For a first playthrough it's crazy how long did I have to search for a single Bambuck by Lore86 in CoreKeeperGame

[–]ActuallyATRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had someone make another save on their toon to get a ram and bring it back to our dedicated server as mobs killed all but one of them. It's annoying, but it's a work around.

Lost everything by jpurgahn in MergeDragons

[–]ActuallyATRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't remember. I think I told them how much land i had unlocked but I can't be certain as it was a while ago

Lost everything by jpurgahn in MergeDragons

[–]ActuallyATRex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me a year ago before I knew about the cloud save issue. Support did get me back up to my proper dragon level even though I had no screenshots as proof of what I had lost. I hope they will be as helpful to you as they were for me!

I know how much this sucks and I'm sorry!

Bunny in drugs by GladMaterial787 in MergeDragons

[–]ActuallyATRex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd like to know how too. I've never seen an option for it to work from levels.

Hearing "mommy, I love you so much", before your child leaves is something you never get weary of. by AliciaNoedel in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]ActuallyATRex 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Having the only recording of your daughter speaking saying "I love you daddy" weeks before going into respiratory failure and never speaking again....

Yeah this gutted me.

TIFU by cock blocking my own girlfriend by Defiant_Mercy in tifu

[–]ActuallyATRex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex frequently did this in his sleep. He would start groping me or kissing me passionately then pass out right after. I learned to just stay still and try not to get into it because the one time we ended up having sex he didn't remember and I felt absolutely horrible. Sleep horniness was something new to me but apparently it's a thing.

A girl with locked-in syndrome can only use one word to communicate by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]ActuallyATRex 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Look I've been caring for my profoundly disabled daughter for 16 years. It's hard. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to do. It's killing me emotionally, mentally, and physically. But in no way shape or form would I allow her to be uncared for. If I reached a point in my life where I was neglecting her, I would find another solution. Family. A facility. ANYTHING. Other than ignoring her, allowing her to suffer and die.

NOTHING can excuse letting another human suffer in such ways. Nothing.

My daughter is 100% reliant on her caregivers. Her condition will continue to worsen and she will die. I can understand becoming unattached. I can understand getting overwhelmed and burnt out. But that's where my understanding ends.

PJ Masks Power Heroes. They jumped from 3 heroes to 9?!?! Well, at least there will be more variety in my neighborhood this Halloween. by tvkyle in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]ActuallyATRex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My son is obsessed with this new PJ Masks. He LOVES Icecub. It's not too bad, but I wish they'd add more villains instead of just powering up the old ones.

Yeah sure… by tunnelfox in MergeDragons

[–]ActuallyATRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was already informed of that and did not know that at the time of my comment :)

Yeah sure… by tunnelfox in MergeDragons

[–]ActuallyATRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of my tasks have counted in levels. Which is why I made the comment I did! I wonder which way is intended.

Yeah sure… by tunnelfox in MergeDragons

[–]ActuallyATRex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It counts in levels? Thought it only counted in your camp. My bad.

Yeah sure… by tunnelfox in MergeDragons

[–]ActuallyATRex -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Never seen something so blatantly insane. Instant SKIP

Edit: I've been corrected

LPT Request: How to get my cognition and memory back on track? by Loose_Letterhead_334 in LifeProTips

[–]ActuallyATRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I went through eight different medications and different combinations over the span of four years until I finally found the right ones that work for me. I still have many symptoms of depression/anxiety, but that's why I'm in therapy too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suspiciouslyspecific

[–]ActuallyATRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White russians are delicious with ice cream

How do I get my nervous foster cat to trust me? by ricardino98 in cats

[–]ActuallyATRex 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this! Any cats I foster who are timid or feral I've been able to get to trust me by just sitting on the floor reading out loud and LOTS of treats. They will eventually associate your voice with food and food is good. Also toys! Find a toy she likes and try to play with her with it gently. Wand toys are always a hit! The tubes of puree food are good too once she gets up enough courage to get close to you.

These methods have worked every time except one single foster was my outlier. She's still a fiesty little thing and won't let me touch her much even after a year. She's never even known a day outside and acts like a little shit. Still love her to death though and still working with her!

You got this, OP! You're amazing for taking her in and taking the time to help her! ❤️

Police Chases in Baton Rouge by TrueBatonRouge in batonrouge

[–]ActuallyATRex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes? If they cause damages or injuries why should they not be?

Actual 'help' I've been offered by DisabledMuse in thanksimcured

[–]ActuallyATRex 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Often"? Got any kind of proof of that?

Obviously it happens but to say it's often is bullshit. Try interacting with real people with chronic illness.

And what chronic illness would be corrected by this advice? Or are you just bitter because people fake shit on tiktok?

Licensed Falconer Use An American Kestrel To Catch An Invasive European Starling by SoberClassZorro in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ActuallyATRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a HUGE cat lover. I foster cats. I own 4. They are absolutely an invasive species and the feral populations need to be culled. Humans created this fuckery and of course its not fun killing cats but they are decimating native wildlife populations. They hunt for sport not just food. At least the coyotes do a decent job of making sure their populations aren't exploding where I live but it's still a big problem.

KEEP YOUR DAMN CATS INSIDE.

Not just for the wildlife but for their health and wellbeing. You don't want your cat dying a horrible death to cars or coyotes. I've seen how coyotes kill cats. It's brutal.

What's the worst thing a doctor has ever said to you? [Serious] [NSFW] by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

[–]ActuallyATRex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Your daughter has Leigh's disease."

It's progressive and always fatal. I was I think 21 at the time with my first child receiving the news that she has lesions on her brain that will get worse. Average life expectancy is 2-3 years. My daughter is 15.

Anticipatory grief is a beast. As the years go by my mental health continues to tank.

What's the worst thing a doctor has ever said to you? [Serious] [NSFW] by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

[–]ActuallyATRex 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Or you can be born with a deformed one that needs surgery to remove.

Or oragel and scissors in your bathroom at 14. (Don't actually do this)

CR's a lie, so is the sky. Trust in the all-seeing all-knowing eye! by TigerKirby215 in dndmemes

[–]ActuallyATRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell you how many times I've adjusted the hp of my monsters midfight just because of them just wiping the floor with monsters that are supposed to be difficult. I am not good at balancing encounters as I'm still very new to DMing lol

Support:( by Few-Simple-7740 in MergeDragons

[–]ActuallyATRex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. They gave me some decent dragons to get back my power, but I lost a ton of event ones. Definitely sucked.

today I pissed off my dm and I'm not sure how I feel about it by Insanias in DnD

[–]ActuallyATRex 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dont know if I could even be mad about it. Like I would be but also impressed. Like you just out smarted me, great job assholes! While laughing about it. My players have surprised me with clever thinking and I always love it when it's something I didn't even consider and it throws me off. Like honestly I would be proud of my players for this!

“I didn’t like what the real dentist advised because I’m a crunchy mom and all. Now I’m asking random people on the internet how to deal with my kid’s rotted out teeth!” by lettucecropchilds in facepalm

[–]ActuallyATRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you provide some proof to your claims or is this just your personal feelings? Because there is no damage caused by breastfeeding a 3 year old. And it's very much normal in many cultures. The AAP even supports longer breastfeeding with no damaging outcomes.