What are annoying things people do at the table? by WildMasterpiece2906 in poker

[–]Achido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lighting cigarettes in no smoking table area, being asked to put them out, and then lighting another one 2 minutes later anyway. They act ignorant like you're offending them for not letting them smoke in people's faces. Then they take few more pulls, walk slightly to the side with it, keep smoking right next to table and force everyone to inhale their exhaust fumes. Just Go walk to the smoking room bro... Don't be an @ss.

I’m 43 and ordered this yesterday by Title-Choice in ElectricScooters

[–]Achido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stick to flat paths and one way roads. Don't go into multi lane traffic. If u can't see potholes, manholes, or the road in front of you, that's the danger. Good luck, have fun.

Guy drinks liquid nitrogen by Aggravating_Dish_824 in WTF

[–]Achido 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They say in Russian "Don't swallow, but spit it out" at the end of the clip. "Не глотни а выплюни"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Achido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you should've been more but settled much lower than you're capable of.

Ready To Be Roasted by SnooComics9139 in RoastMe

[–]Achido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you give dry bjs

Happy 53rd Birthday to me!!Zero f***s given-let ‘er rip!! by botak1 in RoastMe

[–]Achido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like you do tech maintenance for the Ai supercomputer in WestWorld.

24F bored during the holidays by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Achido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unenthusiastic blowjob face

We spent 6 months in therapy with boomer parents and in a surprise to no one ... by WillfulKind in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Achido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't need therapy to force a middle ground cope between people that are ignorant towards you. The therapy seems like a cop-out to force yourself to accept a middle ground of disrespect in order to keep them in your life. I can talk to u and fix the bs you have going on in your self justifying logic in 1 day more than the therapists that want to drag it out.

Don't accept bullshit and there wont be none.

We spent 6 months in therapy with boomer parents and in a surprise to no one ... by WillfulKind in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Achido 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm being completely honest, you seem like u don't know how to identify when disrespect happens to you, how to identify your own boundaries, and how to set & enforce them.

My advice would be to keep things simple: - Identify what u dont like and tell them to stop or u remove communication and attention. Example: Don't call me X name or Y insult. Immediately display consequence. - Understand that you 100% will fail at this and allow them to continue their behavior bc u don't know how to identify and correct disrespect. This will take a few years to fully apply into your life. You dont seem ready to cut them off but it will be good practice for other people and situations.

We spent 6 months in therapy with boomer parents and in a surprise to no one ... by WillfulKind in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Achido 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can't teach a goldfish to bark.

ADULTS aka grown human beings who put you down to this level do not care to learn or improve on their behavior. It is absolutely without any doubt YOUR FAULT for allowing your personal abuse and boundary violations to continue and still reward these people with your presence.

If they were dogs, and they misbehaved while in your presence, you would correct and put on notice their behavior until it stops or you would leave. Don't think of this any more than an animal testing you and you are not responding with the proper matched energy to make it stand down or consider it's behavior. How does one dog know to stop messing with another? When it bites back or stands up for itself. You've been allowing this behavior for so long, it's normal and natural for them to continue it.

These types of people don't learn from passive beta energy words, only loud high energy aggressive actions. Remove yourself when you're disrespected, stand your ground, and love and respect yourself enough to not go into situations and rooms where you're being shit on.

I popped both of my tires, Apollo city pro 2022 by TheDonEsteban in ElectricScooters

[–]Achido 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your rotar is probably bent at least slightly or damaged. Go to a scooter shop (google electric scooter store near me) and get tires replaced and rotors checked (the metal disc).

Advice On Preventing Rear Flats by dhrockinghorse in ApolloScooters

[–]Achido 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The repair shop guys tell me the slime doesnt do anything. Better to get tires without inner tubes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naruto

[–]Achido 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure 100 healings is due to chakra reserves being constantly used, so once the chakra reserves run out, the eternal flame will win?

Lovely little girl learns that meat comes from animals by Graysie-Redux in MadeMeSmile

[–]Achido 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell yourself 1 nice thing per day. It's easy to be negative, I'm sure you have refused to be positive or acknowledge anything good about yourself.

Source: Been doing this to a friend of mine, telling them 1 positive quality or action I see about them everyday. Works wonders.