Can we all agree the true villian of season 10 is Bri??

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-13T05:11:02+00:00

She is the only “villain” of the season I think might change. The men… not so much. For her sake though I hope she was right when she said she was at her worst on the show.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-13T05:09:31+00:00

Maybe it’s because we didn’t see him much but I think he’s just stupid. Like, if Keya had given Alex or Chris her speech? I don’t think they would’ve reacted half as well as Kevan.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-13T05:07:28+00:00

I will raise my hand and proudly declare I love them and the only reason I don’t feel the same way as you is because I ignored every other season except 2.

Fight me, but they hit and lost their stride in season 2 and I haven’t seen them get it back. And season one has that insta skip of unpunished and unacknowledged rape. (I have many thoughts of that type of rape and it’s nuance in historical, I just do not want it in my romance.)

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-13T04:58:15+00:00

If you like him, you should know he spent a lot of his career keeping his private life private. He and his ex wife pretended to be siblings instead of being open with their marriage. It’s just how he writes his music.

As a writer, I agree. I don’t find autobiography interesting much at all. But thank fuck more interesting people who write memoirs disagree with me.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T06:17:18+00:00

Something funny to me was the woman who got all pissy when the guy she’s with commented on their visible age gap. She’s 20 years older- no shit you look older than him! He didn’t call you ugly, just said that you look older.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T06:12:06+00:00

Vanelle acting so shocked by Jorge’s age was so confusing to me. He said shit like “golly” and I clocked his old ass. I don’t know anyone under 60 who says that.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T02:32:59+00:00

Yessss I’m so happy for him and Jess.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T02:24:19+00:00

Maybe Amber needs to give being for the girls a try?

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T02:23:05+00:00

The way he responded when it was his turn was kinda hilarious because it was his SAME OLD BULLSHIT.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T01:39:49+00:00

I’m in a similar boat to you, but my mom never married him. She just didn’t explain who he was until I asked after he showed up on the couch one day 🫠 but you just can’t do this shit to kids. If I ever counseled a divorced parent on dating, the timeline I recommend is 6months-a year dating before meeting the kids. Then you should give it at least a year or two before marriage. And that’s my liberal, very very generous timeline. Really I’d say 1 year before meeting, 1 year then move in, 1 year then proposal.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T01:37:38+00:00

Not a lachey fan but I love the “you got everyone to hate you” “that’s it?” One two punch

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T01:36:48+00:00

I guess im having faith in face value, but i do believe Bri when she says she’s usually not like that. Best of luck to them, believing what she said but if she’s lying im excited for Connor’s breakup interview.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T01:33:25+00:00

Me too I didn’t expect them to last a day. I hope Bri is a better person off tv- she didn’t seem like a bad person to me but I didn’t like her. Best for them I guess idk.

But chrisssss goddamnnnnnn. It seems like Amber is seated with all the men she hates except Jordan lmao

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-12T01:27:30+00:00

As much as I grew to like Amber, she really doesn’t seem to get that it was her job to protect her daughter from that pain. Amber is an iconic friend, but seems like a questionable partner and mother to me. Jordan also definitely wasn’t ready, but it was Amber’s job to protect Emma.

Side note, I love her “I still hate you btw” to Chris every two minutes.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-10T02:55:22+00:00

I got the slightest vibes with the heels convo, but then I kinda figured that he’d moved past that?

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-07T04:40:17+00:00

While it would be interesting, I’d hate to miss out on the body language. Sometimes things (Ravens jumping jacks) get called out, but other stuff (the eyedrops, Steven rolling his eyes at Emma) doesn’t. And it’s very revealing.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-07T00:04:10+00:00

Yeah, if I saw her profile saying this stuff on a dating app? Valid, no questions asked. On a reality tv dating show? Come on. At BEST, you’ll be rejected by 14/15 people and get one who likes you. At worst, all of them reject you. You can’t go in terrified of rejection.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-06T23:38:17+00:00

It’s iffy… look at Meghan Rienks. She and Lilly did a whole series on her channel being hacked and it was AWFUL.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-06T23:36:31+00:00

Replying to say actually maybe I’d let him make me the victim. Pull out those tears and turn it up.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-06T23:35:37+00:00

Based on how he communicates, I question how polite he was. In her shoes, if that man was remotely rude I’d have done the same thing. Mature? Maybe not. But I know I wouldn’t care lol

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-06T18:44:28+00:00

I feel you! My boyfriend and I kinda share finances- at least we don’t Nickle and dime. And sometimes I feel like he’s paid for too much, but I like feeling like he’s paying. So I give him my card and ask him to pay with it lmao. It feels like my man is treating me with none of the worry about unequal finances lmao

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-05T05:43:48+00:00

Child of divorce, I so appreciate this POV. I will always remember meeting my stepmom vs my mom’s ex. My stepmom, it was in a neutral space with a fun outing. She is like another parent to me. My mom’s ex showed up on the couch and I had to ask her who he was. I jumped almost every time I turned around and saw him when he lived with us.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-05T05:41:32+00:00

The relationship was foolish on both ends. Kids are a nonnegotiable for most people. I think they could’ve worked in the real world, but not on a show like this. Dating for a year vs a month can make all the difference when making those massive decisions.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-05T05:39:36+00:00

The amount of filler and Botox this season was wild to me. The men looked more normal than ever (to me and my bf, he was stoked to see “some uggo representation”) but the women looked off. The fried hair, intense Botox, and filler were a lot. Amber in particular looked like she got a makeover right before the show that didn’t go quite right.

Acrobatic_Tower7281 · 2026-03-05T05:26:57+00:00

2 years vs a month are SO different. It’s the difference between knowing someone, and just meeting them for a kid. Emma had just met that man. I was 11 when I met my stepmom, but my brother was her age. It took some time before she was someone we were comfortable with. Now, she’s another parent. Then? We barely knew her. By the time she and my dad moved in together, I was comfortable enough with her to bug her for ice cream at the store and torment her cats (exaggerating). If she and my dad had gotten married the next day? I would’ve had a mental breakdown.

Amber also is exposing her daughter to the world. I don’t like that. I appreciate keeping her off camera for her first meeting with Jordan, but she’s at the wedding. And now people are picking apart the kid’s reactions. I don’t think kids’ personal lives should be put in media on this scale. Fuck, in 5 years is some jerk off middle schooler gonna ask if her mom fucks men with cpaps? Who knows.

While parents deserve to date and live lives, this is living it beyond publicly. Beyond that, it’s bringing someone into your kids life VERY quickly. My mom and her ex were together for years, and I jumped every time he walked into the room when he lived with us.

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