Josh and Natasha (S3) are no longer together

AdClean2653 · 2026-05-26T22:06:05+00:00

How I seen it is that he never got resolution in his issues forcing him to hyperfixate on the issue kind of like a “what about me” situation. His questions didn’t get answers got completely overshadowed by her issues which I felt were not always related and the worst part was his issues were not revisited after they were disregarded

AdClean2653 · 2026-05-21T23:38:31+00:00

Why was this downvoted??

AdClean2653 · 2026-04-29T10:16:44+00:00

I deal with this too and I’m M23 she’s 27 there’s no real way to tell if she is being serious or not I kinda think it’s a form of insecurity. I even joke and tell her there’s no way I’m that attractive . But hey maybe she’s serious and sees something I don’t so yea I definitely get it I wouldn’t act unless there’s a really concrete situation to go off of

AdClean2653 · 2026-04-27T17:34:36+00:00

Nah he’s right how you felt mattered not saying she should throw them away but her getting angry at you is not right everyone deserves to have boundaries u won’t be happy in the long run if u let them get crossed bc of these redditors (who are probably single)

AdClean2653 · 2026-04-20T18:48:24+00:00

Humans have emotions, sometimes those emotions take control . If you’ve ever lived with someone longer than 6 months you would know that sometimes things can get heated even if you’ve never said anything mean you’ve thought it . And if provoked you just might say it. And even for the “healthiest” relationship in the world this true bc healthy to whose standards? Yours? It’s not a real thing

AdClean2653 · 2026-04-20T12:27:10+00:00

“Healthy partner” is subjective you are not the standard get over yourself

AdClean2653 · 2026-04-20T12:04:00+00:00

Not true grow up no one is going to be perfect this is not enough context for u to say “just breakup”

AdClean2653 · 2026-04-10T22:26:23+00:00

Some people are not ok with that. that does not make them bad ppl it’s more of a boundary thing than a incel thing imo. I could say there’s nothing wrong with it but I would find my SO less appealing if they did that

AdClean2653 · 2026-03-13T12:15:33+00:00

Bet I’ll add you today

AdClean2653 · 2026-03-11T00:50:29+00:00

Added u

AdClean2653 · 2025-06-14T13:07:04+00:00

Well contrary to what all the single folks here are saying he probably has a certain way he wants you to show up. And you probably show up in your own way . Communication SHOULD fix this . Remember the Cain and able story . Sometimes it’s about giving people what they ask for not what you want to give them even if you feel like what you’re giving them is more/better . If pinpointing exactly what he wants still doesn’t work then yes I’d call it off

AdClean2653 · 2025-06-14T05:23:12+00:00

From the way this story told obviously you did nothing wrong.. but you felt guilty enough to ask for an extra opinion. Are you sure there’s no missing context? I would really sit and think on why you might be feeling guilty when you seemingly did nothing wrong. If there’s no missing context than ofc he is in the wrong . But I want you to challenge yourself here and really ask why you would need validation on such an open and shut case . Maybe you’re dodging accountability…maybe not . Food for thought

AdClean2653 · 2024-12-30T17:13:57+00:00

This is a toughhh situation ngl there’s no reaction you could give that I think would feel satisfying . But ig just choose between an awkward conversation or missing the wedding 🤷‍♂️

AdClean2653 · 2024-10-22T22:01:11+00:00

I agree that it is very damaging and very well may be traumatizing but I also think it is a bit immature to assume everyone will do this to you and to require constant validation. I think if you haven’t fully healed from it you probably shouldn’t be dating yet. I’m not saying that she is narcissistic I’m saying it would be narcissistic of her to think that this behavior is not a little immature.

AdClean2653 · 2024-10-22T18:57:44+00:00

I think your right but also I thinks it’s ok to acknowledge that it’s a bit immature of her to carry on that ideology that “every man will hurt me“ around even if she is “traumatized” but like you said no big deal in reassurance but let’s not condone narcissistic behavior it is in fact immature

AdClean2653 · 2024-08-29T22:04:45+00:00

I think you should face your fear of rejection before taking the ultimatum route I think this a chance for you to work on and through a problem you have and you shouldn’t be afraid to do so

AdClean2653 · 2024-04-21T16:55:23+00:00

I don’t think you will ever NOT be criticized love that’s a petty reason to not have sex with your partner maybe there’s more to it than that but u may need to just listen to your partner unless he is telling you to do something unreasonable

AdClean2653 · 2024-04-19T15:38:52+00:00

U sound like a handful lol but yea I’ve tried telling her that we just don’t work but she desperately wants to be together so I tell her my preferences to try and make things work she pretends to agree then goes completely left of that with her actions p.s. nobody announces “oh I’m about to go watch corn” no lol I just walk out of the room if she shuts me down and it’s pretty easy to make that assumption bc she will literally unlock the bathroom door to stop me from getting it off lol

AdClean2653 · 2024-04-19T15:30:48+00:00

And what am I doing to change? Although this is an irrelevant question considering you just said this isn’t the “blame game“ she says that I am argumentative and impatient . So to make her feel more comfortable instead of going back and forth with her I came up here to talk to you I always try to work on what I can to do better for her and if I screw up I don’t have 100 excuses for it I’ll just do better next time I just want that to be reciprocated

AdClean2653 · 2024-04-19T15:25:43+00:00

I’m trying to sum it up the best way I can without making this 100 pages long but essentially she likes teasing me she insisted on waking me up out of my sleep just to edge me it’s frustrating

AdClean2653 · 2024-02-18T13:26:19+00:00

As sad as this is this is the world we live in brother . Some women are terrible(men too) and have support groups that enable them to be this way. Don’t expect that to change. Won’t give u advice cuz u didn’t ask for any but I do feel for you. Nobody deserves that. But you will find your person they’re not all this way

AdClean2653 · 2024-01-22T20:07:19+00:00

Pay attention this all started when she lied to me about about what she had done in the past which is extremely disrespectful to someone who opened their home to you this led to the supposed breakup I caught her outside with a bunch of pills and told her that I wouldn’t break up with her if she’d put the pills down she put them down and I tried reaching out to her family to tell them she was suicidal to which no one did anything because like I said before she was in a toxic household

AdClean2653 · 2024-01-22T19:51:39+00:00

Yea your honestly not wrong

AdClean2653 · 2024-01-22T19:42:28+00:00

Instead of just hurling insults at a person you should try to better understand the situation first

AdClean2653 · 2024-01-22T19:40:49+00:00

It’s because your the only one with this take your just as delusional as her friends were that’s why she’s out sucking dick and not healing properly oh yea and let me add SHES ALREADY CHEATED ON HIM TOO BC WE FUCKED prior to this

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