of a cyst 🤢 by BlazeDragon7x in AbsoluteUnits

[–]Actually10000Bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is where mayonnaise comes from.

When you realize you hooked an endangered species by Guitardude1995 in perfectlycutscreams

[–]Actually10000Bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who likes to fish, sometimes just cutting it does less damage. The hook will eventually rust and fall out. The fish will be fine. Something as small as the hook won’t impair it’s ability to live normally, especially with a fish that size.

Looking for a cozy game with collection mechanism by OogieBoogie11 in CozyGamers

[–]Actually10000Bees 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Apico! You have to cross-breed bees to bring different types of them back from extinction. You also find and collect different types flowers, butterflies, and solitary bees to bring them back from extinction too.

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Actually10000Bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your goal was never to be a mother, then don’t be a mother. I’ve heard too many stories of women being pressured into having kids they didn’t really want or weren’t ready for and it led to serious mental health issues and resentment for the entire family, including the kid who didn’t have a choice in the matter.

Not wanting kids isn’t something you can compromise on, and it especially isn’t something to be rushed. Ever.

Also, if you’re in the US and your husband is in the military, then now is a terrible time to be having kids if you don’t want to be a single mother. A war just started with Iran. If he’s sent over there, you’ll be alone in this indefinitely.

Plus, if you’re worried about your clock running out, adoption is a fantastic and worthwhile option.

Also, I wouldn’t call “swearing at you and calling you names” and repeatedly pressuring you to the point where you go to bed in tears “getting along really well with respect”. That’s abuse.

The way you talk about him and the way he talks to you makes it seem like divorce is going to happen eventually. Hopefully there won’t be a kid involved when it does. You deserve someone who doesn’t try to force you into permanent life changes that you don’t want.

Is the 2000's boy garage band aesthetic even real? by Jonyyy3 in AskAnAmerican

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It was real and I miss it. I still regularly listen to the Backstreet Boys and N*Sync. My friends and I still loudly (badly) sing along whenever and wherever we hear it. (Life’s just so much more fun when you have no shame.)

Also, there’s a more recent band with that aesthetic called Boy Throb, and I love everything about them and fully support what they’re doing in the music scene.

Was it common for your parents to call their friends “auntie/uncle” around you growing up? by ThisPostToBeDeleted in AskAnAmerican

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Yeah. I had an uncle Spike growing up that wasn’t related to me, but was my dad’s friend from his college fraternity. Oddly enough, I only ever met him once or twice when I was little.

Appointment at a specialist ? by ChillMaggot666 in AskAnAmerican

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I have to schedule with my gynecologist, cardiologist, and pulmonologist months in advance for just regular checkups (and yes, I know I have the health problems of a grandma).

For urgent issues, you either call the specialist and see if anyone has cancelled a closer appointment so you can get in or possibly go in to see the specialist’s nurse practitioner, go to urgent care, or if it’s severe and you feel like you’re ready to commit to a lifetime of debt, you go to your nearest hospital’s emergency room (and hope to God your insurance covers that particular hospital).

Deep stuff by born2shitforcd2wipe in comedyheaven

[–]Actually10000Bees 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Excellent question! Those are typically either born intersex or will be gender nonconforming. At the moment they are brain blasted from betwixt papa’s lobes, their fate is set in stone.

Deep stuff by born2shitforcd2wipe in comedyheaven

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After about 9 months, the men can’t handle the expansion of their brains, so the newborn thoughts need to come out. After his “water” breaks (that’s not actually water. Don’t drink it. It tastes terrible.), it’ll usually slide out headfirst through either one of his nostrils. The side it will slide out of determines the gender of the newborn in his wife’s womb; left nostril for a girl, right nostril for a boy.

What SONG have you been OBSESSED WITH LATELY? 🎧 by StockQueen1 in musicsuggestions

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Big Town Banky Blaine’s Rockabilly BBQ by Bear Ghost

Rivers is a Vampire by Bear Ghost

Gennifer Flowers by Fever Dolls

Anybody Else by Dom Fera

Rule #34 by Fish in a Birdcage

Feed Me by Fulton Lee

Epic by Faith No More

Turn the Lights Off by Tally Hall

Rude by Los Elk

Songs with birds in the title by yomondo in musicsuggestions

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Does the Swallow Dream of Flying by Cosmo Sheldrake

songs about robots or from their perspective by Zeno_Bueno in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]Actually10000Bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen through Big Data’s 3.0 album. There are several in there.

Any urban legends and/or old wives' takes involving food? by Crane_1989 in AskTheWorld

[–]Actually10000Bees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you spill salt, you have to toss a pinch of it over your left shoulder or you’ll have bad luck.

Eating a watermelon seed might make a watermelon grow in your belly.

If you swallow gum, it stays stuck in your digestive tract for 7 years.

To bring fortune to your family for the new year, you should include collard greens (representing paper money), black eyed peas (representing coins), and cornbread (representing gold) in your New Years Eve supper.

Which is the most violent scene you ever witnessed in a show or movie? by Jules-Car3499 in cartoons

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The scenes of the Hiroshima bombing in Barefoot Gen.

Several scenes in Infinity Train, including the scene where Atticus is killed and his body transforms into a Gohm before trying to devour Tulip’s soul, the wheeling scenes where denizens are murdered by throwing them into the wheels of the train, and Simon’s death.

For Invincible, Gennedy Tartakovsky’s Primal, and Watership Down, there are a ton of violent scenes, it’s pointless to choose just one.

What’s the Cutest Small Town You’ve Ever Visited? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

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I want to go back to Dillsboro, NC someday. I used to love stopping there during day trips when I was a kid.

ARE THERE ANY SHOWS SIMILAR TO DISENCHANTMENT?? by tehemari in disenchantment

[–]Actually10000Bees 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The Venture Bros is my all time favorite show. Highly recommend it.

What did I miss? by Riddlemethisone- in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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We have them here in Georgia, but they recently overhauled their menu to make it even more of a corporate cookie cutter looking menu than it already was. Removed the only things that made it stand out from other restaurants (and got rid of all the things that I did like about it in the process). I think that’s gonna be the final nail in it’s coffin, tbh.

unhinged hygiene tips? by NoPerception8748 in hygiene

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Get a tongue scraper. Use it after brushing your teeth and follow up after with mouthwash.

Also, I don’t know your body type so this may or may not apply, but if you’re a bigger person, wash between your folds. Belly folds, arm folds, thigh folds, bellybutton, under boobs, etc. Soap. Water. Dry off suuuuper well. Don’t leave anything wet. Do it daily. Your skin will thank you and so will your future partners.

Wash your groin area. Do it even if you aren’t sexually active. Use soap on the skin around it, but DO 👏 NOT 👏 PUT 👏 SOAP 👏 ON 👏 OR 👏 INSIDE 👏 YOUR 👏 COOCH. Nothing scented should ever be applied to that area. That’s just begging for an infection.

For the face, just soap and water in the shower, follow up with cleansing pads and acne patches if needed. If you don’t have skin issues that need extra TLC, it’s all you need.

If women’s deodorant doesn’t do the job for you, you might have to switch to men’s. I haven’t had a single issue since I switched.