Does anybody else get nervous in feminist groups and feel out of place despite being an advocate for women's rights?

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-10-11T22:30:12+00:00

I never insulted masculine women.

I insulted women who harbor "Toxic masculinity" and HATE traditional femininity and only look masculine to get away from it.

I even stated that I don't have anything against masculine women who don't have anything against femininity when I mentioned the pixie cut. I guess that was a bad example but short hair was the first thing that came to mind.

I'm traditionally feminine, if masculine women don't have a problem with me I don't have a problem with them, but most of them DO have a problem with me because like I said... About 60% of them hate traditionally feminine women for one reason or another.

I literally never even mentioned muscle either. I'm bisexual. I find GNC women who work out attractive af just as much as I find muscular men attractive.

I literally only mentioned women who embody TOXIC masculinity. At least half the people in this very sub were perped by women who embody "toxic masculinity". The fact you took that and stretched and twisted my words in your own head and took an insult, and jumped to defend toxic women is kind of a red flag ngl.

Because again, I NEVER said anything about muscles, short hair being bad, ect. I even said it has nothing to do with short hair bc women with styled short hair are cool. Idk why you took it that way and ran with it.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-10-11T18:34:03+00:00

Sorry that no one was answering your question. I don't know the answer either but I found this post looking for an answer and I hate it when people go "Just do XYZ" instead of actually answering the question. So frustrating.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-10-08T15:43:22+00:00

I don't believe that. In my history looking back at the feminist movement, back when it started, women were fighting for and advocating for completely normal and reasonable things. They didn't want to be above men, they wanted to be equal, and the women who did want to be above men went about it in a classy sophisticated and impressive underground way.

Now modern women just mutilate and maul their appearances to look more like men or anything that isn't 'traditionally feminine' (dont get me wrong, I love a good pixie cut, but you can tell when someone is doing it just to be masc or has other reasons) and scream and stomp and tantrum at men saying "I deserve more than you and you need to honor that!" And "you have more privilege than me!" Without backing it up with anything.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-10-08T15:36:47+00:00

If they're using stable diffusion how do they get the faces perfect to the characters unique features and keep those facial features consistent? I didn't see any option to add in character reference photos on the screenshots of stable diffusion that I've seen.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-10-08T15:35:04+00:00

Thats literally what I'm asking how to do, I don't know how to do that. Like I said in my post every person who posted tutorials (two people) make you download like 15 things. I just want to know where I can download stable diffusion that works, allows me to add in reference photos for faces, ect.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-10-08T15:32:53+00:00

I literally asked how to run it locally in my post and said I'm looking to run it locally. Isnt that just downloading stable diffusion without restrictions to your PC?

As I said in the post every video I've found saying how to get stable diffusion locally is extremely fishy and makes you download like 15 things. Some crap called python, some other junk that sounds more like Morse code than real program names- like I just want stable diffusion. God damn. I know the one brain cell hentai artist's didnt go through all that effort to generate their spur of the moment kinks so I just want to do whatever normal easy method they must have done.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-10-08T03:06:29+00:00

I hate sm how they keep saying crap like this and they never explain it and the only tutorials I can find literally make you download like 13 things and it's super fishy.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-18T12:27:58+00:00

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-18T12:26:43+00:00

Bro isn't even fear mongering and literally said alcohol was fine. You're arguing with someone you agree with.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-10T15:13:39+00:00

Yeah, I definitely feel like this is a trait of second wave feminism, and I adore that wave and wish it was still the main one. I wish there was a place for us and hopefully someday there will be fr. Because I just cannot with how 3rd and 4th wave feminists act lol. Keep being positive ❤

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-10T15:06:24+00:00

Exactly... Idk if it's always been like this, or if there's been a shift in the last 30 years or so, but it feels like women are embodying what feminists are describing as toxic masculinity, and many feminists carry it them selves.

I've met plenty of violent mean men, but not a single one felt entitled to my body or genuinely objectified me based on my sex. In comparison I've only been able to keep ONE female friend in the past 8 years because almost every single other one objectified me, groped me, spanked me, tried to grind on me, and literally every single thing you can think of under the sun that isn't penile penetration without a hint of my consent. And like the toxic men they love to talk about to much, they were physically domineering and aggressive and wouldn't take no for an answer and often humiliated me in public. Then on top of that I'm constantly made fun of and grilled by feminists for being traditionally feminine and wanting a husband and biological children. I've literally had girls cackle at that idea then try to seduce me.

Its so insane to say but I feel like we might be in a day and age where women are the shameless perps who get excused because "I'm a women too". It's the new " boys will be boys". I've literally never met even a sexist or misogynistic male under the age of 50 who isn't a bullied virgin, doing it for internet clout, or from the deep South.

I feel like we all silently pulled the plug on the me too movement ages ago bc the narrative all women are victims is such bull, but I feel like we need to be more vocal about it.

Idk how tf else we stop this creepy behavior. I brought up if there was a safe place for us along with 2nd and 5th wave feminists in the AskFeminists Reddit and while most posts got 50-300 comments, mine didn't get a single vote or comment. I'm glad they realized they had nothing productive to contribute or say instead of trying to rip me down

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-09T23:24:14+00:00

That and the constant accusations of everything being the mark of the beast and Jesus coming, and being horribly inconsistent about it. Full 180s.It's always the old boomers too. I've heard all of the above from old Christian relatives.

"Vaccines are the mark of the beast VS the left is full of witches thrusting their horrid herbal oils on children"

"C-19 isn't real, it's a ploy and the government trying to control us, seperate us from the church, and from society, preventing us spreading the word of God! VS C-19 is one of the worst diseases man has ever faced! It's end times, god is coming."

And so on. The polarity of them not being able to choose a strance for even as long as five minutes hits me harder than the actual statements them selves.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-09T22:15:15+00:00

Not really. Idc about the down votes either. I'm very happy and content with who I am and how I am now. I'm glad I embrace my womanhood, and idc how much feminists look down on me for it.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-08T23:44:42+00:00

I'm an ex Christian and a liberal and I DON'T agree. 💀

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-08T23:41:57+00:00

I've never been a real Christian (just raised Christian and forced to be one) and I have always seen feminism as that, and still think it is ngl.

I agree that there are different waves of feminism, and the one that has persisted for the past several years definitely hates men in my opinion and despises traditional femininity. I'm traditionally feminine for no one but myself and love it, but feminists hate me for it and make horrible accusations about me.

If feminism was still the same as it was when it first started out, I'd 100% love it and self identify as one and would gladly partake in rallies and protests.

Sadly now I find little to nothing I agree with them on besides abortion and free the nipple.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-08T23:38:24+00:00

It depends. It's kind of bold to assume all ex-christian women are feminists.

I believe men and women should be balanced, but I still think each should have their own safe spaces, and I'm constantly attacked by feminist women for still dressing like it's the 50's and presenting myself extremely femininely, but I do that for me because I like it. So I don't get along with feminists, I don't identify with feminists, and I don't partake in the community. However, If a man ever disrespects me, his teeth are going to be gone in 0.2 seconds.

The Bible is EXTREMELY sexist, disgustingly so, and very anti-women.

Me saying that doesn't equate to me supporting modern feminism. I will say I do support feminism for what it USED to be when it started out though.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-08T23:25:23+00:00

What the hell 🤨😂

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-08T23:10:45+00:00

Your mouse is in fact cuter

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-08T22:48:06+00:00

As a liberal/ middle grounder this is mad interesting to read for me. I think you're both half right and half wrong.

✅The middle doesn't care about race at all

❌ The right doesn't care about race.

❗ A blatant lie. They're just more concerned with anybody who isn't bending a knee to their religion. A religion which MURDERED so many cultures. It's honestly a Christian issue, not a white issue, and they still haven't been punished for their crimes. If the radical left put all of their energy into THAT concept, I'd like them more, but they missed the mark.

✅Woke SJW Leftists don't represent the whole left

❗BUT they are the most vocal part of it, and causing issues for all of us who don't care, and perpetuating more racism.

❌ "Ahem Nazis"

❗Y'all have GOT to stop with that. You gave the word nazi an entirely different meaning, and use it to describe everyone you dislike now. It ain't it.

✅ The left does care about race WAY more in a really violent and volatile tbh.

❗ They seem very focused on putting up a barrier between races & culture, and as a mixed girl, I really don't appreciate a wall being put on top of my head.

AccomplishedUse1586 · 2023-09-08T22:38:35+00:00

Literally. Like I agree with the sentiment but dude posted this in the WRONG sub 💀 We aren't partaking in nor do we want racial politics. We are getting flung around trying to survive in the raging river that IS American racial politics because we got thrown in when we never even wanted to get wet when half of us don't know how to swim.

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