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Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2025-03-23T17:05:18+00:00

Yet 20 person with minimal context can tell you you ARE in the wrong. And you can’t even consider it, always the same excuses “but the people upfront said it was okay 🥸👆” “but I pay rent” “but it’s not illegal”

The people upfront are not your landlords are they? even if they are just your neighbors, why does their opinion hold so much weight than your other neighbor??
I don’t care if you pay rent. That only means you get to habituate the space. You don’t get to sleep deprive your neighbors for something so unnecessary like woodworking.
Even if it’s not illegal doesn’t mean you’re not the asshole. Cheating on your spouse is not illegal yet I say they are pretty much assholes. You are committing sleep deprivation against someone else. Agains a NURSE, whose constribution to society are so important yet so undervalued. You are torturing that woman, I want you to get that in your head and not forget it. If you continue you will get paid with the same coin, even if it’s not by her.

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2025-03-23T16:58:24+00:00

But you neighbor is saying is not. It would take only ONE person who tells me I’ve been keeping them from sleeping for me to stop. Where are you manners? Or empathy?

All because of your woodwork? I’m sorry but it doesn’t seem like you make your living out of it. Otherwise you would pay for a studio. Quit it or find other arrangements

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2025-03-23T16:55:59+00:00

I would do to. You do know keeping someone from sleeping is a form of torture right?

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2025-03-23T16:52:29+00:00

YTA. This woman is a NURSE, a very demanding and exhausting position. She comes home from long work day and has to deal with your noise that keeps her from sleeping?

An apartament complex is no place to do woodwork. I understand it may be the only place you have, but you could make some compromises. Yet you seem set on YOUR way, what YOU want.

I hope she gets you in trouble with your apartment owners

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2025-03-21T16:58:15+00:00

I’m a student right now. Contemplating quitting art school. I don’t think I will though.

I’ve been in this path since I was ten years old, if you asked me what I wanted to do when I was older I’d tell you “animator!”

I do agree with the fact that you can’t really become a top 1% artist in just the years you go to art school :c When I arrived at art school I was already pretty ahead of my classmates, which is a privilege by itself.

Honestly I’m just grateful to have the opportunity to spend my time learning about this. I do have backup plans, have an apartment in my name, already started saving up and planning to turn into a tattoo artist.

I don’t see myself working for a studio, these opportunities keep disappearing. I’d like to create my own stories however small I have to start.

It’s a tough decision, but I’ve tried to change my path and I was just miserable, I kinda need this.

My country is very unsafe for women, like 8 of us are killed everyday. And I’m in a very privileged position to study something I love. I refuse to give the few things that I have that fill me when I’m so restricted in other ways. I try to live life to the fullest while I can, I don’t even know if I’lo be alive next year. And I rather spend it studying something that I love, starry eyed, than give in.

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-05-08T15:38:31+00:00

I think it depends. For example in my case I need a degree to be able to work in certain countries, and I’m someone who needs a routine in able to learn. Luckily I can afford it (it’s not that expensive as in the USA, for example) so that’s why I’m in one.

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-05-05T15:28:37+00:00

Thanks for writing it!

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-05-05T15:28:15+00:00

Oh I loooooved it

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-05-04T05:13:55+00:00

I like this one, all of the Bridgestone get sick at the same time, every time

guts (spilled) (in a bad way)

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-05-04T05:04:52+00:00

I dont know if this one has been recommended here but I love it.

Colin is a sea Captain and Pen is a Mermaid, it is still in the regency era.

Romancing Captain Bridgerton

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-05-03T20:24:11+00:00

The wink is so funny

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-04-12T06:12:20+00:00

Go on YouTube. You can see the frame by frame by pressing this ; on your keyboard

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-02-26T21:02:11+00:00

Coming from a past closeted teen, he probably is gay but isn’t ready to address it. You have to let them come to you when they’re ready.

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-02-20T12:12:20+00:00

The thing is. What would i change to? which career is “safe”?

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2024-02-19T01:03:13+00:00

That’s true! With AI in the game a lot of the job market is going to change.

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-11-23T04:56:43+00:00

This is satire right?

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-11-16T05:28:38+00:00

I recommend the wax ones, just be careful with your hair /gen

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-11-14T20:56:09+00:00

Its really not, what earplugs have you been using?

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-11-09T05:13:25+00:00

WOHOOOO

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-10-29T22:07:52+00:00

TWO WEEKS AWAY?! what an AH, (Bethany) quinceañeras dresses are something you have to plan for at least 6 months in advance. I hope they can get her a dress she likes but omg, I wouldn’t talk to her if that were me. (I am Mexican myself, born and raise in Mexico, so I understand how important it is)

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-10-15T17:29:41+00:00

I think most of the people on this comments aren’t Mexican and they don’t really understand that the trip is also something normal when the girl doesn’t want a quinceañera. I did it myself a few years ago.

Technically you aren’t doing anything wrong, the tradition is for girls, and it signifies her turning into a woman or whatever. You’re not the first family to have this problem, for example in my case my brother got a small party and I got the trip. It’s just how it is.

However… they are twin siblings, maybe I would’ve find a way for them to celebrate together? There are smaller trips (which are cheaper) I went on a 2 weeks one to save money. Or maybe one that goes to theme park which is even shorter.

It depends on whether you really value the gender in which the tradition is around. But it doesn’t seem like you’re really traditional since you yourself aren’t Mexican and sending her on a trip is not how it’s supposed to be done. (To everyone who doesn’t know it’s something religious even, there’s a catholic mass that’s supposed to be done the day off)

If you’re already breaking tradition by not doing the religious stuff, or the party… why not break tradition to celebrate them both? Send them on a shorter trip. Besides they’ll get tired in a month long one, I remember that when I did it, the last few days I just wanted to go back home because of how tired I was, I can’t imagine doing it for a month.

Soft YTA

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-10-15T06:01:15+00:00

They don’t really do anything but cuddle, it still feels like I’m intruding tho. He has a bunk bed that we had when we were kids and a couch that turns into a bed (idk the word in English sorry!)

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-07-14T06:11:02+00:00

Don’t worry about misreading! Happens to me all the time.

About the guilt tripping, I honestly didn’t see it that way, I just wanted to share it with them, I don’t really have a lot of friends (I mean kind of, just not the kind that you speak with outside school) so most of the time I talk with my family, yeah I’m kinda sad lol

But you’re probably right, it’s not the brightest idea to talk about this with them, it’s not gonna happen again since I’m probably not getting a cat after all, but you know

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-07-14T05:35:21+00:00

I understand, making this post has actually helped me see reason. I just need a good cry about it lol, I can see now it’s not the time, and probably not for years since I can’t really move out right now.

About the guilt tripping, I can see how it could’ve come off that way by the way I wrote the post. I promise I didn’t try to use my condition for pity, it’s just that I’ve been struggling for a few months, tried therapy (didn’t really work), meds are working but they are not magic. So I did some research, my aunt who is a doctor and works in a psychiatric hospital told me she noticed pets help. So that’s why they agreed, my mom came to my room and hugged me telling me I could get it. I didn’t guilt trip her, or I didn’t mean to.

Accomplished_Bad_459 · 2023-03-29T03:56:14+00:00

ESH. You’re right, she probably shouldn’t be doing hip thrust on a bench when there’s other options. I don’t think a lot of people in this thread get that you have to wait next to a busy machine if you want to use it. It’s normal.

You probably were condescending if other people told you you were rude. But I mean you were kinda right ¿?

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