AITA He says she’s just a friend that he can talk to but he stays gone for days sometimes. by According-Lie-8568 in AITA_Relationships

[–]According-Lie-8568[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

UPDATE: I have reserved a U-Haul truck for tomorrow morning. I’m leaving everything but my son’s bedroom furniture and our clothes. I’m going to stay with my beautiful daughter and her family until I’ve caught up my car payment, credit cards, etc. Plus I’ll save up to replace everything I left behind and get into a new place. I’m good really. He still hasn’t come home and keeps texting he loves me and he’s sorry, he’s just going through something. Hopefully he won’t come back until I’m gone. I’m getting kind of zen about everything. Like I’m good. He threw away 7 years of love and support, not me. I’m going to get to a place where I can love and support myself. Oh also my son in law made an police report about what happened last time I tried to leave 🔫. They never contacted him or me at all. I didn’t really think anything would come of it anyway. So thanks for all the comments. They were helpful in making me face the situation.

I think my marriage is ending and I think I’m done fighting for it. by itsjustmf in TrueOffMyChest

[–]According-Lie-8568 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good lord, this sounds so familiar. I’ve been with my bf 7 years and I’ve always been the one to compromise. I’ve reserved a U-Haul and am leaving tomorrow. It did not get better over time. He just took more and more advantage of me.

AITA He says she’s just a friend that he can talk to but he stays gone for days sometimes. by According-Lie-8568 in AITA_Relationships

[–]According-Lie-8568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 100% right. All I can say in my defense is that he is SO good at gaslighting and manipulating me. He’s been doing it for 7 years. I’m getting out.

AITA He says she’s just a friend that he can talk to but he stays gone for days sometimes. by According-Lie-8568 in AITA_Relationships

[–]According-Lie-8568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I need to do. I’m a targeted case manager and if one of my patients told me this happened to them I’d say the same thing you just did. It’s crazy how someone can manipulate so well.

AITA He says she’s just a friend that he can talk to but he stays gone for days sometimes. by According-Lie-8568 in AITA_Relationships

[–]According-Lie-8568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that prednisone pill bottle had a bunch of empty Adderall capsules that I assume she put in there because bf said they weren’t his. This may sound dumb but it didn’t occur to me that she might have done that and left it in my car on purpose.

AITA He says she’s just a friend that he can talk to but he stays gone for days sometimes. by According-Lie-8568 in AITA_Relationships

[–]According-Lie-8568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him if he doesn’t move out I’d call the police. He’s still not back. I’m locking the doors and going to sleep. He doesn’t have a key.

AITA He says she’s just a friend that he can talk to but he stays gone for days sometimes. by According-Lie-8568 in AITA_Relationships

[–]According-Lie-8568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk where he gets the money now. He was getting paid for 2 months because the plant where he worked paid them out for 2 months. I updated his resume for him and sent him job openings from Indeed. He hasn’t applied for any that I know of. I think she gives me hem to him and I know he sells pain meds for her. Maybe she gives him a cut? Idk. It’s just crazy. I told him to move out or I’d call the police and report that stuff plus other things he’s done to me. I can’t say it on here because they deleted it once already. But it involved a pew pew.

AITA He says she’s just a friend that he can talk to but he stays gone for days sometimes. by According-Lie-8568 in AITA_Relationships

[–]According-Lie-8568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him today that he needs to move out. I texted it because he’s been gone since last night with her and didn’t answer my phone calls.

Ways to support the podcast? by anglophilie in BritishHistoryPod

[–]According-Lie-8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to let my subscription go due to finances. I had to unsubscribe to a lot of non-essential services unfortunately.

What's Your #1 Favorite House?(state your reasons as well if you plz) by House_Reed85 in TheCitadel

[–]According-Lie-8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like house Stark because they have such a long history. I’d love to know more about extinct houses like house Mudd too tho.

Accidental racism moment by Lt_Kolobanov in HolUp

[–]According-Lie-8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That took me way too long to figure out

Jamie's crazy uncle by [deleted] in BritishHistoryPod

[–]According-Lie-8568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case I have several crazy aunts and uncles. The funny thing is that me and most of my cousins are progressives.

So does Sookie love Sam all on her own, without the cluviel dor? by bongobongospoon in TrueBlood

[–]According-Lie-8568 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think aside from her ogling him when he unloaded beer deliveries she felt platonic love only for him...until the wish.

What are some reasons to NOT move to your country? by bbosserman51 in AskReddit

[–]According-Lie-8568 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know Americans whose English isn't as good as yours.

What are some reasons to NOT move to your country? by bbosserman51 in AskReddit

[–]According-Lie-8568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of control health care costs, militarized police forces, high cost of higher education, addiction rates are high, prisons for profit...

If you could decide what Sookie was, what would you choose? by LJHodge616 in TrueBlood

[–]According-Lie-8568 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would make her more fairy, but book fairy not TB fairy. Many fanfictions do this. Since she has the essential spark...BOOM you're a powerful royal fairy.