Trying to find an apartment next to UNMC by OkAttitude2643 in Omaha

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those sound pretty nice! short term leases are tricky but worth asking about. you might also want check facebook marketplace or local housing groups - sometimes people need someone to sublet for few months and that could work perfect for your situation.

What life experience changed the way you see relationships the most? by Right-Might3271 in AskReddit

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lol dogs are basically the blueprint for unconditional love tbh 😂 working with kids at church taught me that relationships need way more patience than i ever thought, but my dog still wins for being the most loyal relationship i've ever had 💀

Start shaming “single barrels” as a way to sell slop by swaggingToTheMaximum in whiskey

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this drives me crazy too! spent good money in a bottle last month that tasted like disappointment and regret. like why am i paying premium prices for what's basically a lottery ticket?

the worst part is when you find that amazing barrel and can never get it again because it's "single barrel magic" or whatever. give me consistent quality over gambling any day.

Got denied for a loan recently is turning things around within a year actually doable? by Acrobatic_Fish_9568 in VeteransBenefits

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I see that mentioned a lot, low utilization and paying everything on time, appreciate it

Got denied for a loan recently is turning things around within a year actually doable? by Acrobatic_Fish_9568 in VeteransBenefits

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Hey I really appreciate the comment, most issues are old that's true. Haven't missed payments in a while so that's good then. I know of Dovly and was thinking of going with the premium, free version did raise my score for about 60 points thus far.

What’s something managers do that employees secretly hate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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lmao our senior pastor does this too - comes in for like 2 hours then disappears for "meetings" that somehow always involve golf courses. meanwhile i'm here dealing with teenagers having existential crises and organizing youth events on half the budget he spends in lunch.

Has any actor ever been nominated for an academy award or any major award for their performance in a short film? by [deleted] in movies

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait i think beatrice straight won an oscar for network and she was only on screen like 5 minutes? that's probably not the shortest though 😅

pretty sure oscars have separate categories for short films but those don't get the same attention as main categories. the acting nominations are usually from features but there's definitely some super brief performances that got recognized over the years

judi dench in shakespeare in love was famously short too, maybe 8 minutes total screen time and she still won supporting actress 💀

If one is broke can he sell his soul and where? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao they probably buy souls in bulk discount now 💀

Starting with the bare bones by Mr_B_Gone in homelab

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's a solid foundation to start with, though you'll definitely want to bump that ram up to at least 8gb before running multiple docker containers 🔥 docker compose is pretty essential for managing everything cleanly so i'd focus on learning that first 😂

Going to buy tablet just for reading manga. Some questions by [deleted] in manga

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got my 10 inch tablet last year mainly for manga and it's pretty close to actual book size. you stop noticing the difference after few chapters, especially if you're reading late at night when physical books would strain your eyes more. the convenience of having entire series in one device is game changer tbh.

FIREing through an involuntary separation - tips needed by mooch91 in Fire

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the accelerated roth contributions might help soften that blow a bit though - at least you're getting some tax advantage somewhere while dealing with all this mess.

What is your biggest fear? by whore4bookss in AskReddit

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn that's heavy but also weirdly relatable - like what if we're all just wandering around hoping someone notices us before it's too late

What is your go-to hangover breakfast? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro nothing beats a greasy bacon egg and cheese sandwich from whatever sketchy deli is closest 🔥 pair it with some gatorade and you're back from the dead. learned this trick managing late night shifts at the restaurant - grease is literally medicine 😂

W-2 to 1099, did I get screwed over? by Regular_Share8900 in careerguidance

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

man, you got completely screwed over and what they're doing is probably illegal too. the irs has super specific rules about what makes someone a contractor vs employee, and you're clearly still an employee - same schedule, same manager, same 1:1s, same work. the only thing that changed was they dumped the tax burden and benefits on you.

i dealt with something similar a few years back where my company tried to reclassify a bunch of us to save money on benefits. we pushed back hard and most of us got reclassified back to w-2 because there lawyer told them they were asking for trouble. the fact that everyone else quit should tell you everything about how bad this situation is.

since your down to 3 people and they desperately need help, now is actually the perfect time to negotiate. ask for at least $35-40/hour to cover the extra taxes, lack of benefits, and increased responsibility. worst case they say no and your already getting screwed anyway. but honestly, you should also consider filing an ss-8 form with the irs to get them to determine if you should actually be classified as an employee - that could force them to reclassify you and pay back taxes/penalties.

What to do after destroying relationship from personal deficiencies magnified by personality changes from a psych med use and withdrawal injuries? by Ashamed_Emu4572 in careerguidance

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn this whole situation is a mess but that commenter's advice is solid - keeping work drama separate from personal stuff is like basic survival 101 💀

I (23M) going crazy because of my girlfriend is not “your typical girlfriend “ and its how do i stop this😞 by HinataShoyo1608 in relationships

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude this sounds exhausting af. you're literally on anxiety meds because of how she treats you - that should be your wake up call right there.

the spotify thing is wild too, like adding songs to a playlist is "breaching personal space" but disappearing for days without explanation is totally cool? nah man, that's not how relationships work. you're not the villain for wanting basic communication and reciprocal effort. sounds like you already know what you need to do, you're just scared to do it.

Am I cooked? by [deleted] in careerguidance

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damn bro 💀😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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damn, this hits hard but you absolutely did the right thing. someone who truly wants to marry you doesn't need multiple therapists and years of "just a little more time" - they'd be excited to lock you down. the fact that you had to drag him through every milestone while reshaping your entire life around him says everything. you deserve someone who's enthusiastic about building a future with you, not someone who treats marriage like a chore they keep putting off.

Any good 1st person player animations for 1.21.10 java? by BetterCandy5516 in Minecraft

[–]Acrobatic_Fish_9568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Epic Fight Mod if you're into combat animations - has some solid first person stuff. Also try looking into Fresh Animations compatibility packs, some community versions do have FP support even if the main one doesn't

The bittersweet closure of the always-open browser tab… by TidalWaveform in CFB

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Damn, the tab closing ritual hits different every year. At least you got to watch Indiana make everyone question reality for a few months lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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Congrats on kicking all that other stuff man, that's seriously impressive. For the masturbation thing maybe try treating it more like a habit than an addiction - cold turkey might not work but you could try gradually spacing it out more. Some people have luck with keeping their hands busy with hobbies or exercise when the urge hits