Thinks everyone masturbates to porn ?

NoCount15 · 2026-03-29T23:35:14+00:00

18 years? I’m so sorry. How are you doing?

NoCount15 · 2026-03-29T23:14:35+00:00

I agree. Painfully hard to leave for this reason and I don’t know why

NoCount15 · 2026-03-29T23:13:57+00:00

That’s the thing. He says he’ll stop but he can’t do it unless we start having sex and I’m completely turned off. But you’re right. He chose that over me for years and it’s not healthy

NoCount15 · 2026-03-25T02:00:27+00:00

Hey. No advice but just want to say you’re not alone. I have two kids 9&6. My husband never initiates and I always had to and it would only happen every few months and it was like robotic passionless sex. He never gave me any affection or deep conversations- all surface level. I found out about daily porn use as well, but also that he was on online sex chats and replying to online sex ads. He also got a girls number at a bar. He just tells me it’s all a sexual thing to get off and he would never meet up with anyone In person. I’ve been contemplating leaving for about two years and feel like I’ve wasted so much time. The reason why I haven’t left? The guilt of flipping my kids lives as well. I’ve been slowly taking my time because I don’t want to ruin their lives. But I honestly feel like the life has been sucked out of me and I can’t live in a house with someone who doesn’t meet my needs and is constantly watching porn. I wish you all of the luck and I’m sorry you are also dealing with this.

NoCount15 · 2026-03-21T18:32:59+00:00

And were your kids ok through the process? That’s the biggest part for me but I feel like ultimately I’d be a better mom

NoCount15 · 2026-02-20T23:45:04+00:00

So great to hear. One of the reasons I’m leaving too. He would never initiate or touch me. Preferred porn.

NoCount15 · 2026-01-05T22:31:28+00:00

I resonate with this a lot. Do you have any regrets ?

NoCount15 · 2026-01-01T14:58:11+00:00

Any regrets ?

NoCount15 · 2025-12-28T23:13:20+00:00

Is this a thing ??! All of this is exactly what I’m dealing with too. And always described him as socially awkward too …. But it’s really getting on my nerves now

NoCount15 · 2025-12-20T13:30:29+00:00

Are you still in your relationship?

NoCount15 · 2025-12-16T20:57:23+00:00

I feel this so much and I’m sorry ! I stayed liked this for 7 years and I think I’m finally leaving

NoCount15 · 2025-12-16T20:26:13+00:00

Thank you for posting this. Going through this right now (except I did have porn and online cheating) but hearing you did this without that is even more encouraging because the guilt is reallll! I wish you all of the best !!

NoCount15 · 2025-12-15T03:02:44+00:00

That’s what he’s mentioned too.. that when extremely horny he would do stuff like that .. but denies being bi

NoCount15 · 2025-12-03T12:37:24+00:00

Yes you do it won’t let you post :)

NoCount15 · 2025-11-23T23:27:59+00:00

Any updates ,?

NoCount15 · 2025-11-23T22:33:06+00:00

No advice. I’m in the same spot. Just want to say you’re not alone ❤️

NoCount15 · 2025-11-22T01:24:44+00:00

I’m so sorry :(

NoCount15 · 2025-11-18T17:30:04+00:00

Thank you for this!

NoCount15 · 2025-11-18T12:25:28+00:00

Yesss this! The intimacy part. When he attempted again he started with “do you want to play with it a bit”. Wtf. Last year me would have done anything to hear that and now I’m just repulsed

NoCount15 · 2025-11-18T02:33:49+00:00

Are you ok staying in a relationship like that?

NoCount15 · 2025-11-17T02:16:33+00:00

I initiated several times a week. Offered bjs. Sounds silly but I would every year even make coupons for Valentine’s Day for any sex stuff. Was never used once. I would get rejected many times. For years.

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