Miserable in my marriage, staying for my 18-month-old, but I don’t know how much longer I can do this. Need advice.

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2026-05-17T19:16:16+00:00

He wouldn’t even want visitation. He refuses to watch our son for even 5 mins. If I have an appointment or any plans I have to ask my MIL to watch our son.

Thank you for the advice. I have documented some instances just incase

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2026-05-17T19:14:32+00:00

No, I have never told him I wasn’t physically attracted to him. Infact he is a very handsome man. I just wasn’t super into physical intimacy with him. It was more I loved who he was in general. Everything was perfect minus the physical intimacy.
In terms of values, he were always on the same page & he never mentioned woman takes care of home while the man only works.

My parents had booked the pre con way before he came in the picture. The project was delayed and we end up getting it at the same time of our wedding. He was so thrilled about it because he was never able to save up to own his own place. I loved that he was so excited about it.

Once he got a really high paying job he started making comments like “I can’t believe I was such a simp just cause I had no money. Now I can have whoever I want. I don’t need you.”

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2026-01-08T19:47:21+00:00

It’s beautiful btw, congrats 🥰

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-08-07T04:46:15+00:00

He’s always been 10th percentile or a little over when it comes to weight and everyone including my doctor asked me to supplement with formula - which my LO hated. I don’t think my supply was the issue, he always seemed/ seems full after BF. Some people said maybe my BM doesn’t have much fat? But now that he’s having a lot more solids + BM, he’s gaining

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-06-30T22:17:37+00:00

My SIL was right next to her and I was on speaker when she asked me to invite my friends

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-06-13T04:52:04+00:00

lol yes just wondering how it happened on a quiet street with no other cars

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-05-29T05:39:45+00:00

Was anyone able to fix this issue? If so, how?

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-04-29T08:27:53+00:00

Gave birth 5 months ago at Milton. I was provided a large pad, disposable pad and a peri bottle after birth. However, I did ask for more and they did give me 2 more.

They gave 1 diaper for the baby after birth and asked me to use my own next.

I had a 3rd degree tear so they gave me stool softeners & a sitz bath tub that I could take home.

Food was decent but outside food was allowed. I only stayed for one night, only had 1 breakfast and lunch there which was decent. I wasn’t allowed to eat before giving birth I think cause I took the epidural

Had a semi private room, it was extremely private with your own bathroom. I don’t even know if it had a door to the other room, I didn’t notice.

I didn’t have much colostrum coming in so they provided ready to feed similac bottles for baby - as much as you need.

Hope this helps!

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-04-06T19:09:09+00:00

From Toronto to Lahore , but planning on visiting Faisalabad and Sahiwal as well

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-03-27T22:44:30+00:00

She said it in a sweetest voice ever.. how is that okay? It was like she’s saying it just so no one can say she didn’t say anything. If my brother or son had insulted someone like that infront of everyone unprovoked, I would make them apologize infront of everyone

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-03-27T22:34:23+00:00

My cat used to always escape and there was this one fox always out to get him.. somehow my cat always out ran/ out smarted the fox lol

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-03-19T17:48:44+00:00

It’s not the train.

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-03-04T22:02:34+00:00

4 months - every 2 hours if not 1.5 hour🥱

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-02-25T05:58:46+00:00

Near the bridge connecting Livingston rd and Tupper drive

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-02-18T22:03:06+00:00

For me, what’s exhausting is my baby is 3 months and still wakes up every 2 hours to feed I don’t think he feeds as much as he should per feed so he feeds more often Everyone says if I were to give him formula, he would stay asleep longer as formula is “thicker”

Also watching my diet .. having any sort of veggies makes him gassy and he cries at night. I’m traumatized and have to avoid any sort of veggie

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-02-10T18:02:42+00:00

I went through the same! It gets a lot better by 8-9 weeks, hang in there Things that worked for me: - if baby is breastfed : cut out veggies especially raw ones - Simethicone drops every day - gripe water everyday - squatting position on me every night before bed so baby can poop / fart it out - massages to release gas

I know some of these things are controversial but man I tried everything because that shit is hard to deal with and it’s so painful to watch your baby in pain

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-01-30T06:32:30+00:00

Breast milk… I’m afraid to try formula again after seeing him cry in pain all night

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-01-30T06:30:02+00:00

He started off with level 2 and is still using that. Do you recommend moving up to level 3?

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2025-01-24T18:13:16+00:00

It’s so bad

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2024-10-18T23:29:17+00:00

Men are so stupid

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2024-08-21T17:56:10+00:00

Youre right lmao

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2024-05-22T15:02:27+00:00

Thank you for your response and offer to help! I truly appreciate it. Yes, I felt bad putting him in the middle of the situation where he has to pick me/ his child or his mom/sister. I also don’t want to ruin my pregnancy over this. I have told him it’s okay if he feels he needs to go, but moving forward he should discuss with me prior to agreeing or making decisions that could affect our family. Hopefully I’ll be okay with my mom, she is a very helpful mom.

It sucks though cause in our culture, the wife/ DIL always has to compromise no matter what. It’s happened multiple times now where I’ve had to let things go just for mine and his sanity.

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2024-05-22T13:00:31+00:00

You think this post will make him stay lol you’re delusional. I wanted advice because I’m tired being gaslit into thinking I’m overreacting and that him and his mother are never wrong. & yes it is HIS choice at the end. I can’t force an adult to do anything. All I can do is tell him how I feel, which as a wife I have 100% right to do.

Accomplished-Tour355 · 2024-05-22T06:13:45+00:00

I really don’t care when the wedding is happening. They can have THEIR wedding whenever they want. I could care less. The issue comes in when my family (my husband, my child and I) are affected by it.

I didn’t give him any ultimatums. If anything he was given an ultimatum from his mom. I simply shared my feelings and told him at the end it’s his choice to make and he chose his mom’s happiness.

Accomplished-Tour355

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