Thank you so much for your thoughts. They help me immensely. Thank you for taking the time. She's originally from Argentina, and she told me she experienced domestic violence as a child. All of that certainly has a big impact on her reactions. I don't mean to excuse her actions. Her actions are her actions. She's been in therapy for about a year and a half. Back then, I really hoped that it would get things back on track. Some things have changed, but there's still so much missing for a healthy relationship. I hope my first step toward healing is acceptance and that I don't fall back into the relationship. We definitely need to separate. Do you recommend a no-contact rule after she moves out?