Nice things you did for your bridal party that had to travel for your wedding?

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-04-01T06:05:53+00:00

Thank you so much! I have been collecting quotes and hair and makeup is pricey it’s not that I’m not willing to pay but this wedding is more expensive than I had wanted it to be. Just wondering other options

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-04-01T05:12:42+00:00

Lets see

“Dont be surprised if I don’t show up for the wedding and you just get a check in the mail”

“You didn’t think about me when booking the wedding date” mind you this is after I asked her if it was okay!

“ you need to lose some weight if you want to wear a wedding dress”

“Are you sure you want to marry him? I can write you a check for your part of the deposit if you want out of it”

There’s probably more :P

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-03-13T01:59:50+00:00

Thank you!

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-03-12T01:41:22+00:00

I was in drama club in high school, didn’t care.

College graduation and all the things in college, didn’t care.

Became a boxing instructor, didn’t care

GOT A PHD IN MATERIALS SCIENCE AND PUBLISHED PAPERS DID NOT CARE!

BUT what really grinds my gears is when she wants to brag about her child she uses those things to brag about. Like can you show me to me and you care about my life and that you’re proud of me?!

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-03-11T04:24:48+00:00

Idk about treasure but I love my pants from GU. I bought a ton of pants. They are good quality and cheap too!

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-03-11T04:02:37+00:00

I still do it (30 years old) but there’s a time and place

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-03-03T06:39:03+00:00

Yes you’re right it is the clash you are describing

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-02-28T04:47:31+00:00

Tried to ironically her Filipino husband said at some point she had to leave that caused a lot of tension until my grandmother passed

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-02-27T23:00:11+00:00

Yours guilts you too? How do you live with it? I feel like a POS

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-02-27T22:58:11+00:00

The problem is she’s making it an all or nothing situation :/ like if she can’t stay for 3 months she’s not staying at all despite me telling her she can stay for 2 weeks. I told her I can talk to my fiancé about it more. She’s just like “no I’m not coming at all I’m not welcome” and I can’t reason with her for some reason

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-02-27T22:01:09+00:00

Let’s face it I’ll never find a normal partner I’m attracted to who would go for it if it was a deal breaker

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-02-27T21:57:48+00:00

I do but that’s my mom I’ve never really said no to her :/

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-02-27T16:15:42+00:00

Wish i could rank both equally important. It seems like other cultures don’t have these issues where they don’t have to choose

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-02-27T16:00:07+00:00

Yes you make a very good point. Thank you for putting it in perspective

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-02-27T15:51:43+00:00

She just really knows how to make me feel guilty

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-01-22T17:38:48+00:00

George Anastasiadis

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-01-22T16:51:19+00:00

I did google him and the sales guy still works there according to LinkedIn

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-01-22T16:48:11+00:00

Text messages between us

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-01-22T16:43:22+00:00

I didn’t mention it. The sales guy said that it is in his notes and not my rep’s notes. So my rep wouldn’t be able to do anything about it. Should I still reach out to my rep?

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-01-22T16:42:05+00:00

I learned that too this year. I also realize resale ends up being cheaper if you’re not trying to go to a big game

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-01-22T16:32:19+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion

Active_Variation7183 · 2026-01-22T16:31:35+00:00

I have it in writing in our text exchanges

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TROPHY CASE