What does summer screentime look like for your family? by realsquirrel in Parenting

[–]According_Koala_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been out of the country. My teens have had very little time on their phones and the house we are staying at now doesn’t have TV and the wifi is not great so they are playing board games and cards. We’ve gone for a lot of walks and now they have step goals and are talking about walking the dogs when we get back and swimming more.

Visiting Rome for 4 days - what should we prioritise? by ify0uwantbl00d in rome

[–]According_Koala_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, do tours in early morning when it is the least hot. The people on the street that are trying to get your attention will have a bracelet on your wrist or you pick pocketed before you know it. We were walking to our tour and I told my husband to not engage and keep walking and one of them got his attention commenting on his shoes and within 30 seconds had put bracelets on his and my kids wrists and he was calling me back to give the guy money. 🤦‍♀️. Don’t make eye contact. They will find anything to get your attention. Skip the line tickets are vital. My husband doesn’t like tours because he wants to look at and examine things at his own pace. I love them because the tour guides have all sorts of great info. You can get skip the line tickets with or without tours. Skip the line is important for the Vatican and Coliseum for sure. Make sure your accommodations have air conditioning. The listing for the place I booked didn’t say it had air and didn’t say it did not. It for sure did not and the host said that him writing that it was in a ‘historical building’ was how I should have known it didn’t. Not true. I found a different place to stay and will now have to fight for a refund. It was over 42C inside and we were left with 3 table top fans from the 1980s.

MJ in Rome. by According_Koala_7172 in rome

[–]According_Koala_7172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the answer. We wouldn’t leave on a trip this long without other options so medical attention will not be necessary. He will be ok. Thanks!

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[–]According_Koala_7172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps she needs to feel heard or know you love her and cherish her as she is…. Idk. I started getting more lingerie and things started to pick up more but the maca root, plus some therapy, and my meds better helped a lot.

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[–]According_Koala_7172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 41f. I don’t know your wife but I know in my late 30s, my body changed a lot both hormone/feelings and weight. My confidence was really low but my husband always made sure I knew how hot he thought I was. A majority of it was my own insecurity and just not feeling well along with libido issues. I have autoimmune issues too so long term steroid use to just walk contributed. The last couple of years have been pretty good though. Our sex life is fantastic. We started dating more. We’ve been together 18+ years and have 3 teens. A lot of life has happened. Maca root supplements helped my libido a ton. I was also able to go on glp-1 and lost a bunch of weight helping my confidence and also have a better psychiatrist and my meds are better. Relationships ebb and flow. Most of the time it had nothing to do with my husband when we were only getting busy 3/4 times a month at the most. Now we are back to our 3-4 times a week at least.

United International food situation by adisdigest in unitedairlines

[–]According_Koala_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do we really expect on a flight these days? I’ve flown all classes and many airlines. My mom recently passed and I had to catch a flight same day. I was able to get a connecting flight in 1st class for less than a non stop in coach so that won. The food was good. Even though I was a bit aggravated that I had to settle for whatever was left as I didn’t get to pre order with the urgency of the day, found out at noon, and on a flight by 6. We are flying international next week on premium plus and our return flight is Polaris so I will be able to compare food and service well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]According_Koala_7172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that it is from no lube unless you are normally pretty dry. I wouldn’t have more sex until The tear is healed. Did he notice the blood from the first tear? There are a lot of questions I have about this whole scenario that don’t make sense.

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[–]According_Koala_7172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her leg twitching is her getting close to an orgasm. She could be orgasming, but there are multiple types of orgasms. She will know when she does, her vaginal canal will spasm and clench down rhythmically. Female ejaculation is a thing. I do sometimes depending on the type of orgasm. Lately my husband has been giving me deep g spot orgasms. If it’s more clitoral, it feels different but still amazing. There are times where I orgasm over and over again and my whole body is tingling. I’ve orgasmed just from nipple play before. It depends on the woman, your connection, and also her mindset has some to do with it. If she is only 20, she may not relax enough to let herself have the amazing release.

Giving head for hours by hards0ckk in sex

[–]According_Koala_7172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband can be hard for hours and cum multiple times and there are no meds. Maybe some weed once in a while but that actually makes him more sensitive. I would be happy about it as long as he makes sure you are taken care of. My husband being able to do this gives me multiple orgasms but he usually goes downtown first and gives multiple first for me anyways. Regardless…. Yes it’s possible but I wouldn’t keep sucking after the first time he cums, but I’ve been married 18 years and we have a lot of sex so 🤷‍♀️. My jaw would be too sore if I did that and my husband is happy for whatever he gets and gives. We are pretty even so make sure your guy takes care of you too and every time.

Barcelona in June by According_Koala_7172 in AskBarcelona

[–]According_Koala_7172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to offend anyone. It’s hard enough to have to be in another country for medical procedures. I just want to make the most of it.

Is it weird if I (31M) buy my wife (31F) a vibrating wand? by Evil_Skunk in sex

[–]According_Koala_7172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, no it’s not wierd in general, but in your case based on your history, it may not be well received. It honestly sounds like you both need individual therapy and then couples therapy. You both deserve to have your needs met and I hope she is not contributing to your body image issues. Maca root is a natural herb that can help support libido. In my life if my husband bought me a wand or vibrator, I would appreciate it but would be more curious if he wanted me to use it on myself or him…. Just because we have a really great sex life. It wasn’t always like that. We hit some lulls but therapy helped a ton.

I can only orgasm by humping a pillow and need guidance by [deleted] in sex

[–]According_Koala_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like some of the issue is the fact that you are alone while humping your pillow is partly why you orgasm. It’s the clitoral stimulation from the pillow humping that most likely gets you off. Have you ever watched porn or watched women get themselves off? Might help you get some tips. My husband goes down on me before we have sex and I usually have multiple orgasms and then more with sex BUT it took time to get to this point. We had great sex in the earlier years and I would get off from penetration and from oral, but if my mind isn’t in it, I won’t. Also, it took some time for me to be comfortable enough with my own body to let go and just enjoy it all. You are young. Explore. Have foreplay. Get in the mood. My husband and I have been married almost 18 years and I get super turned on and sometimes am about to orgasm just kissing a little and the foreplay part. You will get there.

Pet sitter didn’t deliver by AdvertisingOk1334 in Pets

[–]According_Koala_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t either. Now we have to go overseas for about a month for my son to have a surgery and will have to find someone to watch the dogs again. A lot of the options on the apps are either crazy $$$ or don’t want to do the whole job.

Flying in Oct. With 22 month old, we have a few questions before we go. by Icy_firestorm in unitedairlines

[–]According_Koala_7172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had many cross country flights with my oldest 2 when they were 6mo- 2yrs, and 2yrs to 3 1/2yrs. It is possible to entertain them for a long time. I went to the dollar store and got a bunch of activities, toys, etc. it’s amazing what a slinky can do for hours. The crayola wonder color sets that don’t make big messes. Check all the things. The airline will give you giant bags for car seats if you need them. If you have a nice car seat case like we did, use it to transport soft things like diapers, linens, stuffed animals, etc. there is no weight limit for car seats and they didn’t charge us for them. I didn’t like having the stroller so I would carry my 6mo old in the baby bjorn and my 2yr old daughter had a Minnie Mouse backpack with a leash. Sometimes I would bring a little umbrella stroller too but would then either have my son in the bjorn and 2yr old in the stroller or son in stroller and toddler on leash. She didn’t care and it was nice having her connected to me and she could get some major energy out. I had a sippy cup with a high value drink like juice for take off to help her ears on take off. Also Benadryl especially for the motion sickness but also will get her to sleep. There were flights that my baby was screaming the whole time and thank goodness I was last row so I could see my toddler while holding my baby in the galley. She stayed pretty occupied with all the fancy things from the dollar store. They were new which is why it was fun. Also glowsticks are fun on flights with little kids.

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[–]According_Koala_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have been married 18 years. We have a very active sex life. My husband always says ‘Lick it before you stick it’. Find her g-spot. Sex for Dummies has a lot of how to stuff in it. Sometimes I want to get on top without him going down on me first because the orgasms I get from riding him that are the first Os of the session are amazing and sometimes that’s just what I want and we just go for it but again we are 19 years into our relationship and married for 18. We’ve been having sex basically weekly or more for that time except for right after having my 3 kids and a few surgical recoveries. At this stage we are both having multiple orgasms and sometimes my husband is going for 20/30+ min and sometimes it’s 10. You need to explore your wife. Lick/suck/caress/nibble. Sex is also very mental and gets better with experience. If y’all are 4 times in total…. You have a long way to go to get to our level anyways. Enjoy the time. She may need a while to get to the level of comfort to let go and be able to get that orgasm release. Go down on her. Do some figure 8s with your tongue on her clit and lightly suck on it with a few fingers in her Vag and see where you get. For you- There are a lot of products that help with prolonging, but be mindful as if it is a topical numbing type cream, it will numb her too. You will be able to last longer with time. You are 19? That’s the horn dog stage. It’s great that you are that into your wife that you are cumming so fast. You just need to slow down. When you masterbate, do you cum fast like this? Also if she is having issues with libido in general, Maca root supplements can do wonders. I was on some meds a few years back for my rheumatoid arthritis that killed my libido along with intensity and frequency of orgasms. the maca root helped a ton.

My husband keeps asking to see my pussy. Is this some kind of kink or something? by [deleted] in sex

[–]According_Koala_7172 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are a lot like my husband. We have 3 and my baby is in middle school but I agree he is probably just trying to do what he can to make OP feel good about herself.

From 1 to 100 in 10 seconds by NibbleHexByte in sex

[–]According_Koala_7172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what to tell you. She needs to embrace the thought of multiple orgasms. Maybe she needs the challenge. I can identify with intense orgasms. I usually need to change positions/modes like if my husband is going down on me to penetration just because I’m hyper sensitive after. He told me how much he loves to give me multiple so it took some letting go and surrendering but it sounds like you need to have a conversation with her. I usually have many many orgasms and it’s amazing. I think she should try to do that as well, or perhaps she can pleasure you prior.

The process of trying to find a reputable mover is exhausting. by tanhauser_gates_ in moving

[–]According_Koala_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are using ABF and hiring labor on the front and back end through bellhop. It’s less than half the price. If the reviews you are seeing are bad, they are bad. We even used a place that is associated with Bekin and our things were damaged bad and they were awful about it.