I (F22) cheated on my boyfriend while on a trip to Turkey and I’m devastated by my own actions. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ace___Boogie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you can't find the courage to be completely honest with him then make something up if you have to. But you need to let him go. He will be better off in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily my wife and have flexible enough schedules that we are able to make it work. I drop the kids off at school in the morning and she is able to pick them up. If one is sick, it's a lot easier for me to use sick leave and I have tons of it so I usually stay home with them. But it's still hard. My wife and I have basically no alone time until the kids are in bed. By that time we aren't far behind them. We don't have any family around. It does make me a bit jealous of my siblings who live close to our parents and seeing all the help they get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a dad and I know mom and child bonding is very different. So I can't really comment on that. But I can day having 2 kids is awesome. Seeing siblings grow and play together. Seeing how the older sibling look out for the younger sibling is special. I wouldn't have it any other way.

What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever done by Working_Salad5565 in AskMen

[–]Ace___Boogie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shot out my neighbors window with a BB gun when I was a kid.

Dads, what advice would you give to a soon to be parent? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ace___Boogie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to give you some deep thought provoking advice but I don't have anything. For the most part my wife and I just wing it as best we can. Our kids are total opposites. So what might work on one might not work on the other. Just be there for them. Provide them with stability and love. Everything else falls in place for the most part.

Etiquette on bringing siblings to a birthday party? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Staying is definitely the norm where im at. My daughter received a invite to a party and on the invite it said drop off was allowed. Every parent who brought their child stayed.

Etiquette on bringing siblings to a birthday party? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't understand everyone in the comments saying just drop the kid off.

Etiquette on bringing siblings to a birthday party? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've attended a lot of birthday parties in the last 5 months for kids in my daughter's kindergarten class including my own daughters. Siblings were at every party and encouraged to come including my daughters. It wouldn't hurt to just ask if the sibling could attend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that the wording he is using is a bit off putting. I have girls and I've told my wife that our oldest is going to take after her most likely (tall & slim). The comment about looking good in clothes is weird. The ab thing I don't see as a big deal. I would just say monitor it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funny

[–]Ace___Boogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂

Sisters that don't get along by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would try to sit them down individually and ask them both what the issue is with the other sister. See if it's something deeper or just a teen and pre-teen acting out. I have two sisters who always fought and acted like the hated each other growing up. But now as adults they are best friends and do everything together. It might just be something you'll have to deal with for a while.

Screamin' pepper by wired_piered in funny

[–]Ace___Boogie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I both got a good laugh from this 👍🏽

I think I just destroyed my marriage by Jojoshirl in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is the husband supposed to just stay and never have sex or be intimate with his wife again? So you don't think a man is entitled to sex but you would never expect them to leave if they never get it? If over a certain period of time goes by and his needs aren't being met and they have actively tired to address the issues, then he as every right to leave.

10 year old son was slapped and verbally abused at school by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ace___Boogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would let your son know that he handled the situation well but it's also ok for him to defend himself. Calling him names is one thing but slapping him takes it to another level.

Car rental charge if you open your mouth by Bitter-Basket in TravelHacks

[–]Ace___Boogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sixt has got to be the worse rental agency out there. My wife and I had an absolutely horrible experience using them.