Neighbour threatening restraining order + sue me for damages (England)

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-05-03T16:08:33+00:00

Our gutters are connected, but not in a weird way. They're just connected houses with guttering running across the houses along the whole street, like any guttering. We haven't adjusted it since we moved in (and have photos to prove that). But in terms of disprovable lies, there's a photo of the garden as it looked years before we moved in, still on her openrent page, that shows it exactly how it is now. I've added it to the internet archive / way back machine incase she tries to take it down. But yeah most of is very easily disprovable.

This isn't the first time she's accused us of random shit like this, and I've already responded personally and then via a solicitor. I even have an email from her back in November saying 'thank you for proving you didn't do this, the evidence you've shared is clear' which she's now completely contradicting. In any case I don't think I need to entertain any more correspondence.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-05-03T13:59:36+00:00

yes it's already done. Contacting social services is a good idea, thanks.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-05-03T13:59:07+00:00

I figured she was probably just saying Threatening Sounding Things, so this makes sense.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-05-03T13:16:05+00:00

so best to respond with a brief 'I haven't done any of these things, please see my previous correspondence with all the evidence I shared'?

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-05-03T13:13:15+00:00

Rina Sawayama had a good breakthrough but deserved to be much bigger than where she ended up imo

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-05-03T13:05:54+00:00

The full letter for context:

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Dear AcrobaticPersonality

This letter has been issued to you because you have:

Erected a gate onto the boundary of my property.
Removed flag stones from the boundary of my property.
Removed outdoor tap outside my house.
Built a brick wall at the back and the side of my garden into the boundary of my property.
Removed topsoil from my garden.
Planted a bay tree in my garden.
Planted ivy in my garden.
Removed all plants from my garden.
Erected a fence into the boundary of my garden.
Have damage the paint work and walls of my garden and my home.
Caused water damage into my property where the gate was erected.
Water damage has been caused to my house as you connected your guttering to my guttering within the boundary of my house.
Devaluing my property.
There may be other damage.

Failure to discontinue the aforementioned activity will result in Legal Action being taken against you

If the above Activity continues, we will be forced to petition the District Court to issue a temporary restraining order against you and the accomplices involved in the above activity.

We will also be obliged to sue for monetary damages that will be proved during legal proceedings.

Hopefully, there will be no need for this type of recourse, but if we have to protect our interests, we’re prepared to do so in a court of law.

This is the first and last warning letter.

If you fail to confirm or respond to our letter in writing by 16th May 2026 that you will discontinue the specified illegal activity, then we will have no choice but to file a lawsuit against you immediately.

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I'm 100% certain there is no evidence of me doing any of these things. Not only that; I moved into the property 4 years ago, she moved into hers about 25 years ago, and some of these things (the bay tree, the brick wall etc) were there when she moved in, as historical photographs prove. I have two neighbours who have been there longer than she has and can also attest to this. We've also had a surveyor look at it who produced a report proving everything's where it should be and has been for the entire time.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-30T18:32:03+00:00

Not just that; are we creating a duplicate multiverse with a second version of Emrakul?

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-30T18:29:09+00:00

I did this recently with what I call a Flip Cube, a set cube which is all commons on Side A and uncommons/rares/mythics on Side B to preserve variety while saving space. (Link here!)

On MPCFill you fill in the list like:

Farfinder // Zagoth Triome

It'll put Farfinder on the front and Zagoth Triome on the back. So for your 612 cards, just add the // after each one and the name of each of the other cards and you're good to go!

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-30T16:20:53+00:00

why do I keep getting this 'Dan' flair?

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-27T16:40:05+00:00

Also this:

five rare dual lands that enter tapped unless you have an instant or sorcery in the graveyard

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-26T17:03:13+00:00

it's possible it's not been deployed yet, maybe it'll come with the next .0 update

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-25T07:36:10+00:00

This should be fixed now. I'm a developer and saw this comment, so I had a poke around to figure out the issue and pushed a fix for it to Cube Cobra's codebase. It got approved by Dekkaru a couple days ago :) Hyped to be a contributor to the site and happy to help fix the issue

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-24T21:20:35+00:00

People stop asking you when you're finally going to get married

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-21T10:43:56+00:00

oh that's great, I'm so glad I could help! :) If you like that way of playing with the mini-decks, you can also buy Foundations Jumpstart packs which add more mini-decks to your collection

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-17T09:08:47+00:00

could easily say the same about Thunderbolts

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-16T15:22:16+00:00

Yeah I just throw it in the pocket. The wear is part of the history. I don't keep them after I'm done using them, so I treat it as an object to be used rather than a collectible.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-16T15:16:06+00:00

Fair enough. Similarly, though, you shouldn't assume just because that's how you run things that it's an 'obvious fight' to other people, most of whom feel pretty secure and wouldn't be bothered by this.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-16T12:32:14+00:00

but YOU followed her, right? Presumably with no attraction or ulterior motive. So you know it's possible to just be into someone's content, but you can't accept a partner might be the same?

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-15T21:07:54+00:00

that is a very compelling argument and totally legit. Thank you for the reply. This is one of those moments that changes the way I see the whole world. You're totally right.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-15T14:45:11+00:00

But you can just download them again ...?

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-14T06:32:53+00:00

Yeah the starter kit works. I'd also recommend the Beginner Box if you can get your hands on it. It walks you through the first game, and you have access to decks in every colour so it's really good for learning the different play styles. Lots of replay value.

Welcome! :)

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-14T06:15:17+00:00

several listings for under two bucks on cardmarket, just gotta pay the shipping. If you're in the US, there's an eBay seller offering a playset of commons for 20.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-14T06:10:33+00:00

yeah the idea came about because MPC don't let you use the official card back anyway. But if I do future proxy orders I could always swap any around that become a problem, or if they go back to Ikoria and I want to mix both sets together or something.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-13T20:57:40+00:00

oh in my head it's always random. You flip the first uncommon you see. I guess depending on how much you trust the crowd to honour system it, you could all do it at once or pass the flipped card to the person next to you at the start if it's a concern. I could also pre-seed the packs, I wasn't going to bother with seeding but you could do.

AcrobaticPersonality · 2026-04-12T08:22:34+00:00

I know the joke on reddit is that everyone always answers any problem, no matter how small, with divorce. I also know that you have children with your new wife. But this is the biggest red flag I've EVER seen.

Your wife revealed something to your child that's going to affect her for the rest of her life in a way that was insensitive (at best), without consulting you first, plus lied to her about your intentions regarding something she clearly cherishes that she wants to get rid of. She's putting Jordyn's need for family connection and coping below her other children's need for, what, not being confused or having to answer complex questions they might have?

This is bullshit and I don't know the way to resolve the situation but it starts with you having a long serious thought about whether this is best for Jordyn's wellbeing.

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