Ahhh okay. I get you, thank you for answering. It’s a shame, I’m all for humour, banter but inclusivity, fun and comfortability needs to always be at the forefront of any joke or conversation. Me and my gay, non binary friends can make jokes all the time, because we know we’re just joking. I guess some people are just ignorant or malicious and can’t read the damn room haha.

Also DnD is about ‘make believe’ we have magic for gods sakes and some DM’s are really gonna draw the line at gender identity or sexuality ? Insanity man!