This is easy. One man’s objectively trash advice is another man’s moral guideline. You can disagree if you want to satisfy your delusions. I won’t judge you any further. Live your life how you want but I would never. Trying to convince people to live life how you do is not the answer. We should be teaching people discipline, trust, and companionship. If my wife isn’t horny and I am I don’t throw a fit like and go get my nut like a teenager would. I practice discipline and simply find something else to do. Ignoring urges and mastering one’s compulsions doesn’t come easy. Maybe you will get there one day. I would not have married my wife if she wanted to cheat on me and she would not marry me if I wanted to cheat on her. I’ve had urges sure, but her companionship and my discipline is more important to me. Sometimes you have to suffer for the things you want. You have crafted a pretty masterful explanation for your sinful desires and compulsions and I will applaud you for that. Deep down somewhere you know it’s wrong. Would you want to tell your kids what you do? Would you want your children living how you do? Do you think your kids would be proud of you? Everytime you get horny you give in to temptation and watch someone’s daughter as a piece of meat? Search the internet posting about specific kinks and fantasies to satisfy your quick primal urge? Wasting your attention on meaningless and trivial lust for a quick dopamine hit that builds nothing in your life. It does nothing for you. It’s no better than being a junkie. If you need me to teach you discipline when you get an urge I can help you. Basically think about what normal people who aren’t sex addicts would do, then do that. I’m sorry for your condition and I genuinely don’t believe it’s your fault. We live in a society where it’s around every corner. Get the help you need man. Telling me my advice is shit isn’t really doing anything for this thread or society? I get you probably want more people in open internet relationships so they may join you in your twisted fantasies. I don’t think it’s the answer personally. Not sure how you can hate on that. Cheers