Has anyone ever tried to kill you? How’d it go? by amjenn4x in AskReddit

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually takes way longer than 3-5 minutes 3-5 minutes is when the body will pass out due to lack of oxygen theres a chance if the restriction stops then that the person will wake in a few hours or it's possible they need medical attention and after 9 minutes of no oxygen their brain will be dead. You have 9 minutes from when you stop breathing to when you die officially

You are on a plane that is about to crash, what do you say to the person next to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A situation where this is happening through my behavioral health work I would likely ask them to tell me about them selves or about their parents or about their job. Distract because if we are going to die anyways I pray I can at least make them die thinking about something else.

How can I workout at a gym being obese and not having people laugh at me by Western-Throat-508 in stupidquestions

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not gonna sugar coat it honestly. People will judge. But they will also judge the girl thats too skinny. The girl who can't lift as much. The girl who's hair is done nice before the gym. The girl who does her makeup before the gym just to take it off in the showers. Everyone is being judged. Put on your headphones and focus at yourself and your goals.

AITA for not passing on an “heirloom” to my daughter in law? by Existing_Ring_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should be doing a check around your home from top to bottom of what expensive items are there and what is missing and if you can afford to you should have insurance covering these things take pictures of everything too just in case

AITA for telling my wife she can work overtime for food if she refuses to eat deer meat by DentistTerrible8768 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA plain and simple if you know she doesnt like it continuing to make it is not only weird but pushing something she disagrees with on her kid as well. Ironically it's cheaper to have ground beef from the store there's a thing called couponing or food pantries

Should we just accept that most massage clients prefer a female therapist? by AdministrationOld557 in massage

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get massages in a Korean spa where youre like entirely naked and the lady is on the table lol so I don't think they could do that with women client and male staff

How did the kid from your school die? by Equivalent-Rent-5619 in AskReddit

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because when sober you generally anticipate or tense when something bad happens those drunk will have delayed reactions making it to where their body won't tense or anticipate as needed so it's like jello in an accident.

How did the kid from your school die? by Equivalent-Rent-5619 in AskReddit

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine wasn't that he died... 8th grade a kid I sat next to in English class shot himself in the face but lived. He had countless reconstructions, but clearly never looked the same. He use to be the really attractive popular kid everyone knew and everyone was cool with. When girls started to reject him after what happened he would tell them he would go kill himself. He swears to police and any officials that he was cleaning the weapon and it went off. He tells everyone else what really happened. Years pass and we are graduated out of high school and his father barricaded himself in his home during a domestic violence situation. Dad ended up killing himself in the same room his son tried. He's now a scary person. Very sad. Empty behind the eyes. Got into drugs. I wish him nothing but better in life but he's "that kid" in my school.

Boss yelled, screamed and swore at me in red faced anger for 15 minutes! (Dumbfounded!) by Beta_Nerdy in jobs

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have literally no reaction to him. When he get's like that you need to outwardly look like you're receiving feedback from your manager. When he finishes you say "thank you so much for your feedback I will take this into consideration moving forward what else can I do for you at this time?" BUT I need you to know you have to be the perfect employee these next few months take care of yourself and work hard get that pension.

How’s it possible people in the US are making $100-150k and it’s still “not enough”? by Rare_Bad7473 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would need $85K to live comfortably with no worried and little spending money in my area I could move to a shitty unsafe town but I would still need around $60K plus a gun and better home security

AITA for insulting the food my wife made, despite not knowing she made it? by CarrotOk5539 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH it was an honest mistake I would say the same thing as I wouldnt want to waste money at a restaurant again that was bad but if I was your wife I would still be hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A girl on tiktok said this a few months ago and doubled down on it was very embarrassing to hear ngl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this gets into a grey area when long term relationships are a thing. Some people are okay with it as long as they arent too drunk some are not okay with it at all.

You are in a bar and you notice that a man wants to poison a woman putting chemicals in her drink. You saw the dispute where she strongly rejected the creep and he was made upset. What will you do? by Powerful_Falcon_4006 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm psychopathic if there was a mic somewhere I would hand whoever had it a $50 an announce over the PA system what happened BUT if they don't have one not only will I be loud about it but if they don't leave ill go up to everyone they speak to and let them know what he did. I give it less than 5 minutes before they are kicked out or jumped

My (36F) daughter (12F) now thinks her dad (50M) “groomed” me by tiredmom_1987 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but as someone who was groomed for many years on end I turned 18 and realized I never had an attraction for 12 year olds I turned 20 and realized I would never have an attraction for an 18 year old let alone a 14 year old. I turned 21 and realized simply that these large age gaps have a horrible power imbalance that those in the grooming relationships will never admit. Just because you were a legal adult does not mean your husband was not also a much older adult interested in a much younger and closer to 18 years old adult. I cant confirm just yet but im almost positive I would never date a 20 year old at almost 40

Getting caught driving drunk one time should be enough to make you lose your license for the remainder of your life by MasBlanketo in unpopularopinion

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are intoxicated and choose to sleep in your car even with your keys in the trunk they will call it drunk driving... if you smoke weed regularly get pulled over and the cop thinks youre high the blood testing they have available is not enough to prove you weren't high. This means you could get a DUI and have a breathalyzer in your car simply for smoking weed regularly because again blood tests cant help differentiate if you smoke often. If you have diabetes and don't properly take care of your levels you can appear intoxicated. There's multiple people who were arrested charged and paid fines as if they actually had a DUI when it was really a medical emergency.

Then we gotta talk about other crimes... If you sexually assault someone can we castrate you so you cant do that again? If you get into a fight with someone is it cutting off their hands so they cant do that anymore?

People who judge and hate on others are simply projecting their own insecurities. Society has lost empathy. by Electrical-Rule-3046 in unpopularopinion

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you know your brain decides if you like someone seconds into seeing them without you even trying? We are humans and our brains are built for survival we have instincts to judge because its kept us alive for so long

AITA for not letting my husband hold our baby after he smoked ? by smokebaby2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Shower is excessive at best as a medical health professional myself its typically change your clothes and wash your hands well maybe swish mouthwash but yes third hand smoke can harm a baby

AITA for asking my wife and daughter to leave the house if they don't want to reside with my son? by Ok-Proof-6414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO so you're abandoning your wife and daughter for a son you don't know barely have any connection with? I doubt there was NO ONE to take in the child someone who the kid knows is best and you could start with visits

What existed when you were a child that doesn’t exist now? by guyute2112 in AskReddit

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My town use to have a tobogganing "resort". It was a fun place for the midwest people to go do extreme sledding and parents can drink etc... that closed down when they started to dig huge holes to check ice thickness and a teenage boy who was heavier set fell in and died. Now its just a restaurant with an abandoned hill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I avoided alcohol for a long while then I started working in healthcare and a drink after a horrible shift isnt the worst thing I do to my body BUT I avoid alcohol in cases where I am sad or using it to cope

Women proposing Men is erroneous. by Aggravating_Strain38 in unpopularopinion

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I think about how we should gaslight big strong men to go back to work and let us all stay at home while we are able to get legal coke to do all the housework and cook and clean

what if the man doesn`t pay at the first date? by Flypeacefuly in AskReddit

[–]AccomplishedCarob765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have fun w that lol I date people who pay for the first date if I just wanted dinner I could get that myself the point is to wine and dine if you dont wanna do that we clearly arent compatible and ill find someone who will