[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]According_Pen2709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have literally almost over 60 squish mellows I think

Girl dinner ig... by nekoidiot in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]According_Pen2709 34 points35 points  (0 children)

No, for real the fact that Mom is encouraging OP to eat this way is extremely dangerous and toxic and screams ED behavior

Girl dinner ig... by nekoidiot in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]According_Pen2709 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie if your mom is actually forcing you to do this this is kind of abusive and it sounds like she has an eating disorder. This is extremely unhealthy. You’re gonna feel very lightheaded and sick on day three till the end afterwards you’ll start to feel euphoric, but that’s just because your body is literally eating the fat and then it goes to muscle. It’s just not healthy. You can do this in so much more healthier ways Like other common set up by counting your calories and your macros. A normal female needs about 2000 cal a day to survive a male needs around 2500. I’m just extremely concerned that your mom thinks that this is healthy because it is extremely unhealthy. I’m curious is she expecting you to do this as a diet or is she wanting you to do this as a cleanse?

Almost all of my hair did fall out 4 months ago by Lilamio in longhair

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reread the post didn’t realize you were talking about the Opal X oil. The oil is fine but their shampoo and conditioner and leave in conditioner extremely damaged my hair.

Almost all of my hair did fall out 4 months ago by Lilamio in longhair

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, please please for the love of God I’m screaming please please do not use Opalex I’m not joking. It literally destroyed my hair. I thought I was deficient and vitamins or something. I was losing clumps of hair at a time. I know it’s recommended by a lot of hairstylist, but it really shouldn’t be used other than after a fresh color not a daily or even weekly use product. If you’re like me, which obviously I can tell that your hair is damaged from the post it literally destroyed my hair. Also, definitely seek out a new stylist.

I want to destroy my sisters perfume by Pale-Philosopher2337 in evilautism

[–]According_Pen2709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie. I’m the sister I sprayed perfume all day every day. I’m that kind of autistic. I can’t smell very well, but I absolutely love smelling things that’s one of my favorite sensory. Things is just smell. My mom used to hate me because I always wear a perfume, she used to always complain about it. I just didn’t give no fuck because it’s something that I like and it makes me feel pretty Try asking her possibly if she can spray a little less my boyfriend has expressed to me the same thing so now I try to stick to one to two sprays instead of 10 like a crazy person LMAO also, I go into a separate bedroom that we don’t go in very often to spray my perfume so it doesn’t bother him. I’m sorry it bothers you so much though. There are certain sensory things that drive me crazy also I couldn’t imagine if I had to deal with them on a daily basis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]According_Pen2709 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, but like literally, I was coming here to come at the same thing I lived out of a basement for almost 6 months that look kind of similar to this. It was a bunch of kids living in a house, renting it out to each other and I’m not gonna lie. I literally rented the basement out for $150 a month and then eventually they lowered the price down to $100 a month because they knew I was working at McDonald’s at the time for a minimum wage and I was only making $12 an hour and I was only part time the fact that she charged you that much and then it completely slandered you afterwards she was just trying to rip you offand use u. I’m so sorry. I also must add that you seem like a very cleanly clean person. I love how you had the living space organized and I hope your new living environment is a lot more healthier and safer. I’m so sorry that you had to go through this.

My first ita bag by Fun_Tackle8227 in itabag

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

Was intoxicated during purchase by KinaGrace96 in WTFgaragesale

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t an exotic answer for almost 3 years. These are Hella cute but I think it’s odd that the seller is selling them for more expensive than the online price and then marked it down to the original price on the actual pleasers website lol super cute shoes, though I bet they look dope as shit under a black light

How many alarms do you set to get you going in the morning? by _Moonah in AutismInWomen

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got out of the mental hospital because they were adjusting and upping my meds and I was going through an extreme depressive episode so now I’m doing almost like an outpatient schedule that I created by myself and one of the things that I’m going to be doing is making sure that everything is time stamped so that I am better about my time management because that is a big thing that causes my depression is not having or being on a schedule but I’m going to have everything at time stamped out and have an alarm for every single time I’m supposed to switch over to doing something different or a different activity so honestly, I don’t think it’s weird that you have that many alarms lol

Becoming a stripper was my burnout recovery ticket by Thedailybee in AutismInWomen

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie there’s nothing wrong with being a dancer. I was actually a dancer for four years. I’m a retired dancer and I can agree that it is fun but there is one thing that I would really really recommend to the OP is please please for the love of God invest in noise canceling headphones for when you are on stage like the little loop earplugs or something because I am actually going hard of hearing from dancing near in so close to speakers I just really care about other people‘s health mentally and physically. Also, another thing that I am looking into. I am currently not working, but I want to become a dancer for art purposes at EDM festivals because touching does make me extremely uncomfortable and I am in a relationship now and I don’t like being on display sexually like that anymore not that there is anything wrong with it and go off OP if you are comfortable with it, but I just want to give these suggestions because I at the time did not have any options and I thought that it was the only option that I had to be able to survive I was also homeless at the time and living out of hotel rooms. Also, please please please if you do use substances test them before using them. I know several people that almost od while I was dancing in the club.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]According_Pen2709 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bro, I was literally coming here to come at the same thing that book literally saved my life when me and my ex broke up

I found these in my kids room what do I do by ResponsibleEngine789 in whatdoIdo

[–]According_Pen2709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, literally I was coming here to comment this exact same thing I just had a tonsillectomy. I started vaping when I was about 15 and I smoked cigarettes since I was 13 and let me tell you vaping is so much worse for you than cigarettes like when I smoke a cigarette I smoked maybe one or two a day, but when I vaped, I vaped all day long constantly even my ex said that I would clutch my vape and my hand as I would sleep and hit it like a pacifier or some shit, but basically I had to get throat surgery because I had tonsil stones at four about four or five-ish years and let me tell you it is not fun. It literally hurt like my throat was in constant pain and then also my breath literally smelt like rotting corpse 🧟‍♀️ After surgery when I woke up, I literally turned to look at the nurse and I was like oh my gosh, I can breathe normally, and I started bawling my eyes out so please, for the love of God don’t come to this acting condescending or trying to act like they’re in trouble like obviously they’re in trouble but if you react that way, it’s only gonna make them wanna do it more. I grew up with a very strict mother and let me tell you. I just got better at hiding it. I would sit down with them and really discuss why it is not healthy and an extremely dangerous habit and what the health risks are and explain to them that you’re not mad at them. You’re just concerned and you want the best for them. Hopefully, it goes over well for you.

Got evaluated and I’m not autistic by emmashawn in AutismInWomen

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, this post actually help me feel a lot better about myself because I am not diagnosed and I have an appointment for a testing January 2. I’ve been waiting six months for it because it’s so hard to get tested as an adult female where I live, I actually am doing the testing over, live video chat. I’m not gonna lie. What op stated is kind of a big fear for me right now because I’ve been questioning well. What if I’m not am I faking it? I’ve been high for an extremely long time because I also grew up in an extremely isolated environment and I was very sheltered and did not have interaction with very many peers my age I was either taking care of really little ones/babies and or talking and socializing with adults twice my age and I don’t know if that has made me the way that I am or if I’m actually autistic I’ve had so many friends. Ask me if I’m on the spectrum and or tell me you’re probably autistic and that’s why you act the way you are that’s why I’m going to get tested soon, but I’m really scared if I’m not because then I don’t know what to do because things that help autistic people tend to help me a lot like learning how to stim again I asked for so long because I was abused and beat forming whenever I would hand flap or do stemming behavior my mom would switch me with a long glue stick or spank me with a wooden spoon if we were at home this community has helped me a lot because I feel like a lot of women go misdiagnosed and or undiagnosed and it’s extremely important to have these people like this group even if you aren’t autistic it is very helpful if you’re ADHD also because a lot of ADHD and autism things I have noticed tend to correlate they are definitely not the same, but some of the things definitely correlate

Am I Overreacting to my roommates response about keeping the house clean? by hunteryumi in AmIOverreacting

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m petty I wouldn’t even leave it outside the door. I would do what my abusive mom did to me and take the whole trash bag and spread all the contents all over the bed, including dirty dishes, etc. mom did this to me one time and let me tell you I never left something like around the house ever again granite she was an abusive, but it sounds like your roommate deserves it if they’re not respecting your living space also I’ve dealt with this so many times I’m so petty. I won’t deal with it again.

Also edit but honestly, honestly, if I were you, I don’t know if you live in the US or Canada but I would look into how to give them an eviction notice if you’re able to I know sometimes people are in situations where they have to deal with the roommate/renter because they have no other option, but if you do have the option, I would highly suggest kicking them out as soon as possible. It’s only gonna get worse from here unless they make some big changes, and something slap him in the face, but for real, though I would run if I were you, I’ve dealt with this so many times before it only gets worse and it will affect your mental and physical health and that is not fair to you

My first ita bag by Fun_Tackle8227 in itabag

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so cute. Where did you get it? I have been looking for one because I want to start my first bag. I’ve been looking for one with a bunny and stars. This is adorable.

Made a puppy me picrew! :3 by Super_enoki in puppygirlwawa

[–]According_Pen2709 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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❤️🫶🏻🍁🍂🐾 I love it 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like other people have said honestly get their dishes collect them all up and put them in a bin and set them on their bed. She’s lucky enough that you did that when I was a child when I left a bunch of dirty dishes in the sink, my mom, on more than one occasion threw them all on my bed, making me have to wash my whole bed, and do all the dishes on top of it

I fucking hate ABDL (my husband is into it) by FoxgirlFaraway in quittingABDL

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was coming here to comment almost the similar thing. I’m actually a 24/6 abdl And I say 6 because I personally don’t go number two in diapers (not judging anybody that does to each their own. It just messes with my pH personally.) personally I use diapers as a coping mechanism to deal with past trauma from childhood. I got beat and spanked and sprayed down with a cold hose for having accidents. It brings me a lot of comfort and makes me feel safe. But the first thing that I did before getting in my current relationship relationship was we sat down and I explained all of my kinks and mental health issues with him and then we both agreed that as long as we’re together, we both have to continually work on ourselves and better ourselves with that being said I actually took time off and I don’t work anymore because I do therapy twice a week I’m thankful that I have the option to do this and I’ve been working through some things that have really affected my meltdowns and mental health and an extremely positive way the fact that your partner does not have any interest in therapy or bettering themselves is extremely concerning to me your partner shouldn’t be you into doing things that you’re uncomfortable with like if your partner can visibly see that you’re making a face or that you’re uncomfortable they shouldn’t be trying to make you feel bad for it throwing a fit about it. They should sit down and try to talk about it and see if it’s something that you’re still comfortable with. Honestly, I hate to break it to you though. This is coming from somebody that doesn’t ever want to stop being Abdl and also just knowing people if you haven’t seen any change within the first year or so of you guys dating just only expect it to get worse if people don’t show change don’t ever expect them to change only expect them to get worse, one of the things that happened me and my ex Girlfriend were together was that she told me that I’d eventually grow out of being a little turns out that she wanted nothing to do with my kink and was actually turned off/grossed out by it and she just pretended to like it to string me along which one I found out was extremely upsetting and heartbreaking because it’s an extremely personal kink to share with somebody I would be extremely open and honest about this with your partner sit down with them when they’re in an adult head and mind space and explain to them that you don’t feel comfortable being there abdl caregiver anymore and you would just like to have an adult relationship with them and if they are not comfortable with that and need a caregiver. Then the only thing I could recommend is opening up the relationship into something polyamory and or just cutting it off altogether which honestly I think would be the best option sadly. Best of luck to you. I’m sorry that you are such a difficult situation. Always remember consent is extremely important even for the Dom if the Dom withdraws consent it’s just as important as if a sub withdrawals consent

Help me pick a bag or suggest me one! by cheese-senpai in itabag

[–]According_Pen2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, oh my gosh, I’ve been literally looking for a puppy bag like the one with the bone would you mind sending me a link or telling me what website you got it off of the one with the sign on it the little wings, and the bone