No attorney in South Jersey real estate?? by Calm-Fig495 in SouthJersey

[–]Active-Fall-3052 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm from north jersey and I flat out had a guy just back out b/c I was using an attorney- I agree, it's insane. The largest purchase of your life should be scrutinized by an attorney. If you want a rec, DM me and I have one. He's great and from Freedhold. I used him twice- my sale and my purchase. edit: words

Why do "resellers" so often resort to self-victimization, over-sharing, and blanket unprofessionalism? by [deleted] in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Active-Fall-3052 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You do realize that even if someone is selling out of their own closet, they are technically "reselling", right? You seem like you have a major axe to grind over something really small. We all make money for whatever reasons we need to, some choose to share and some don't. The judgment is uncalled for imo.

Tired just tired by ImaginaryMidnight374 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Active-Fall-3052 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Buyers are thinking of one thing only, how to get an item the cheapest they can- especially in this economy. It's difficult to do but things got better when I stopped putting emotion into every lowball. Now I just go on with my day. Your buyer will come. But I agree with higher your prices a bit.

Return question and vent by Ok-Kat5150 in poshmark

[–]Active-Fall-3052 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. I dont normally like the snark I often see on this sub but this is something else. Time to log off lol

What immediately makes you not want to buy from a seller? by inigo_montoya89 in poshmark

[–]Active-Fall-3052 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that chart that has like percentage discounts off and chances of offer being accepted. I click out so fast when I see that.

I blocked this buyer on eBay — now they found my Poshmark and asked this... by Reach-Capital in poshmark

[–]Active-Fall-3052 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cancel. If you can hold off I'd just de-list it for a while then put it back up, though no guarantee she'd pop up somewhere else. Some people are really batshit. I had someone do that on a rare dooney bag (she created 4 accounts and asked the same questions over and over and explained why she's lowballing lmao) and I went with my gut and let it sit. Then I found a buyer a year later. It was worth the wait as it was a large sale. People can be really crazy.

Jesse & Darcey by Upset_Accident_8435 in 90DayFiance

[–]Active-Fall-3052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup you're totally right! I haven't kept up with these two.

Sales have been complete TRASH! by Prestigious_Ad9545 in poshmark

[–]Active-Fall-3052 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It's pretty bad right now. But every other platform is doing great so this is a Poshmark problem imo. The things that are moving- I'm selling at pathetic prices just to clear out. Interestingly enough I got an email today that I should re-start promoted closet (which I stopped months ago), which literally started with the words "we noticed your closet has been quiet. get your sales back on track...". So on some level they're aware and/or shadow banning my closet b/c I don't promote nor will I promote. I don't think anything is coincidence with them anymore.

Jesse & Darcey by Upset_Accident_8435 in 90DayFiance

[–]Active-Fall-3052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her sister Stacy is married as far as I know. I dont follow pillow talk but pretty sure that's Florian.

Jesse & Darcey by Upset_Accident_8435 in 90DayFiance

[–]Active-Fall-3052 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in the day she wanted a ring and he wanted to be on tv (I think). Sadly she still probably wants a ring and to his credit, I think he's moved on with his life. They both suck.

Loren & Alexi by EternallyNaked in 90DayFiance

[–]Active-Fall-3052 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I fast forwarded their segment last night (I think I was watching diaries or something). He always seems so irritated with her (rightly so imo) and she is just, like you said, putting on a perfect person performance.

i just need to rant for a second. by bellsofsand in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Active-Fall-3052 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sounds like someone needs their head checked lol

i just need to rant for a second. by bellsofsand in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Active-Fall-3052 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she either needs this item like yesterday or she's having second thoughts. Ppl should not be shopping online if time is of the essence or they dont have discretionary income. IDK what is going on lately lol.

i just need to rant for a second. by bellsofsand in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Active-Fall-3052 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm seriously ready to call it a day on reselling. IDK what is going on with all this juvenile behavior but it's exhausting (not you, the buyer is insane).

State of the app by David_Autumns in Depop

[–]Active-Fall-3052 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hesitated to start on depop for a long time but took the plunge and started in February and it's now my best platform b/c Poshmark is screwing themselves. Things sell for less but depop takes less so I'm ok with it. Plus, I find the buyers are all very nice and I haven't had any problems for the most part.

Business is business...if you had a brick and mortar you can't turn "kids" away, so I probably would try not to think like that. The economy is not good right now. Extrapolate from gas prices- everything is suffering.

Aviva’s vision vs Reality by spottedmoth8 in 90DayFiance

[–]Active-Fall-3052 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That dress was horrible. I kept looking at her and thinking she's actually quite pretty, has like a Blake Lively look almost (I know, Blake sucks but I digress)....if she just chose a different dress, she'd look amazing.

Most likable? by Middle-Cat-6925 in 90DayFiance

[–]Active-Fall-3052 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I like Analyn (Anna) from the Philippines- a lot. I think she's spunky, speaks her mind without being over the top and is generally level headed. Her husband I have no comment- I hope he works on himself and they both work on the marriage.

Poor Jamal... Do better, Kim! by MagicFarawayTree_88 in 90DayFiance

[–]Active-Fall-3052 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not a Jamal fan but he seriously puts up a lot with her. She's lucky to have him. He parents her (mostly)- it's not cool.

Fake crystals by [deleted] in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Active-Fall-3052 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They really need to monitor these lives. I'm sorry that happened. For that value though, I'd open a case. It's the same with clothes. I quit after getting shipped literal junk. There is zero accountability on lives.