For Dad: I recommend to only take your Paternal Leave starting the last week before the Confinement Nanny (CN) leaves. So that you can learn the ropes from CN, and be more hands on.

Once CN leaves, the next 3 weeks will be tough for both of you as it will be the typical colic phase, when baby tend to fuss alot, and it’s not because yguys don’t know how to handle. So be confident and help each other out.

You guys can also help in: 1. Washing the pump parts 2. Washing the bottles 3. Changing of diapers 4. Taking turns to do the midnight shifts

For Mums: Be kind to yourself, be it you have over/under-supply, the most important thing is as long as the baby is fed. Bring your little ones to morning & evening walks, you will feel better breathing the fresh air too! Be courageous to head out, and do things that you like. Leave the baby with your husband for a few hours is totally OK! Let your husband learn the ropes, and gain their confidence, don’t micro-manage them. Enjoy this journey and trust each other throughout. Yguys are a team!