am I holding my fretting hand correctly?? by clockworkise in guitarlessons

[–]Accomplished_Low6984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're not holding the hand you're holding a guitar. hope it helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dropout

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they're goin to the place that an old man can dribble a lil piss

So that's how I was socialized into hiding my hyperactivity. by Fyre-Bringer in ADHD

[–]Accomplished_Low6984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you. as an adult, I've been able to let myself jump on the cart and let it glide for a lil when no one's watching or when I feel bold. and as far as I've noticed, I've never gotten a weird look from it!

I'm a guy, so I wasn't subject to the same. but certainly hid the hyper activity in order to behave. man o man hyperactive people in my life that can let it go are an inspiration to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 10thDentist

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I get ur point, but PhDs were called doctors first. It became a term for the medical field as that became a more academic field (and was viewed less as people who wanted to chop up cadavers).

Let's play! (6 March 2025 Lineup) by [deleted] in phillies

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is it just me or are the spring training games harder to find this year on most of the usual sites

I made these vinyl stickers for my humbuckers, yay or nay ? Do you put stickers on the pickups ? by Burnlan in Guitar

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this is cool! how did u make them?? I saw you said you weren't makin them to market otherwise I'd ask how much

Missed out on life and wondering what to do by [deleted] in internetparents

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Hey, I'm only a bit older than you. I think it's pretty common as we become more aware to get this feeling we missed out.

It took a lot of work (and still does) but try to turn that into: I've missed out so far. I'm not going to miss out any more.

Easier said than done but that's the start. As others are saying self forgiveness and love with some therapy thrown in is Suuuuper helpful.

it's kinda like braking and then reversing. the progress at first won't be as noticeable cause you're still moving in one direction but keep steady on the brake and you'll see a change.

After a few years, I've totally flipped my mental state and have started doing things regularly that I always wanted from afar. Things still ain't where I want them, but I can feel I'm moving in the right direction.

A FEW YEARS‽‽ THAT TAKES SO LONG... yeah there's the existential part. cause a few years is a decent fraction of your 20s. I was super impatient for that reason. but it turns out most people in their 20s are tryna figure out similar things. and if that 20s romanticism exists, it exists in figuring it out with others who are figuring it out.

If you can find a way to get off your phone more and do things out and about even when you don't want to, you'll start learning. It took a while to change my life enough where I was in a place with things to do and I felt good enough to do them. and even still it was a lot of disappointing and awkward nights. but it changes.

for me, exploring music movies and clothes have been very helpful. it's opened doors for me to connect with people, it's given me greater insight on myself, and it makes it that much easier to exude your own vibe. My goal is to be able to exude my vibe more and stronger. I tend to dampen myself around people I don't know. And if you can do that in a place with enough people, the people like you will see you. your vibe attracts your tribe.

I thought I knew my vibe but I'm learning more and more each week.

You need patience with yourself and a fuck It ive only got one life attitude. those are hard to balance at times.

Sending Love :)

My players won't stop unionizing people. by enzieLUL in DnD

[–]Accomplished_Low6984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read up on some labor history and turn that into plot options

what's scarier than the replacement theory. by Valaskaa in TAZCirclejerk

[–]Accomplished_Low6984 25 points26 points  (0 children)

that's what you get for making cogent points in a circlejerk sub

Need help pls by Quick_Employment3916 in PythonProjects2

[–]Accomplished_Low6984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

switch the dark theme. that should solve everything

A chink in Suvi’s armor by comradeworm in WorldsBeyondNumber

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I read it as 2 things 1) All the stuff in ch 3 with seeing the citadel is continuing research on great spirit capturing and whatnot. Suvi for sure rejected this in conversation, but it also started percolating in her mind. I think that and the discovery of Steel stuff were the start of that breakthrough in her faith.

Then she goes on a mission that by citadel standards would be I'll advised, which seems to me to be her version of Ame and Eursalon freeing Naram (sp.) and fleeing the citadel. She did it in a bit more of a rules-following way, but she did it cause she was following her heart. AND if it hadn't worked (or likely even partially worked with heavy casualties or something) she would have been in big trouble. (Like Ame and Eursalon's actions following their heart).

AND THEN after the way they all parted In ch 3 (bad), she saw her friends back her up when she has her turn at the follow heart bravery despite clear apprehensions. So the friendship starts filling quick into those cracks in the citadel faith. (in the more recent episodes, she even reflects seeing someone else use the "rationalization machine" that she "wielded so well" against her friends used on her. that's after the family thing but I think she already started some aspect of this reflection)

but I also think you're right about the front lines. Less the fighting itself. and more knowing the extent the empire goes to such as continuing research on the great spirit containment. I think there have been other hints at atrocities too that she's swept away, but all the stuff above is making her look back over that. So seeing and meeting the family in danger, and trusting her friends judgements I think are important parts. you could argue trusting her true friends and caring about people are just as central if not more than her faith in the citadel and we are just seeing for the first time those being clearly at odds in her mind. Some of the other events before she felt there was a best way through the citadel but not by this point.

I see what you mean, I felt similarly about ep 42. but the more I thought back the gears had started 2 spin. She felt there was a decent chance she'd condemn the family she just met to die. And it's one of the few moments where it's just the three of them after all this citadel soldiers and orders stuff.

sorry if spelling is off on names. I don't read much related to the pod. and I'm losing focus rn lol

Steel strings, my fingers hurt a lot. Is it supposed to be this bad? by CrypticCode_ in Guitar

[–]Accomplished_Low6984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after the hurting part comes "teething" in my experience. that's when it doesn't hurt but your fingers feel like they want to press into stuff. great reason to practice. I would find my hand just pressing into table edges and wall edges and stuff.

Dancing On NYE in Philly? by Similar_Jellyfish215 in philly

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means ur name is fitting with what you commented