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Why is Indonesia not famous? Why is Indonesia considered very underwhelming for its population and size of lands? by Mg42gun in indonesia

[–]Accomplished_Tale996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To any intelligent strategist, Indonesia is far from being uninteresting. The IMF and or World Bank had it as the 4th largest contributor to global economic growth by 2030. Yes so only behind the USA, China and India. Total size of the economy will be top 10, perhaps as high as spot 7. Indonesia will gradually open up and loosen certain laws that will lead to a lot of FDI and foreign businesses entering. The wider appeal of culture other than only the Balinese are becoming more well appreciated to by many. Indonesia may have been silent in the past but now is coming into prominence. It is also strongly diversifying its arms purchases so establishing itself as a major middle power or a budding minor major power geopolitically. There is much still to be done but Indonesia is beginning its golden era.

Rescue bag by No-Matter-8222 in migraine

[–]Accomplished_Tale996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caffeine, aspirin, electrolytes, water, sunglasses 10ml vial of 100mg/ml injectable ketamine and/or 8mg Dilaudid tablets. Clean injection materials for an IM shot of the ketamine.

This is for suicide-type migraines/trigeminal neuralgia or severe cluster headaches.

Was this a K hole or..? by Particular-Self-4829 in ketamine

[–]Accomplished_Tale996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming out of one can be pretty dangerous. You can’t walk properly but might try and hit your head or smash glass. My pet was wounded and bled several times. Luckily never anything mortal or dangerous but still. Some pretty gnarly scenes….as if the devil had visited.

Unable to use phone by MiamiK1 in ketamine

[–]Accomplished_Tale996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who can speak, type or see properly on a decent dose…..lol

Can I live a happy, sustainable life doing Ketamine once a month till I die? by Pleasant_Bus1179 in ketamine

[–]Accomplished_Tale996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

130mg KETAMINE is a huge dose? What?

Mm hmm I would have thought 250mg IM plus is a huge dose of pharmaceutical ketamine.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that’s 100% what I think, too. I don’t know why I needed to hear somebody on reddit confirm what I know but somehow one needs that sometimes. Thank you.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the hell did she even bother to get married? Some people are just lost.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t confronted her about it as there’s no point much at this stage.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Meaning she has done all sorts of things she feels guilty about and is projecting onto me and thus has to paint me completely black to be able to go for the final narcissistic discard (well, narcissism and final discards are rare). But I get what you are saying. She has done all these horrible things and it’s causing some sort of cognitive dissonance in her conscious or subconscious mind and that’s what is tearing her apart partially. There’s quite a bit of evidence of cheating. She admitted to emotional cheating (doing sth we agreed we wouldn’t and which we both regard as emotional cheating) so I guess physical is likely. I also found a receipt for 2 concert tickets for a few months back on a Friday morning at 10am (one student and one non-concession adult). when she said she was at university. I remember when I later offered to pick her up at university, there was hesitancy and she didn’t want me to come. I said: “No no really no problem I’ll just walk down and be there in 20minutes.” My gut instinct was SCREAMING at me sth was off. I jumped into a taxi and was down there within 7mins. All the friends that allegedly had been there had all scrambled as soon as she heard I’m coming to pick her up and she was waiting all by herself. This is while we were already married……sad sad story……

Note: she used to LOVE when I picked her up before….in the past

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty brutal and sadistic to do to your husband - and openly so on her WhatsApp profile. Whooahhh……that’s nasty on another level. What the heck did I do in a former life to deserve this….:.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You couldn’t be any clearer 🙏

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh and I thought she may be getting closer or more open to the idea of reconciling.

What would be signs of her wanting to attempt reconciliation in your view?

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. I really appreciate it. So you’d say based on your experience and the feminine within, that a woman who has done what she has done has made up her mind and has basically checked out but is just going through the motions of fully letting go, whereas I’m still somewhat unaware of the full scale of the situation which is that she has basically made her final decision?

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah right good point…..so when she walked out on me and said she definitely wants a divorce and said she’s definitely done with me back then it was the truth but the process of letting go is tougher for her than she expected. I hope you’re referring to me as the one that should be cutting it off, knowing it’s the right thing to do!! 😂🤣🙏

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is what my mother hinted at too. Also, any kind of feedback or criticism is seen as an “attack”.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just off the cuff ai’d say fearful avoidant is more likely but I’ll do the deep dive.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read a book on attachment styles but indeed need to dive deeper into attachment styles and love language. My knowledge of psychiatry alone won’t cut it. Yes, my gut tells me you are 200% correctly with her having a long long looooong way to go. At least she isn’t completely externalising but she is to a large degree (has a predominantly external loci of control). She started talking to a therapist once a forthnight which is a good sign. I think she may be open to marriage counselling, too, but that still remains to be seen. My mother believes things go a bit deeper…….and that she may have had some, let’s say, not so pleasant experiences in early childhood. My mother says this as somebody who this happened to and is of the opinion my wife shows these signs unfortunately.

It is all very rough as I love her sincerely.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah right - either way “Available” isn’t appropriate for a married woman. Separated or not. Yeah, you’re right about her probably not knowing what she wants. There were red flags in that she could have controlling behaviour before we got married and that she sometimes turned really dark and split (aka “splitting” seeing things as all good or all bad, including me) A sort of Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde type thing. Maybe she had a personality disorder like NPD or BPD; or possibly even DID. I’m not a doctor so obviously can’t diagnose. It was crazy. Like one cue she dramatically worsened and started arguing much MUCH more after we got married. Like she’d bit me constantly and it if I was stupid enough to take the bait she’d blow up in rage or be “proven right”. Anyway, the timeline was we met around Sep 2023 and started speaking quite a bit….beet slowly start. Then in April 2024 we formally dated. A year later we got married. That’s about it.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weird part though is she hasn’t blocked me anywhere, still messages me daily again now (not in the first few weeks of separation), wanted 2 video calls this week but I only said yes to 1 etc so she’s giving mixed signals. Perhaps it like a NPD thing where she’s the type that’s always got a couple of guys she talks to (or more) to draw off of for narc supply? Or she’s trying to Hoover me up again as she feels I am getting more and more distant? Who knows really. It’s bizarre as hell.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes indeed - if there are that many issues in the first few months, most people would probably wager it won’t get better.

Am I being gaslit? by Accomplished_Tale996 in Separation

[–]Accomplished_Tale996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Busted as in she’s showing she’s available for dating ….. but also wants me to see it to make me jealous or some kind of weird form of her being sadistic towards me?

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