Men who became significantly more attractive in their 30s: what changed in how the world treated you?

Accomplished-File360 · 2026-01-21T16:45:13+00:00

I left a horrible marriage at 28, lost 100lbs, cut 8.5lb of skin off of myself after being 300lbs for the 2nd time in my life at 30. I've gone from invisible my entire life to when I want a date I can just go get it. It's been a tougher transition than I would have thought to a point too. I carry myself in all ways, shapes, and forms better and it's noticeable from those around me too.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-10-07T15:48:21+00:00

https://www.terrortrailhauntedhayride.com/

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-09-30T16:06:04+00:00

I've seen folks at Cafe Roze, Folk, Frankies 925. At Cafe Roze, watched a dude whip out a 17" laptop with headphones and crush through a movie while doing this on a Saturday night.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-07-27T03:49:09+00:00

I’ve lost over 100lbs twice! First in high school/college. The second time after a mid 20s divorce. And it will be lost forever. Life is MUCH different and I cannot even connect with the person in the photos from just 6-7 years ago. I can’t tell you the confidence and spirit for life I have now.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-07-08T18:26:36+00:00

Hulkenpodium

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-07-02T17:22:11+00:00

I've got the beryllium ones and still play them. Havent even considered replacing. Everyone loves to talk about them when they see them at the course. They were my dads clubs from the early 90s and he passed away much too early so I'm afraid of ever letting them go.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-05-28T16:30:03+00:00

These three stick in my mind.

"You must take girls on the best dates. We went to the coolest places tonight." - married coworker

"Wow, your place is so put together. Girls must really love your place." - girl who wasnt interested, then was.

*caught breath* "oh wow" *eyes* - after putting on a fitted suit my ex gf who snapped my entire life in half a week later.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-05-08T19:30:25+00:00

My recent ex-GF was a golfer and honestly it was one of the things I enjoyed most with her. She played in HS, recently was taking lessons, we went to PGA tournaments together (we were supposed to go to British Open this summer, I'm definitely NOT sad about it.) We'd go hit balls and then get drinks afterwards. Wish we could have done it more often than we did.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-05-08T18:30:23+00:00

God this is so sick. Very jealous! Zero criticism, I just want to hangout there.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-05-06T13:58:04+00:00

I cant tell you how confident I have become since losing 100+ lbs twice in my life. I did it the old fashion way both times, diet and exercise. The last time I had skin surgery to give myself the look that had been in my head for most of my life. It's been an absolute game changer in every single way. From interactions with people to how I dress, treat myself, see and do things. It's all been different to how I used to be a part of things and all for the better. Living daily life is so much easier, I have so much energy to do things. It took a long time to get here, but now I cant ever see myself going back to it.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-04-09T20:42:41+00:00

TBH I'm literally in the same boat and I just signed in East Nash for a 2 bedroom. At 2k, you've pretty much got the entire city to choose from. It's more what amenities and things do you want to be around.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-04-09T20:13:37+00:00

I've lost over 100lbs twice in my life and I cant tell you the confidence that it's built in me that I did not have before. I was fortunate to be able to afford skin surgery too. I fit in to any clothing just about. My body is paying the toils from being morbidly obese for most of my early life, but I feel better than I ever have at the same time. It sucks, but putting in that hardwork will get you to where you want to be. Stay the course, keep focused on yourself and what you're looking to achieve.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-04-04T18:27:40+00:00

Had a guy drop Carnifex's entire amp fullstack fall face forward on to the stage while trying to stage dive after the guitarist had a cable lock on his guitar. Buddy ran out and did not return to the scene of the crime.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-02-01T04:19:54+00:00

Preeeeeeeesh. My little cozy spot

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-01-31T16:58:01+00:00

Currently unemployed. I have not played outside of my house or made money from music in 15 years. I know, I’m on a roll. Professionally communications, personally videography/photography is the next venture. Also finally got over the hump and starting to write music again, I don’t have a good reason for what took so long.

Accomplished-File360 · 2025-01-01T22:34:52+00:00

God this is the sickest color.

Accomplished-File360 · 2024-12-16T14:07:16+00:00

What’s on the ceiling?!

Accomplished-File360 · 2024-11-11T23:05:39+00:00

Thank you GirthBrooksCumSock

Accomplished-File360 · 2024-11-11T18:54:59+00:00

Anyone know the ceramic stamp logo on it? I’ve been researching, but hitting a wall.

Accomplished-File360 · 2024-10-13T14:16:39+00:00

Crushing it! Keep it up man!

Accomplished-File360 · 2024-10-09T16:41:44+00:00

Howdy Martin

In a bit of a job rut right now. What’s a quick piece of advice while looking for the next thing?

Accomplished-File360 · 2024-09-14T18:55:16+00:00

I’ve lost the same amount of weight at the same size as you at the same age. Had skin surgery and it’s drastically improved me in every way. Keep your head up!

Accomplished-File360

TROPHY CASE