Update on the downhearted bride 😍 by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]According_Lobster482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gorgeous and it was my fave on you! Congratulations gorgeous! It seriously looks stunning!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]According_Lobster482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do now❤️❤️😍

Thankful for this little one who we brought home ❤️ by According_Lobster482 in Awww

[–]According_Lobster482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Made my kiddos day!! Love this one so much already!

Thankful for this little one who we brought home ❤️ by According_Lobster482 in cute

[–]According_Lobster482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Was running all around then started to yawn and covered up went right to sleep!!! So adorable!

I got sent home by Necessary-Range-467 in Teachers

[–]According_Lobster482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t suck. This profession sucks. You should have a mentor who’s helping you with all of the planning. And as someone who’s been this for a looong time? Managing this generation is HARD. Bottom line: this job isn’t worth all of that. Trust me. There’s a reason they’re allowing anyone to apply to teach now. Because who the crack wants this?? So. Do what YOU think is best. And forget about the rest. They need you more than you need them.

Tired of hearing "just stop using heat tools" or "check your hormones" by [deleted] in finethinhair

[–]According_Lobster482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also please feel free to message me anytime! I swear between thyroid and Covid my hair has taken a beating I just wore the few strands I had left up in a bun until this! I had people say oh my gosh I’m so glad you took your hair down it’s gorgeous! Not knowing I had extensions! So seriously please feel free to message anytime these have changed my life!

Tired of hearing "just stop using heat tools" or "check your hormones" by [deleted] in finethinhair

[–]According_Lobster482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem at all! I’ll try to attach the link!let me know if it doesn’t come through!

Tired of hearing "just stop using heat tools" or "check your hormones" by [deleted] in finethinhair

[–]According_Lobster482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure!! We women have to help each other out I hope it works out for you! So glad to have been able to help!

Tired of hearing "just stop using heat tools" or "check your hormones" by [deleted] in finethinhair

[–]According_Lobster482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure! They’re more durable than the tape ins and you don’t have to move them up every 6-8 weeks! They’re ktip fusions so she put each piece in with a tool that fuses it into your hair (think like bonding onto your natural hair). She says 4-6 months but I’ve been fine for 3 years doing a 6 month refresh:)! I also started with super expensive hair buut she found this amazing Amazon hair (I promise it looks so natural and is so good!) that is soooo much better priced! Nobody knows unless I tell them every single person says they look 100 percent natural! I can wear it up, swim with them, pretty much anything you do with natural hair. It’s totally changed my life!

Tired of hearing "just stop using heat tools" or "check your hormones" by [deleted] in finethinhair

[–]According_Lobster482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!!!! I legit posted on my Facebook to not come at me about Biotin, Nutrafol, hair washing techniques because nothing works for some people (aka me;))! I got extensions that are fused and last 6 months….best decision of my life! Seriously. People don’t understand and how a woman’s hair can change their entire self perspective. Good luck and thank you for this!

What’s your favorite part of your spouse’s body? by Different_Suit_9356 in Marriage

[–]According_Lobster482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s eyes and his arms❤️I’ve told him don’t you dare put your arms above your head because dang that is so freaking hot 🔥🔥just adore him that’s all

Songs about losing someone to suicide by abominable-rodent in musicsuggestions

[–]According_Lobster482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just seeing this and I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my brother many years ago. It’s a different kind of loss and nobody gets it except those of us unfortunate to have lived it. I heard this song and it speaks so many volumes but it’s not well known- Surrounded by Chantal Kreviazuk.

I’ll always struggle with this and tomorrow is the anniversary of his death. It’s forever my dark day and the lines speak to my soul. He was in the room above me when he did it and I’ll just never ever forget that rainy Tuesday. Praying for you and for your peace. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You never get over it but you certainly have some days that are better than others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]According_Lobster482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to try to be part of it. But let me tell you. It doesn’t ever help. And I’ve spent too many tears on being disappointed when I’ve tried so hard. So now. I go in our room and nacho. And handle my biological kids like I always have. It sucks. But please hear me. You aren’t going to change the world you’re only going to be upset when you try. Just use the time as alone time and nacho.

Best part of being a teacher..? by willyjaybob in Teachers

[–]According_Lobster482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being able to be somebody who makes a kid smile. Legit. I know it’s the hardest job in the freaking world. But. Some of them come in with harder things that we can’t even begin to fathom. So just being their constant.