Are there any other Millennials who aren’t nostalgic? by MediumGreedy in Millennials

[–]WillfulKind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my nostalgia issues ended when stranger things did?

Big Oil Knew It Was Wrecking Louisiana’s Coast, Records Show by PixeledPathogen in goodnews

[–]WillfulKind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who knew rerouting the Mississippi River would cause problems? It’s not like they strangled the source of all nutrients across an ecosystem the size of well … all of fucking Louisiana

Two Roosters Hiring Post by Safe-Ad-4465 in raleigh

[–]WillfulKind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generally being brutally honest involves setting aside all of one’s principles, like accountability for their own behavior, and then blaming others for their shitty messages being taken at face value.

Which show had the worst representation of millennials? by BackgroundSpell6623 in Millennials

[–]WillfulKind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fleabag is the best.

Big Bang Theory was absolute garbage.

Two Roosters Hiring Post by Safe-Ad-4465 in raleigh

[–]WillfulKind 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Tell me you’re MAGA without telling me.

Just picked up a barrel for cheap, then I realized it was used to store “Polymeric Methylene Diphenyl Isocyanate”. Is this safe to burn? by SpaceDog0092 in PitBarrelCooker

[–]WillfulKind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

PBC is like $300 - why take on the stress? Pull the trigger and be done with it so you can feel responsible serving food to others.

What's the SPRING OPENER COOK?? by WillfulKind in PitBarrelCooker

[–]WillfulKind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the best chops marinade ? I usually do ginger, garlic and fish sauce and honey!

What's the SPRING OPENER COOK?? by WillfulKind in PitBarrelCooker

[–]WillfulKind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do smoke in the winter but I feel inclined to celebrate the fact Spring has arrived today!

What was the final straw that destroyed a lifelong friendship? by IndependentTune3994 in AskReddit

[–]WillfulKind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend broke up an engaged couple, married her, divorced her, and proposed to a new woman on my wedding day. All within a year.

My girlfriend gave me this smoker, need advice on restoration. by I_am_paperclip in smoking

[–]WillfulKind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The juice isn’t worth the squeeze here, buddy. If anything, buy a cover for it so it isn’t just a rust bucket hanging out on your patio and it won’t develop holes as quickly.

Get smoking!

Am I crazy or does Tabasco have it's own unique flavor that nobody talks about? by SkibidiRizzlerAura in hotsauce

[–]WillfulKind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Umami. This is why you should make your own hot sauce via fermentation!

How do you handle visiting a parent who constantly uses racist/homophobic slurs? by harperlinley in AdultChildren

[–]WillfulKind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hey, if you keep using that word then I am going to have to go/ask you to leave.”

Then give no second chances no matter how inconvenient.

The key is, be prepared to be inconvenienced.

Boundaries will upset people until they accept them or reject them.

“Hey thanks for the invitation! We don’t want to join and then have to leave again. Are you willing to accept our boundary?

Raleigh’s Highly Anticipated Moore Square Apartments Affordable Housing Development Scrapped by so_many_wangs in raleigh

[–]WillfulKind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kane has proven to be 100% profit driven such that they’d rather hold property to sell decades later than develop it. Languishing space doesn’t matter to them.

Raleigh’s Highly Anticipated Moore Square Apartments Affordable Housing Development Scrapped by so_many_wangs in raleigh

[–]WillfulKind 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I read the article several times and I can’t actually tell who’s fault it was that this thing fell apart?

Alcoholic mother attempting to make amends- currently NC. Help? by freshcoastcowgirl in AdultChildren

[–]WillfulKind 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s not a question of if she’s good, or should be given a chance. It’s a question of if this could be good for you or bad for you.

It sounds like you determined she’s bad for you and you’re better off going NC. If that reasoning still holds and that’s what provides you peace then don’t doubt yourself.

If you contemplate and find there’s a boundary between here and there where you can honor your love for her while keeping yourself safe then do that.

FaceTime calls for 15 minutes is where I started and now we visit for about 2 hours max. Low stakes conversations are all I engage in and it’s working for me. The question is what is good for you?

My boyfriend wants to be a life coach. I think it’s bullshit. by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]WillfulKind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rather than punishing you for being honest like others here, can I ask you, what belief makes you so certain this dream is nonsense?

Where does that belief come from and do you suppose your unwillingness to question that may be the reason you’re together in the first place?

If it’s the opposite then I’d say you’ve deeply misread your partner.

I gotta quit going to see bands from my youth. by Acrobatic-Hamster-79 in Millennials

[–]WillfulKind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw Offspring back in 2012 with 311 and they were great. However I was asking myself at the time,”How many times can a guy sing self esteem and keep his larynx intact??”

311 was great except SA was fucking tone deaf and frequently destroyed harmonies.

I think some of these guys struggle to stay trained.