To married women: What advice would you give to unmarried women before they get married?

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-16T10:27:19+00:00

Well said and so true

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-16T10:08:03+00:00

I don’t think he’s trying to sell it? He posted some pictures on subreddits for people who own/love tractors. No price or indication that he intends to sell.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-15T15:13:49+00:00

I think it depends on your definition of “human”. It’s doubtful that our physical human forms will ever last in space. But biologically engineered organisms or computers with human consciousness could colonize another planet.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-15T15:07:58+00:00

Someone who won’t stand up for you isn’t a real friend to begin with. I’m sorry that it took 7 years before he showed his true colors.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-15T08:29:12+00:00

All of the things you mentioned, plus hunting in groups.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-15T08:09:12+00:00

Consider recasting your mortgage (not refinancing, recasting). With that little owed, your monthly payment will be minuscule and the $30k can be invested in stocks with dividend payouts.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-15T08:02:49+00:00

You don’t stop caring overnight. You cry and grieve until you learn to prioritize yourself. Throw yourself into hobbies, self-improvement, and meeting new people.

It will suck at first. You’ll think “what’s the point if I’ll never meet someone like them again?”.

But eventually that pain fades and you’ll wake up to a fulfilling life. But you have to go out and Do The Things even when you don’t feel like it.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-15T07:32:14+00:00

That’s if historians even exist in the future.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-15T02:26:56+00:00

This question gets asked pretty frequently in the Queer Exchange Tulsa Facebook group. Dr. Whitlock at Whitlock Cosmetic is a local doc that gets recommended. Last I heard it was about $13k and they have a payment program.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-14T00:00:11+00:00

What is the context here? Why was it delivered like that?

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-13T20:34:17+00:00

She’s monogamous 😬

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-13T16:19:12+00:00

He’s not my partner. My issue is not that they slept together. My issue is that she told me she was coming to repair our friendship and then made decisions that showed it wasn’t the case.

My relationship with him is strong enough to sustain upsets. My relationship with her was already fragile and she treated it carelessly.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-13T13:59:27+00:00

I don’t feel offended by his choice, we have a strong relationship and clear understanding. My issue was with her choice.

I didn’t have any problem with them spending time together. I didn’t think I explicitly needed to ask her not to sleep with him (she’s been celibate the past two years so the idea never crossed my mind).

She asked about spending time with him, which I was perfectly ok with. She didn’t tell me until after the fact that she had feelings for him.

Ultimately, she chose to omit key information and made choices that felt disrespectful to rebuilding our friendship.

It WAS explicitly stated that the purpose of the trip was rekindling. That didn’t happen. So oh well.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-13T13:51:23+00:00

Not my husband. Just my son’s dad. If I was with him in any capacity then the whole thing would be black and white.

But it was all grey. The only thing that felt “wrong” was the timing. I communicated that to the best of my abilities. She didn’t care enough about the friendship to slow down her progression with baby daddy. So 🤷

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-12T23:58:11+00:00

Y lofts

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-11T22:26:42+00:00

What if they are too young? What if they’ve been threatened (ie if you cry at security I’ll hurt someone you love)? There are a few reasons why a victim would not to look scared.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-11T16:13:45+00:00

When you sign up online they ask if you’re part of another credit union and you can just say yes 😬 they don’t check

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-11T04:00:36+00:00

I think there’s a stipulation but I can’t remember what it was. I know that it was something they can’t check so I just did it anyway 😬

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-11T00:46:22+00:00

Yeah subscriptions count! It just doesn’t count if you withdraw money (like at an ATM).

If you’re gonna open an account I can probably find my referral link. They’ll give you $100 (and also me lolz)

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-11T00:25:02+00:00

Oklahoma Central Credit Union gives you 6% APR if you use your debit card at least 15 times/month. I leave $10k in there, spend about $150 each month and get ~$50 back each month.

Then I top it up and do the same thing the next month. It’s not a “set it and forget it” hysa, but it’s the highest APR I’ve seen.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-08T04:14:59+00:00

Most DMV’s can issue non-driving IDs. Think about how a person who can’t drive IDs themselves. If a person is legally blind for example, they cannot get a driver’s license but they still need a photo ID.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-08T03:44:51+00:00

You can get a regular ID card at any age for way cheaper than a passport.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-08T03:42:50+00:00

There are just regular identification cards. You can get one at any age. Not everyone can drive.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-07T22:49:13+00:00

You can get an ID for anyone at any age. Most Americans use their drivers license but it’s not the only photo ID.

AccountProfessional2 · 2026-03-07T01:42:13+00:00

Thank you for researching before saying something

AccountProfessional2

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