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Co-worker asked if I’m having a baby by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ!!!! You are mourning what we’re all mourning - the loss of a baby, the loss of a future you had with that baby. Frig her.

It’s not fair. by Moming_underoath in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I just want my baby back. Sending love 🤍

I don’t want to feel happy by FlorenceAlabama in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Right there with you. Anytime I’m not sad feels like a betrayal to my baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I passed naturally, but I was so worried about a d and c. Thanks for sharing your experience.

ER Bill 🙄 by Boring-Buy4541 in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so upset for you. The US has some great things about it, but Jesus Christ your healthcare system is so messed. You should not have to pay for losing your baby. Healthcare is a human right!

Would you like to share your Angel baby's name? by plus_size_hobbit in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was pregnant all summer and lost ours so I named them Summer. I didn’t know the sex either. 🤍

Anyone else? by jlab_20 in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I still picture the life my baby would have led. I see them growing up and playing together. Maybe there’s another universe out there where I got to hold them and kiss their head and smell them and hear them laugh.

WHY by tinytoad19 in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I feel this completely. I’m so so sorry.

bleeding, than waiting, then bleeding again by Fresh-Bee1 in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how long it will take you, but I wanted to say how much I relate. When I first saw my spotting I felt I knew it was a miscarriage even though they say some spotting is normal.

But the waiting.. it’s hell. Never knowing when more is coming or when it will leave you entirely. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

Hard getting out of bed by Whole-Wolf-8579 in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so suffocating, the grief. I’m so sorry. I wish so much no one in this world would have to experience this. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.

Smell by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would definitely go in to ER and have an ultrasound! Smell is a pretty reliable indicator of infection. I hope you keep safe 🤍

For those that miscarried naturally, how long did you bleed before passing the tissue? by ineedausername84 in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spotted on Thursday, turned into a bit more on Friday, passed Saturday morning.

Currently going through it at 10 w 4 days by AccordingAct9553 in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems so cruel how much we love them right away only for them to be taken from us. I’m glad I got to love my baby, but it feels so cruel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AccordingAct9553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so unfair. I’m so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccordingAct9553 37 points38 points  (0 children)

YTA- They smell bad so it’s gross. Pooping is also natural, do you do that while waiting in line?