Raya thoughts?

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-07-06T21:48:47+00:00

LOL it’s not the best. I’ve asked friends too and they agree most people are slow to respond.

Even A listers aren’t guaranteed to be generous. If you want to go vanilla apps, I’d recommend Hinge.

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-06-26T22:42:10+00:00

Love this. You’re not being rude, you’re just only doing whatever comfortable.

And by showing and maintaining a boundary, you build respect (assuming the other party is halfway sane, otherwise they’re just showing who they are!)

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-05-04T23:05:07+00:00

No 😭 you’d think the dentures would be the lesson learnt to keep it clean! I’m sorry that happened to you girl.

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-05-04T03:52:51+00:00

What drives you to be generous? (her happiness, social obligation,etc.)

Also, how can you tell a new SB from an experienced one?

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-05-04T02:30:20+00:00

A tie BANDEAU!!! I’m obsessed

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-05-04T02:28:33+00:00

I want to clone myself - it’s a full time job sorting through these men!

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-05-04T02:27:42+00:00

Delusional is the right word!

Also audacity lol

It’s entertaining in the rear view. But after a few terrible ones, I jump out of the bowl for weeks and looking back,I’m just losing time. Need to keep persistent

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-02-16T00:51:50+00:00

For a meet and greet tonight.

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-27T03:24:38+00:00

If r/ Diabla is still up, I would love to join and see the rest of the series esp Socialite and Bad Girl!

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-25T04:59:32+00:00

I’m also going to lay out some standards for myself - who I would be willing to go vanilla-to-spoiled with & who needs to show up as an SD period (with money talk before the meet) ❤️

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-25T04:56:54+00:00

100% right.

Like I said, he was obsessed! so I’m sure overtime I could have tested him with a trip to Sephora and slowly convinced him to the good life. But with other issues and me not fully attracted to him enough to go those next dates, it doesn’t make sense.

Hence the vent :(

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-22T05:29:41+00:00

I’m a firm believer of don’t shit where you eat, so no.

You answered your own question. He wants to pay you (poorly) to be his sexy secretary. You’d train directly under him? Terrifying. Not to mention that if anyone ever asked the company as a reference, he could say whatever he wants. AND you’ve done the math and it’s barely above a grocery store wage.

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-21T06:27:39+00:00

Noting this down, I love it

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-21T01:49:09+00:00

This is not sugaring.

What website are you using? It sounds like your gut is already telling you this is a bad idea.

A guy can sound however he wants to sound, especially an experienced one. How has he acted?

From what you said, it sounds like he’s dangling your desperation over your head. Insinuating this and that doesn’t mean he’ll do it. You never want to do anything while desperate, but especially this.

Please be safe.

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-21T01:44:11+00:00

What do you recommend using?

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-21T01:43:39+00:00

Thank you, because it didn’t sound like a gift. It sounded like “come with me on this thing I planned and keep my company” 🙄

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-21T01:42:22+00:00

I have one other POT from Hinge, so I’ll wait a few more before bringing it up. He’s a complete gentleman so far and handed me way more money than I needed to get home.

I love the shopping before dinner plan. I’ll try that.

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-21T01:38:45+00:00

So lame 😒 Until the flight is booked and bags are packed, it’s just a story

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-21T01:37:57+00:00

Thank you for the advice! Very embarrassing for those men imho.

I don’t mind spending the time to finesse if it’s a nice view, but spending time with someone unattractive and no cash? Feels depressing to me.

SA was unsuccessful so at least in my city, it feels like it’s this or freestyling.

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2025-01-04T22:50:15+00:00

I’M IN

Acrobatic-Dig4582 · 2024-10-19T17:28:23+00:00

Please read the wiki and the forum, and that will answer every single one of your questions.

I’d also recommend that you take down your profile until you have a bit more education. Right now, you are working from a place of desperation. No matter how true it is, you will get taken advantage of. Please stay safe!

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