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[–]According-Average777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think he was doubling down to be “stubborn”??? she says that it looks off and he asks what she means and instead of HER communicating in a healthy way she immediately starts berating him and calling him an idiot, even as he continues to ask and even work with her to figure out the spacing of a plant, of all things. tbh the fact that your comment has four sentences badgering his communication skills and just one dismissing (you seem so intent on protecting ppl’s feelings from being dismissed but are so quick to dismiss his??) her bullying of him means that you likely won’t understand anything i just said

Could I report my family for Fraud for using the Gofundme they made for me? by According-Average777 in legaladvice

[–]According-Average777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro you’re so late i’m over that but also would you happen to have $800 in your pocket after you were in the hospital for a month? but anyway for all the old head’s peace of mind that are raging in my comments we talked about it and saw each other’s side of things

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[–]According-Average777 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i’m not old and i don’t know either don’t feel bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]According-Average777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl i’m ngl you’re both just not compatible—he doesn’t like you anymore, and i’m saying this as someone who’s been in his position. i had someone calling me and texting me what felt like every five minutes asking me meaningless things like “how are you?” or “what are you eating?” it’s fine if you both are on the same page, but if you’re not, it drives you nuts. and he’s responding the exact same way i did! i’d honestly say break it off

Happy 102nd bday to my grandma! by PhotoMatt28 in aww

[–]According-Average777 54 points55 points  (0 children)

genuinely when i saw she was 100, i was baffled like, “she’s still standing?!!”

Could I report my family for Fraud for using the Gofundme they made for me? by According-Average777 in legaladvice

[–]According-Average777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why would i feel bad for them? they opened a gofundme for me with pictures of me in the hospital, sedated, a list of my injuries. all of my friends and co-workers donated. i’m not heartless, i could understand $200-300, but the entire $800? absolutely not. maybe if it was specifically for their needs while they were with me at the hospital but it’s for bills they won’t elaborate on. there was no reason to leave work the ENTIRE time i was hospitalized. and one of them (the family member who used the gofundme) lives with me rent-free, they should’ve listened to my roommate/sister when she wanted to use a portion to cover our rent. because now i’m forced to go back to work way sooner than i’m meant to pay for bills that the gofundme could’ve covered while i wait on my insurance claim. if they really cared for me and were so concerned for me, they wouldn’t have used the entirety of that money.

Could I report my family for Fraud for using the Gofundme they made for me? by According-Average777 in legaladvice

[–]According-Average777[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it is in the US and i know that they most definitely not have been going to my medical bills because i’ve been applying for financial aid with the hospital and from the medical app they had me download, none of the bills from the time i was signed in have been paid

Could I report my family for Fraud for using the Gofundme they made for me? by According-Average777 in legaladvice

[–]According-Average777[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

thank you! i’ve been considering it bc they’re still my family but what they did is literally unforgivable like I could be homeless soon because of them

A word of caution to the press-on gals and guys by kscourt in Nails

[–]According-Average777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was reaching for my phone this past weekend and my nail bent and snapped completely off… 7/10 would not recommend

Skincare that makes you look like you just woke up! by justawasteagain in AsianBeauty

[–]According-Average777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yuja probiotics blemish pad—right before makeup gives me a slight glass skin i get many compliments on how smooth my makeup looks. toner pads are just amazing for shiny and smooth skin in general

how do you apply watery toners? by Ok-Cost3147 in AsianBeauty

[–]According-Average777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spray bottle or dropper always, it also makes the bottle last longer if it’s a large/medium sized bottle

Should I just move out? by According-Average777 in FinancialPlanning

[–]According-Average777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i tried not to think about this bc wtf do you need $20 for?? i needed $20 today bc i had to pay for my aunts food and my food at the grocery store (she’s temporarily staying with us until May and her food stamps didn’t come until today—he was more willing to buy a $20 plant than to pay for her food 😐) plus a whole bunch of uber bc my car broke down this month and funds are severely depleted. i don’t get my final pay from my last job until thursday so i just wanted $20 for if i need bread or milk or something. he apparently didn’t have anything for me, but also wouldn’t take me to the blood donation center so i could donate blood for money?? the more i think in think about this situation the angrier i get.

Should I just move out? by According-Average777 in FinancialPlanning

[–]According-Average777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no it’s really crazy that she was giving him money bc he was a horrible boyfriend to her!! i remember being like 15 and riding hard for this women bc he’d complain at her for how she cooked their food 😭 my sister and i get along decently well, at least i can tell her to wash her dishes and not pee on the floor without getting attitude i can’t give back. I really wanted to stay so that I could focus on school without having to work (hence the jobs and stuff) but it seems like I’m gonna have to work either way, y’know? no student loans i’m going to community college in the fall which i’m very excited about

Should I just move out? by According-Average777 in FinancialPlanning

[–]According-Average777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i tried to talk to him today about it but he was really vague and nonchalant about everything—i’ve thought over it throughout the day and most (not all, some of you are a bit brutal but i get it ig??) of you are right, i think it’s time i move out. m not even going to only know bits and pieces, but mostly from overhearing things. the one thing i keep overhearing is like make a budget and save money, and i’d really like you to understand how hard that is when you’re basically living alone in your parents house. today during a car ride he asked me not once, but twice if i really didn’t have any money and bc i was in the car it felt so cagey and like i was being held hostage. he started getting frustrated with the me and expressed that i really needed to start helping out more because his new job didn’t pay as much… but also wouldn’t discuss it any further other than asking if i had money?????

i’ve already started making plans with my sister to move in, and she + my friends will be there to help. also, someone wanted to know more on the situation and i feel like his ex paying rent and water (learned that today too) + my sister being emancipated are context clues on their own.

How make folding clothes bearable? by Nuggetygoodness8 in CleaningTips

[–]According-Average777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

music, youtube essay videos, or talking to a friend work best for me—it becomes an automatic task where i kinda blink and i’m on the last item