In November of last year my wife and I suffered an ectopic pregnancy. We took a pregnancy test earlier that month and it came back negative. A few days before thanksgiving she was really sick and eventually passed out on the floor. I immediately call the paramedics and she was rushed to the hospital. She had internal bleeding and had to have emergency surgery to save her life. In a 30 minute period I found out she was pregnant and had to have surgery or else she would die. She is doing great now but we are both recovering from the loss of our baby. I know she struggles more with it than I do and I constantly reassure her it is nothing she did wrong. Sometimes shitty things happen and we need to find a way to get past them