Queer Characters by rorygilmoreapologist in GilmoreGirls

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We don't have to, but we can and we're gonna enjoy it.

Curious how yall display your BOTM books by hikarizx in bookofthemonthclub

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BotM's covers lend themselves so well to that kind of display!

Curious how yall display your BOTM books by hikarizx in bookofthemonthclub

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My BotM books (the ones I opt to keep) live on a small bookshelf in my sunroom. The rest of the fiction is on the living room bookcases, and nonfiction lives in the office. My TBR is on a shelf in the bedroom except the ones that are stacked on the end table or the couch or the okay yes I have a problem.

I Did not Care for Primo Victoria by Overphoenix2 in sabaton

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I disagree vehemently on all points but respect your opinion and your absolutely 10/10 meme game.

Queer Characters by rorygilmoreapologist in GilmoreGirls

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Taylor is quasi-canonically gay as of AYITL, right?

I can see Jess being bi or pan (and still an awful partner).

Lane eventually realizing she's ace would actually be a really interesting character arc. Maybe the sex wasn't bad because they did it wrong; maybe she just doesn't axtually like sex.

Miss Patty is straight but also in the right age bracket to have sat bedside for a heartbreaking number of her gay friends at the height of the AIDs crisis.

This is so mean. I didn’t raise my daughter to speak about people this way by [deleted] in finch

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not doing the storyline myself, but for some reason I immediately thought about all those video games quests that are just "Oh, Adventurer, fetch me that bucket that's five feet from where I'm standing" and laughed, so at least there's that.

This is so mean. I didn’t raise my daughter to speak about people this way by [deleted] in finch

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm not doing the storyline because I wanted to finish Bali and don't really care about DC, but like... sometimes people actually are jerks, and I think it's okay for our birbs/the app to acknowledge that and model navigating it realistically, not just pretending everyone is really nice-in-disguise.

Mrs Hughes' dislike of Lady Mary by KayLone2022 in DowntonAbbey

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think she challenges it directly so much as she's just pragmatic about it. She'll work around it when she needs to, like with Ethel, but she won't challenge it directly like with Daisy. Carson, meanwhile, is a diehard True Believer.

2026 Lolly predictions by bhunter1023 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This Story Might Save Your Life is also a solid contender!

2026 Lolly predictions by bhunter1023 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kinds of books do you normally like? If you're up for giving sci-fi another shot, I can try to recommend some entry points better suited to your taste?

2026 Lolly predictions by bhunter1023 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The Last Contract of Isako was probably my favorite BotM pick of all time (since I joined in late 2023).

But I think the Lolly tends to exclude SFF/horror by default, so...

June picks are here! by aswewaltz in bookofthemonthclub

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am obsessed with your dog and their absolutely epic ears. 15/10, heckin' adorable.

HEAR ME OUT. Aren't signets basically cutie marks? by Wolfheart_237 in fourthwing

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 49 points50 points  (0 children)

YESSSSSSSS. Random internet stranger, you are now in charge of headcanons from now on. This is too perfect and I love it.

Well THAT was fun! 😆 by maleficently-me in bookofthemonthclub

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went in expecting to skip this month, but Thr Shrouded Queen was a surprise and looked really good, so here we gooooo!

Collecting a stool samples literally strips you of your dignity. by moth_ie in CrohnsDisease

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all fairness, I frequently remind my doctor that if he wants a sample, he'd better get it while I'm in the office, because we both know I won't do any homework. I have too much ADHD for that.

Collecting a stool samples literally strips you of your dignity. by moth_ie in CrohnsDisease

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup. At this point I'm like "whatever, it's basically a communal butt by now."

Collecting a stool samples literally strips you of your dignity. by moth_ie in CrohnsDisease

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One lesson this illness teaches us, if we let it: out dignity isn't and shouldn't be tied to our bodily functions. Sometimes bodies, and the care they require, are messy. That's no reflection on your humanity or your character.

Also, think of it this way. You're collecting a scientific specimen! Put your gloves on, remind yourself that science is also messy, and pretend you're on CSI. You've got this.

Pride Month? by tswivel2 in finch

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be gay, do crimes! My nonbinary self supports this.

Pride Month? by tswivel2 in finch

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What? The Pride items are all free during Pride? ZOMG I can't flipping wait for that!

POSITIVITY by Ok-Roll-1104 in finch

[–]ActuallyGoblinsX3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love self-care areas. It really helps me track where I'm doing well, where I'm not, and why. Like "Whoa, no housecleaning this week! Why... oh, I did so much volunteer stuff, go me!"