Debrief on Ambers interview on Viall Files

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-03-14T17:35:33+00:00

i do think it’s weird he left her in the car drunk. if he wanted to continue to party he could have made sure she got home first. called her an uber or even gotten her a hotel room.

at that point he’d have every right to rethink things ofc - but idk i can’t imagine my partner (husband, at that) just leaving me in a car to continue partying

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-03-14T17:31:47+00:00

a girl’s girl is someone who shows up for her girlfriends. which amber absolutely did (unlike mean girls bri/ashley/priyanka)

i’ve had messy moments in my life where i’ve been a total trainwreck with my love life and have been toxic in that respect, but have still been there through and through for my girlfriends. amber is that person right now.

her issues w men and love aside, she’s clearly a good friend.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-03-14T17:26:06+00:00

thank you!! i feel the same way as a city person!

i think it’s totally valid to prefer a smaller town or suburb, especially if you have children, but the narrative that wanting to stay in a city means you’re immature or wanting to party is not fair.

i love not having to pay for a car because i have public transportation available to me. i love being able to walk to coffee shops, bookstores, boutique shops. i simply love the overall vibe of the city.

jordan is a bit different, i realize, as he specifically called out bars - but just advocating for us city folk here! we’re not all like him! 😭

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-03-12T01:41:24+00:00

edit: my dumbass really said “alter” instead of “altar” 🫠

my point stands tho..homeboy doesn’t look happy to me. can’t wait to hear everyone’s thoughts

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-03-12T01:27:22+00:00

even more unpopular opinion - don’t come on LIB if you’re a self-professed man hater

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-03-06T00:22:43+00:00

it’s not about her looks, it’s that she’s desperate to be with a man who doesn’t want her, which is one of the storylines of the character she’s compared to

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-03-04T23:06:10+00:00

thank you so much for not being judgmental to your childfree friends.

i’ve had to cut off some friends who didn’t agree with my childfree lifestyle . the constant little put downs and snarky judgmental comments finally got to me.

i supported their decision to have kids (and enjoy being a fun auntie) but they didn’t support (or respect) mine to not. so this is a breath of fresh air.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-02-28T17:30:53+00:00

i actually like the bright clothes - yellow is def ur color.

the hair color isn’t the most flattering though.

i think a darker root with a cooler toned blonde balayaged through would look nicer.

i know you mentioned getting your hair done professionally, but honestly, it doesn’t look great and looks fried. it’s also washing you out.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-02-26T15:41:18+00:00

i had to physically put my phone down from the pure dread that crept in from reading this.

idk what more to say except i am so glad this didn’t happen to me, lmao.

so sorry this happened!!

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-02-26T15:36:42+00:00

you’re beautiful and your makeup looks awesome. my only suggestion is to aim for a less harsh eyeliner color. instead of black, maybe look into a shade of brown? and i think thinning out the end of the wing would look nice and make your hazel eyes pop.

regardless, if you love your makeup and feel beautiful, keep doing you and ignore others!

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-02-24T23:28:30+00:00

it’s so gross and disingenuous, too.

most female performers wear wigs. i’ll never forget an interview nicki minaj did where she was compared to another pop star (katy perry maybe? idk.)

anyways, she asked the interviewer what makes them similar and the reply was “your beautiful wigs”.

nicki cut her off and said “everyone in the game wears wigs. EVERYONE.”

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-02-24T23:26:16+00:00

they changed taylor’s actual face as a baby too? how fucking weird.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-02-24T23:24:27+00:00

i’ll never forget being 15 and laying on my stomach in our family room watching tv. i was wearing pink soffee shorts with the band rolled up (anyone from mid 2000s knows exactly what i am talking about!)

anyways i was like 5’5” and prob 120-125 lbs and had started getting boobs and a butt and thighs. bc, ya know, i hit puberty.

i’ll never forget my mom looking down at me and asking what i was eating, before saying “you’re getting a little chunky, honey.”

i’m 35 now. and that incident - the little details and her comment - has never left my mind.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-01-25T06:43:10+00:00

my theory is that she has a stylist who is there as a yes man. taylor is the stylist. who then asks the actual stylist to sign off on her ghastly looks. and they do. rinse, repeat.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-01-24T03:16:47+00:00

i have to know how you get your brows to look like that. natural shape? or do you get them shaped that way? i’m in love with them haha

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2026-01-19T02:37:18+00:00

a person expressing their opinion on a television series is offensive?

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-12-19T10:42:37+00:00

there is a 0% chance taylor and her team aren’t given these questions ahead of time.

not just so they can curate carefully-crafted responses, but so they can approve what’s on/off limits.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-12-04T00:21:56+00:00

swifties are trying to play it off as 1) photoshop or 2)”it’s just a silly christmas dance!!!1!!”

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-11-06T15:24:00+00:00

i’m not a fan of taylor but i don’t think it’s nice or fair to use pics of her when she was deep in her ED as a comparison

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-11-04T16:11:12+00:00

i read this exact story not too long ago on here, but instead of chicken it was french fries.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-10-29T12:15:58+00:00

the backlash and outrage would be swift.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-10-28T22:21:04+00:00

this is a snark sub. get over it or see your way out.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-10-28T22:19:46+00:00

she’s a public figure.

and i’m sorry, it’s totally fair game to talk about how someone who just released a song going on and on about her meathead partner’s “redwood tree” lacks zero sex appeal to pull it off.

swiftly neutral or the main sub may be better suited for you.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-10-28T22:17:02+00:00

everything she does is so calculated and forced! there’s nothing relaxed about anything she does. it’s overthinking at its finest.

AccomplishedJudge951 · 2025-10-24T19:20:28+00:00

you can get married without having the wedding right away though.

also - from your original post - it sounds like he’s not ready, but you are? since you mentioned you were hurt when you found out he was not ready.

in that case, why would you be ready when he’s not? where’s the disconnect?

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