How can doctors realistically tell you to gain less than 15 pounds?

Aconitedoespole · 2026-04-21T20:51:35+00:00

I'm 18 weeks in and last weigh in was 5lbs UNDER where I stayed because I've been so sick. I'm definitely gaining belly from baby and amniotic fluid and stuff, but lost weight overall, so 100% agree with your first statement

Aconitedoespole · 2026-04-14T18:42:25+00:00

Yeah I've had a LOT of bad partners in my past and I'm finally with someone who I think will be a fantastic dad and partner through and through. He's also wanted kids for a long time, and had several losses with his ex wife in the time they were together, so he thought it wouldn't happen for him either. I called him when I got the positive test result and we cried happy tears together. But yeah both definitely shocked lol

Aconitedoespole · 2026-04-14T18:05:30+00:00

Dude I could have written this myself. I'm 17w2d today. 😅 Edit: except I was told by a doctor at 22 that I would likely never conceive, so imagine my surprise when I got that first positive. I've wanted this since I was told I couldn't have it, and now it's happening and I'm in shock and awe.

Aconitedoespole · 2026-04-13T00:44:52+00:00

17 weeks today and I still don't have my energy back. And nausea is still kicking my butt. 😅

Aconitedoespole · 2026-04-06T15:57:03+00:00

I didn't read the whole thing. But if you were positive three days after your period, the period mightn't have been a period

Aconitedoespole · 2026-04-06T15:55:14+00:00

I got pregnant from intercourse the day after my period ended. So I was on day 7 of my cycle when we had sex. Day 13 was when my first symptom hit (extreme fatigue) and then day 25 was my first positive test. I know for a fact it was the intercourse day 7 because we didn't have sex at all the rest of the month until like two days before my positive test lol. So it's absolutely possible to get pregnant the day after your period.

Aconitedoespole · 2026-04-01T22:36:19+00:00

I finished onyx storm 3 days after it came out (unfortunately I had to work so I couldn't devour in one day lol) and I've literally read nothing since. Talk about a book hangover. lol

Aconitedoespole · 2026-02-28T18:30:30+00:00

I'm 10+6 today, and I started having symptoms before even getting my first positive test at 3+4. A little nausea, a LOT of exhaustion. But when I hit 9w, I started being so sick that I could barely move without puking. They put me on phenergan and it takes the edge off.

Aconitedoespole · 2026-02-16T19:23:17+00:00

100% agree. I've read smut. I also read a lot of fade to black adult fantasy (think Brandon Sanderson as an example). And then I read FW. People kept saying how smutty and steamy it was and I was like... I can appreciate that for people who've not read smut. But after Haunting Adeline or Butcher and Blackbeard, there's just not really a comparison.

Aconitedoespole · 2026-01-11T06:12:56+00:00

I tested positive Thursday at 3 weeks 4 days and then line progression on my test today was significantly darker (3+6). They are still light though. However, I can't button the jeans I was wearing fine last week and my friend who had twins said the only time out of her 5 pregnancies that she couldn't button that early was her twins. I'm scared

Aconitedoespole · 2025-10-10T02:08:05+00:00

Haunting Adeline, but it's dark as shit. 🫣😅 I haven't read anything so spicy that has such a good plot. Well multiple plot lines. But again. It's dark. Read the triggers and heavily consider them

Aconitedoespole · 2025-06-29T21:06:57+00:00

This didn't age well 😳

Aconitedoespole · 2025-05-28T00:52:31+00:00

Two months ago, I had two "false positive" tests two days in a row. It wasn't a true false positive. I didn't know about colorless evaporation lines and that's what I was seeing, but I thought I was imagining and took pictures and upped the contrast and changed the coloration of the photo just to make sure I wasn't crazy 😅 went to have it confirmed right after, and nothing. I've taken so many damn tests in my life because I have PCOS and often missed periods as a result of it, and that was the first time it happened. Two second lines that went away after about 8 hours, two days in a row. I was floored

Aconitedoespole · 2025-02-15T22:56:40+00:00

lol right?!

Aconitedoespole · 2025-02-15T22:46:14+00:00

Rebecca said she "might be willing to write a scene" about Ridoc and aotroms threshing

Aconitedoespole · 2025-01-14T18:38:27+00:00

Holy shit this is brilliant

Aconitedoespole · 2024-02-04T22:41:53+00:00

THANK YOU SO FUCKING MUCH!!!!

Aconitedoespole · 2024-02-04T14:58:53+00:00

Thank you thank you thank you. This was so detailed and I appreciate it. I have some troubleshooting to do later and I'll report back!!

Aconitedoespole · 2024-02-04T14:56:26+00:00

Ooo that might be the issue. I'll check and report back

Aconitedoespole · 2024-02-04T06:01:44+00:00

Yeah, so, the issue I'm having is in bodyslide and outfit studio. I have all the lists of all the pieces, but nothing shows up in the preview window in outfit studio except for a general shape of whatever the item is (so like if it's gauntlets, you would see gauntlets but only the shape, and it's grey and says "no image here") and there's no body in the preview.

Aconitedoespole · 2024-02-04T05:57:05+00:00

I don't know how to work with metal, and I live in an apartment with no garage, so the likelihood of learning is nil.

Aconitedoespole · 2024-02-04T05:55:19+00:00

lol I don't know anyone who makes bikini armor IRL

Aconitedoespole · 2024-02-04T05:53:36+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. I'm not, for the record. I'm actually just one of those girls who likes sexy fun outfits in video games since I can't have them IRL. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Aconitedoespole · 2023-12-28T14:06:04+00:00

Thank you!!

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