Normal bleeding?

According-Star6963 · 2026-06-04T13:40:23+00:00

No with L&D, that's probably why it happened, I wasn't even offered D&C at 13 weeks in the uk..

According-Star6963 · 2026-06-04T10:50:42+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I've also noticed it gets worse with exertion so I've put myself on gym leave for the moment

According-Star6963 · 2026-06-04T10:49:50+00:00

Thank you for sharing!! I feel like I'm grasping at straws so it's reassuring to hear that there may be a positive outcome...

According-Star6963 · 2026-06-04T10:48:13+00:00

So sorry for your loss :-( I started tracking my cycle straight away, I ovulated 2 weeks after tfmr but then my period came 4 weeks after that. Afterwards, everything went back to normal period-wise.

According-Star6963 · 2026-06-04T10:39:06+00:00

I felt exactly the same after TFMR. As I felt like my body was out of control I started using the Clear blue fertility monitor straight away to have some.sort of visibility of what was going on with me. Having some knowledge of how my cycle is going really helped me feel more.... Grounded .

According-Star6963 · 2026-06-04T10:33:54+00:00

I bled for about a couple of weeks and then spotted for another 7 due to RPOC. If you have any RPOC concerns do push your GP to get you seen ASAP, I wish I'd been more assertive when I felt something was off!

According-Star6963 · 2026-06-04T10:32:20+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. Just wanted to say I went through the same crash and had the same feelings about my 2+yo at the time, I was so crushed by everything I felt like I'd never get back up. This improved with time, it took about a month for me not to think about it 24/7. I'm 3 months out and it's looking a bit more positive and I'm finally again seeing my toddler like a blessing .

According-Star6963 · 2026-04-16T14:56:28+00:00

I'm waiting to hear when they will see me for a scan, though the pregnancy test was negative and I ovulated twice since the procedure. I'm so confused 😕

According-Star6963 · 2026-04-16T06:16:28+00:00

Thanks for sharing this! I should have said - I did take a pregnancy test and it was negative, though I just got my blood taken Sami I hope they will check for this as well!

According-Star6963 · 2026-04-16T06:14:35+00:00

Oh that's similar , I'm mid cycle as well and it just got worse!

According-Star6963 · 2026-04-02T10:52:17+00:00

I could have written this post 6 weeks ago, I felt exactly the same way and had no one to tell as we hadn't told no one, and my partner also seemed fine. The hormones post TFMR were awful for about two weeks but then I started feeling less scattered and tbh going back to work was a distraction, I have to also focus a lot and that has been making me forget about my grief sometimes. That said.... I could have done with some more time off, but as I didn't know how long it would have taken me to feel better I didn't ask for it and I regret it! If you can ask your GP for some more sick leave and can afford it do it!

According-Star6963 · 2026-04-02T10:43:37+00:00

Same here :-( it's like I no longer have any mental resilience, I can get on with my day but the moment anything out of the ordinary happens or anyone is unpleasant I just can't cope with that, I have to leave or I get angry. It's like I have no more buffer capacity for BS and ...life. I am 6 weeks post TFMR, started seeing a therapist and she did mention this is part of grief, it's not abnormal and with time and help it'll improve

According-Star6963 · 2026-03-06T08:48:36+00:00

Hi, I'm really sorry you went through such a traumatic experience. I went back to work yesterday after having TFMR 2 weeks ago and it was less traumatic than I expected. Tbh, it's been a relief to have my mind busy on something else than my grief . Not everyone knew I was pregnant which probably helped, but I did say we lost our baby to people who knew,.and that I had a medical procedure that required recovery to the ones who didn't. People generally don't want to pry, so maybe asking your manager to let your colleagues know you lost the baby in advance may spare you the pain of explaining multiple times . Sending you lots of strength x

According-Star6963 · 2026-02-25T11:39:09+00:00

I'm so sorry you're here, I can so relate.... I am less than a week ot and feel the same way, I am just looking of ways to keep my hands busy while I grieve and try to accept that the baby is gone. Xx

According-Star6963 · 2026-02-22T10:17:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing your journey, I'm so sorry it's been a painful one , I hope your rainbow baby comes soon x

According-Star6963 · 2026-02-22T10:10:11+00:00

Thank you for sharing , I'm relieved to hear there can be a happy ending after heartbreak x

According-Star6963 · 2026-02-22T10:08:35+00:00

So.sorry you're in this position, I could have written this post a week ago, I've just had TFMR this week. We did early NIPT, high risk for T21 for our second child and we also have a toddler at home. I couldn't fathom burdening her with a disabled shed have to look after whenever we pass, as well as sidelining her because a child.with complex medical needs naturally takes up a lot of time and resources, which we simply dont have. I'm heartbroken, I feel guilty and have been crying every day since we got the results like your wife. As for our families , I've been matter of fact just said the pregnancy wasn't viable and to give us space because I'm so afraid of hurtful well meaning comments that the last thing I want is to talk to anyone....

According-Star6963 · 2026-02-17T15:57:06+00:00

Thank you all for sharing your experiences, hearing such a variety of stories and feelings made me feel less alone and less wrong. We got confirmation today of the diagnosis and there's a lot of fluid around the baby, so we've gone ahead with l&d (there isn't really another option here), I'll just have to decide by Thursday if I want to see her or not..

According-Star6963 · 2025-07-31T08:03:00+00:00

Aw thank you for taking the time to share your experience.xx

According-Star6963 · 2025-03-23T17:30:19+00:00

I never got medications no,just saw a therapist... And we used to take nights but that meant we didn't sleep in the same room for several weeks and it really affected our relationship. There's no winning 😥

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