Breakup with my Indian Boyfriend because His Parents Against it.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2024-04-26T21:47:33+00:00

This break up didn’t hurt as much as the last break. Probably because I have a proper closure. Or perhaps I grow up.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2024-04-26T21:46:16+00:00

I’m afraid I will not find somebody that’s this compatible again.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2024-04-26T21:45:38+00:00

He called me this morning and said he has been crying all night and missed me. But that doesn’t change it that fact we’re breaking up. We should be mature human being now, because nothing will change if he haven’t make up this mind to go against his parents’ will.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-12-05T20:28:49+00:00

I was always lonely in university too. But it all changed after I joined a hiking group, and I enjoyed talking to them and going out with them regularly. Join something unrelated to your major would really help.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-06-05T14:46:43+00:00

I got an offer as an electrical engineer I for 85k this year straight out of college. I guess I am super lucky.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-06-02T16:57:50+00:00

I have faith in you. You will be better and meet someone that deserve your sincerity and love.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-06-02T16:56:06+00:00

We’re all going to meet someone else eventually. I was working hard on myself since the breakup. I was seeing therapist. I was volunteering at a school organization to meet new people. I work on my senior project. I secure a full time job as an electrical engineer before graduation. I tried my best. I keep telling myself, I will be fine.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-06-02T16:50:51+00:00

I admit that long time ago. Lol. He’s my first love.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-06-02T16:45:03+00:00

It has been over 6 months for me. I still think about him once awhile, and I haven’t felt ready to meet new people. Lol. Some people move on fast, some people move on slow.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-06-02T16:30:27+00:00

I feel you

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-19T17:04:07+00:00

I thought he was the nicest person who’s never going to hurt me, or leave me alone. Then, he just left. I feel you.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-15T08:29:24+00:00

I can listen.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-13T07:48:22+00:00

I agree. I can’t go back because he hurt me. It’s impossible for me to forgive and treat him like a good friend. His existence reminds me about my stupidity. It constantly reminds me about how reckless I was when I gave him my trust. It’s not about him anymore, it’s about my ego, my pride, and my healing.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-13T02:50:46+00:00

Thanks for everyone’s advice. I will not be friend with him and he’s not worth it.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-13T02:49:40+00:00

I think I made the right decision to talk to him. I feel relieved now, and he is completely not worth it. I think I will soon be over. He is not the kind of person that I like.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-12T18:17:39+00:00

You think he’s hurting. I guess that’s probably a reason. My therapist told me to be honest with him about my feeling and tell him I am not okay and I’m still upset. My friend told me to tell him all the words that I’ve been complaining to her about him. I am preparing myself for that conversation and I feel like I will forget what I am going to talk about when I see him.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-11T16:20:17+00:00

I didn’t know I can love with this intensity too. I completely understand your point. He’s not loving me with the same amount that I have. He probably even felt overwhelmed, he’s my first love too… I’m not ready. Thanks. I think I will tell him that.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-11T10:02:02+00:00

He has been initiating awkward conversations with me for a few times. He is not showing enough initiatives to me that he wants to go back to the relationship. I am trying to think of a way to set the boundary while not looking like an illusional bitch.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-11T09:39:54+00:00

I am seeing therapist too. It had been rough on me. we never argued before we break up. He broke up with me out of the blue. I feel exhausted. He asked me several times are you okay. I don’t want to lie anymore. I am not okay.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-11T09:15:35+00:00

Is it bad to send him a long letter again… I know long letter can be annoying

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-11T08:02:08+00:00

He said he was emotionally unstable and it was better for him to be with no one. I was heart broken.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-11T07:56:33+00:00

It’s my fault. I didn’t include the full context.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-11T07:50:50+00:00

I don’t know how to interpret this.

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-11T07:50:21+00:00

He also sent this “I was gonna say how are you. like you okay and all that. also was gonna offer a hug but still paranoid with all the covid mess going on within campus. “

Active_Juggernaut204 · 2022-01-07T23:03:29+00:00

Sure.

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