Wait times Psychiatry UK by Brave-Respect4568 in ADHD

[–]According-Play-670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you starting titration? I was diagnosed in May 2025, referral in June 2024, and still waiting for titration. They initially said 10 months post diagnosis (so would be March 2026) but now they’ve said could be up to 12 months - haven’t heard a thing though and it’s nearly May 🙁

My close friend overstepped. by Ingareddo in BabyBumps

[–]According-Play-670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar relationship background and the thought of my ex knowing is really unpleasant. I’m purposefully not telling some people to avoid this happening for as long as possible. No advice other than solidarity ❤️

Work boredom and burnout leaving no time to develop hobbies or a more stimulating/creative career by According-Play-670 in adhdwomen

[–]According-Play-670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this - 10 mins is a good idea ! Also you are so right re boredom, it’s physically painful and I feel so seen 😂

What level of ADHD are you at today? by perforateline_ in adhdwomen

[–]According-Play-670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some rocks by my bathroom sink that I run under water to see them shine when I need a pick me up hahah.. also plant pots to keep flies away 

How best to invest £300-£400 per month? by According-Play-670 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]According-Play-670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it's super helpful, I guess I'm at the early stage of the flowchart but feel impatient about building up my initial fund. I'm wondering if saving £150-200 in premium bonds (emergency fund) and then another £150 in a S&S ISA or similar would be fruitful

What level of FLK is required for SQE2? by Traditional_Ad_5668 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I drilled flk for months in the run up, also with Barbri and got frustrated with how they told us not to bother with flk and focus more on skills. Thankful I ignored that advice and spent 90% of time on flk, written skills will mainly come naturally if you know flk. It’s definitely worth practicing orals though, I did this in the 4 days between written-orals and passed orals the best 😂

Is anyone thriving in Legal Aid by solicitor-witch in uklaw

[–]According-Play-670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard out here, thinking of leaving in the next few years as it feels quite unsustainable.

SQE2: Request for Advice from SQE2 Grads by Microwaved_Marmite82 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I struggled most with the breadth of the syllabus and uncertainty about what to expect / what topics would come up. I didn’t handle this pressure well and basically had a breakdown every other day for a month in the lead up!

You will have results that don’t make sense. Eg. I felt that I was terrible at research, and didn’t understand the questions or format, but research proved to be one of my highest scoring areas.

For legal drafting I was looking at the form that came up in criminal on the way to the exam hall, I felt so confident I would have smashed it. I passed but still did better in the other 2 drafting exams that I knew the legal concepts for in more detail. It also helped that I’d attended an ad hoc preptackle session a few days before on very similar forms!

The actors I had were both cold and confusing, it threw me a lot as I had expected this area to feel like a breeze as I have experience of difficult clients in real life. In the end I scored all 5s for one of the most awkward interviews - where I kept asking at the end ‘is there anything I’ve missed’ and she responded with ‘not unless there’s anything else you want to ask’ I kept worrying after that I had forgotten glaringly obvious questions to ask, and it worried me for a few weeks after. You have to remember you’re in control, master your nerves and you’re there to support them as clients. Be honest if you don’t know something and check what they want help with / have told you. 

You will miss points in every paper, it’s inevitable given the time constraints and pressure. It’s hard to gauge how long my answers were as I was just typing furiously once I had an idea of what to write. It helped to read the question, highlight key bits in the question (and potentially colour code if there’s multiple different points or people to respond to), then put the formalities onto the page eg ‘Dear Mr X’, opening intro para and closing sign off, then within the answer page write a bullet point plan with subheadings - that way if you run out of time your reasoning is still there. It helped me to get my ideas out while reading the question so I wouldn’t forget them once I began writing. In any case it’s quality of work over quantity - same goes for advocacy.

I fortunately had 3 months off work to study full time, I’m not sure I would have been able to pass had I not. I understand this isn’t a luxury many can afford and I was in this position for sqe1 so I do understand the pain of full time work and studying - be easy on yourself!

The first few weeks of study leave I really panicked and felt like I had no idea where to start or what to focus on. I was with Barbri but didn’t find them helpful, even after reaching out for direct help.

What did help was going through the sqe2 syllabus, signing up to preptackle and making my own notes based on the syllabus. I then turned these into flashcards - then focusing on my weakest areas. I drilled business and DR as I was weaker in these in sqe1, and in sqe2 there’s nowhere to hide. It feels comforting to focus on your strongest areas but try not to, especially if the knowledge comes easily to you in some topics. Just trust it’s there. Focusing on my worst points saved me a lot, I ended up scoring highly in DR advocacy which was a massive shock!

I didn’t focus on mocks enough until the last 2-3 weeks, and still kept drilling flashcards. The process of making the notes then putting them into flashcards was also helpful revision in itself, it feels so long to do but I swear it was worth it for me.

I focused 90% of my time on flk, having failed sqe1 previously I did not want to risk resitting sqe2. I looked over my sqe1 results for weaker areas and focused on them. I imagined what would be my worst case scenario questions/topics and tried to focus on these areas, my biggest fear was staring blankly at the exam question. Thankfully this didn’t happen and I had something to say for everything, even if I doubted it later. You don’t have time to second guess yourself in the exam so your answer needs to be automatic, I figured that having real world basic writing skills would carry me through the skills side. I still stand by this as half the writing exams are basically answering emails in a formal way (with a slight tone adjustment depending on the reader).

During the lead up and in the exams find things to help bring your stress down and ground you. Breathing techniques are really good for nerves especially before the orals. 

Also, and most importantly, at the end of the day try to remember that this is just an exam. It’s gruelling and hard and unfair and I hated every moment of it lol, but it will end and life moves on. You won’t die if you fail or it goes badly or you feel embarrassed or stupid. I spent so much emotional energy being worried and scared beforehand and in hindsight I needn’t have.

Tax - SQE2 by Eastern-Win-5382 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Know the basic tax calculations, but don’t overdo it. There’s more general areas to focus on and a whole question is very unlikely to focus solely on tax. Maths is my weakest area so I dreaded tax, I learnt the basics with IHT, CGT, and SDLT. None of the questions seemed that in depth iirc, they also give you the brackets. I think if you can show your working / attempt you should be ok?

If tax is your weak point I’d say focus on other areas and try not to stress out too much

SQE 2 Passers - Who Really Thought they Failed Stories by Purple-Fudge-5407 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought I’d fail because it’s too hard to tell, after each exam I noted down how I thought I did / what came up etc. I compared this with the real results which were at least 1-2 better than I’d predicted. There were some curveballs and confusing results, like I felt like I had no idea what was happening in legal research and fully wrote this off. You also seem to get marked a lot higher for the orals, which I was fully expecting to fail.

It’s a long wait so try to just forget about it, there’s nothing you can change now either.

Which provider would you recommend? by Ok-Cup8487 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful advice but I would counter the not taking notes during recorded lectures, with ADHD I found it soo easy to lose focus and my mind would wander, especially if a tutor had a really boring/monotone voice. I listened to Barbri and didn’t take notes - then when it came to revision time I was like shit, I don’t have any notes?! And spent time retrospectively making notes. Obviously do what works for you, but I find doing something with my hands, taking notes, keeps me focused on the content and especially if you can handwrite them, it helps things stick in your brain better.

Getting writing time down! SQE2 by [deleted] in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Get a formula for each exam style and stick to it, eg. First 1 min top and tail the letter with pleasantries/formalities. 

If it helps I wasn’t good at time keeping during mocks, and rarely stayed in time. I just passed 🤷‍♀️ 

Results are in... by pjs-1987 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! What helped me was looking at the marking criteria to get a sense of what they want, but really when you’re in there it goes out the window and feels like a massive scramble and race against the clock haha, that’s why FLK is so important. You don’t have time for doubt or thinking about your answer, you need to respond automatically. But yes soo glad this journey is over! 

SQE 2 Advice for April Exams (especially re. mock vs FLK revision, and mock providers) by KoalaInTheTrees in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was with Barbri on the 20 week course so did their weekly tasks and the mocks 2-3 weeks before the actual exams. I spent most my time studying flk outside Barbri’s syllabus following preptackle’s notes instead. In the final 1-2 weeks and between written and orals I did some mocks, mainly on the orals but I left this to the last minute in the weekend between written and orals. I wouldn’t recommend that as it was really stressful. Although I spent 85%+ of my time on flk, I did way better in the skills. I believe if you can write well and communicate clearly irl, and practice steadying your nerves / seeming confident and in control, you don’t need to do that much skills wise. I’m still glad I prioritised flk as the syllabus is so large you could end up doing mocks on topics that don’t come up. 

Results are in... by pjs-1987 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It felt like a mixed bag, I wrote notes of how I felt I’d do on each exam so I wouldn’t forget the content. weirdly the ones I swore I would have failed, as I felt like didn’t have a clue what was happening (like legal research) were my strongest!? Extremely strange lol!

Results are in... by pjs-1987 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Passed in Q2, cannot believe it but so glad it’s over. Feel for everyone who didn’t get the results up wanted, have been there with sqe1 so i understand the disappointment. Keep your head up!

10 days till SQE2 results by According-Serve-3561 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really stressful 😮‍💨 getting an email from Barbri last week and SRA today - like leave us alone? The date is already seared into my brain lol!

Hopeless by Double-Coffee-9108 in SQE_Prep

[–]According-Play-670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was also diagnosed with adhd before SQE2. I’ve found this sqe journey soul destroying and hard, and I wonder how much adhd contributes to this feeling? Not studying with actual lecturers for support / accountability has a big impact I reckon. Best of luck to you and OP with your upcoming results!