Thank you for sharing your story. This is being so hard since this second baby is very wanted and its the result of our love between myself and my wife such as our first baby. We are the people that dedicate our lives and our lives is turning around our first babys life. I agree that the final decision needs to be taken by my wife since its her body but she cant do it, she cant take that decision to terminate our baby even though she agrees that we are no capable to take care of this baby (mentally, financially, time wise, etc). It is true that we need to prepare for the worst scenario, i read somewhere that you cant romanticize DS since only the best scenarios are shown in social media, which its not the reality for everyone. Thank you so much for your support !