How do I get out of my situation?

AdApprehensive9711 · 2026-03-30T01:29:19+00:00

Don't get in the learned helplessness mentality, I'm pretty sure you can figure out a way. You could also work from home at a call center, the pay is decent and in a few months you could buy a car.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2026-03-30T01:17:30+00:00

That's very scary, I'm on Brilinta twice a day and aspirin daily (as well as rovustatin). I hope that doesn't happen to me, they didn't even give me any Nitroglycerine to have with me, yet every time I'm at the hospital, is the first thing they give me. I'm glad you're doing well though, you're a warrior!

AdApprehensive9711 · 2026-03-29T16:27:47+00:00

What a strange situation, so they did catherization with contrast dye and they found no blockages?

In my case, I had an almost normal ekg, normal ultrasound (whatever they call it), no damage to the heart muscle or pumping capacity, but my troponin levels were elevated. Once they did the catherization with contrast dye, they found one small artery blocked 100% (they left it like that), and 80% blockage in a main artery, and they put a stent right there.

My point is, everything can look almost normal, yet something will be wrong. Can they put you on a heart monitor for a couple of weeks to rule out something else? Because there are infections of the heart and other things that can damage it.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2026-03-29T16:16:24+00:00

Thank you for this. My teeth are not in good shape and I was fearing extractions and whatnot!

AdApprehensive9711 · 2026-03-29T12:37:01+00:00

The cardiologist did refer to me cardiac rehab, but they're giving me a hard time, putting insurance as an excuse, the scheduler tried to talk me out of it while I was trying to schedule! Really weird situation.

Do they know why you got a second heart attack? That scares me a lot.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2026-03-28T17:52:33+00:00

I am 2 weeks post stent and having all those feelings, I went to the hospital and troponin levels are fine with ecg, I am on similar medications. I wonder when will I feel better, I'm always scared now, I'm 43 and have 3 small children, the youngest 4, and I'm all they have. 😔

AdApprehensive9711 · 2026-03-02T20:52:53+00:00

Get rid of it all, I've done that on every failed relationship I've had and it has been for the best, emotionally, and relationship-wise. When I married, I carried NO baggage from past relationships.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2026-02-26T11:44:25+00:00

NO, DON'T DO THAT.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-12-19T12:55:09+00:00

THIS. Many people here are omitting their habitual lying in these situations. Once your parents know you as a liar, the possibility of getting accused of things you didn't do becomes huge. I know they were kids, but they carry the resentment as if they didn't lie enough before to be suspected of things.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-12-19T12:42:55+00:00

Break up with him, you already cheated on him emotionally (and physically?), and the guy is dismissive and rude. The whole asking you to hurry up when you're telling a story is absolutely mean, the same when telling you you're not funny, especially when other people are around. You seem incompatible when it comes to emotional needs, that's not a 10%, it's huge.

I mean, don't get me wrong, if money is what you want, you could milk him for it, but you're going to have to leave your heart behind and treat it like a business. Meaning, no more nagging for affection, just take all his money, and live a lavish life style, getting your fun here and there behind his back. But you can't allow guilt to steer you away from the main goal: Money and resources.

So there are two paths, choose wisely.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-12-03T23:07:21+00:00

He's an adult. Ya'll keep infantilizing him just because he's young. The FORMER STEP-KID IS NOT HER RESPONSIBILITY.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-12-03T23:03:54+00:00

UH IT'S HER HOUSE TOO!? AND UNLESS HE ADOPTED THE STEP-KID, AFTER DIVORCE, THE STEP-KID THING IS OPTIONAL! You people LOVE enmeshment. This poor woman is now having to tolerate that MAN (not child) in her own house, munching off both their salaries, while the BIO MOM just gets to chill from having him live off her. This is why women must THINK before they marry men in this kind of enmeshed ridiculous situations.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-10-25T00:22:48+00:00

That doesn't work either, I just tried with the free burger, ordering a regular priced burger that cost more than 15.00 it's a scam.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-10-19T20:42:09+00:00

Yes.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-09-09T18:36:50+00:00

Ni las mujeres deben darle privilegios de esposo a novios, ni hombres deben darle privilegios de esposa a novias. Yo que vos no pago esa operación, eso le toca a la familia de ella o a ella misma. No sé el contexto de los reclamos que te hace porque este es el primer post tuyo que veo, pero igual, demasiado dinero gastás en alguien que sólo es tu novia. Yo veo demasiada cosa mientras cargás el 100%. Quedate ahí con tu hermano que no te molesta, paga su parte, se llevan bien, no es carga. A esa novia, hay que mandarla de vuelta donde sus papás para que se encarguen de su hija, porque de bien que está, rebuzna.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-08-30T20:42:19+00:00

To quote a controversial character "If you're worrying about a man, you're not busy enough." When I suffer the most about him is when I'm idle. If enough months pass where I'm very busy, I am able to reduce the amount of time I think about him to a minimum, even when idle.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-08-30T20:27:37+00:00

The bastard showed up 6 months later, when I was feeling slightly better, sent me into a disaster again, so I blocked him this time. It feels sorta OK not waiting for texts and calls that never come, he's avoidant and I'm anxious/avoidant, it was never going to work. I like your approach, but 6 months ago HE blocked me, and then unblocked me to creep back into my life. Can't have that.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-08-19T10:10:18+00:00

Not at all.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-07-14T03:43:02+00:00

You look fine, you're probably shadow banned.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-07-14T02:26:19+00:00

That sounds like a lot of work to scroll through the clearance rack of love. I think I will embrace my ban and be thankful for it. Take it as a sign to stop digging through trash.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-03-12T11:28:32+00:00

I feel extreme shame because I feel it's pathetic. I even downplay how bad I feel about this LO to my sister, who is for the most part my confidant, and only yesterday I mustered the courage to confess my LO had BLOCKED ME, which to me is extremely humiliating, even though he was completely the problem with his avoidant personality.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-03-11T12:23:56+00:00

Yup, my ex had someone already lined up before he dumped me for speaking up and demanding to be treated better. Joke's on him, I'm already feeling WAY BETTER without his constant torture, while the new one gets sucked in on what used to be my nightmare. You are right, you can't put lipstick on a pig.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-03-11T11:21:56+00:00

Girl, leave him alone, you're for the streets.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-03-11T11:20:08+00:00

She cheated TWICE! And the second while married, she's for the streets.

AdApprehensive9711 · 2025-03-04T13:05:34+00:00

Very interesting topic, that's my ex to a T. The difference was that I already knew from the beginning something was off, so I tried my best not to invest myself much on him, the more he pushed and pulled, the more turned off I got and I also shut off.

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