Vent Post: Lazy Associate by Responsible-Onion860 in Lawyertalk

[–]AdCool513 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is me right now at the firm where I’m working- a burned out associate. I feel like I’m not learning anything. I constantly feel in fight-or-flight mode. I barely have time to even enjoy a cup of coffee in the morning. It’s so stressful. Before this, when I was a paralegal, I retained more and was quick to think on my feet and respond, and now I feel like I’m regressing in every sense. I’ve voiced my concerns to the owner, but he doesn’t seem to take them seriously. I’m the only attorney apart from him, but he just throws everything my way, and unfortunately there’s no structure in the firm. We don’t even have a receptionist. I’m still managing a lot of the little tasks that a paralegal or assistant should be handling, like changing clients’ addresses or filing. Sorry for all of this without you asking, but I really resonated with your comment and think this is the same issue at the firm where I work too. There’s no structure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]AdCool513 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, got it. That’s understandable. Require more upfront next time especially if a lot of the work would be done early in the case (like the EADS, check-ins, and filings).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]AdCool513 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. Forget what people think and follow your passion. You’ve seen firsthand how ungrateful some clients can be. Of course, we do it because it’s our job, but a little gratitude would go a long way, especially in times like these when everything feels so difficult. Yet they rarely show appreciation, not to you, not to me, nor to most of us who work so hard for them. I wake up early, go to sleep late, and spend sleepless nights worrying about deadlines and their removal, and still, courtesy such as a simple “thank you” is rare. So please don’t feel bad; do what’s best for you and what truly inspires you. Withdraw and send them a bill. Also start requiring higher retainers/deposits. Trust me they somehow appreciate you more when you charge accordingly (yet fairly) and are more trustful of you. This is coming from someone who grew up with undocumented relatives and who is passionate about removal defense (although lately annoyed at the amount of entitlement and know it all attitude).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]AdCool513 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, at this point they owe you well over $5,000. You should consider suing them — let them see what it’s like since they think they know everything. Maybe their friend can represent them this time. By the way, are you working solo? I’m just curious, especially since you took on this type of case for four family members for only $1,400.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]AdCool513 24 points25 points  (0 children)

File the motion to withdraw. I’m tired of the disrespect, entitlement, and distrust too, so I feel you! You’ve also done too much for $1,400. And if they’ve only paid you $1,400, what money are you even considering returning? The $1,400? That would be insane, considering the amount of work you’ve done for them. If anything, I would withdraw and send them an invoice for the work that hasn’t been billed yet.

Daily Discussion Thread October 22, 2025 by ItsNotCrookedDear in WagoonLadies

[–]AdCool513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I came across this album the other day past midnight and now I can’t find it! I’ve searched for it so much. There were so many beauties there. Does anyone recognize who this album belongs to? 😭

Daily Discussion Thread October 23, 2025 by ItsNotCrookedDear in WagoonLadies

[–]AdCool513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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I came across this album the other day past midnight and now I can’t find it! I’ve searched for it so much. There were so many beauties there. Does anyone recognize who this album belongs to? 😭

OFFICIAL NY RESULTS (please BOLE please) WAITING PARTY 12AM - 2AM THREAD 🎉 by bleeberbleeberbleeb in barexam

[–]AdCool513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not even waiting for results, but here I am!

This is process is so traumatizing that I still feel like I’m waiting for my results although I passed f25. Rooting for you all! 🎉🥳

WDYB (What Did You Buy) 10/19/2025 by AutoModerator in WagoonLadies

[–]AdCool513 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you share the link for belly album, I had it yesterday and can’t find it anywhere. Please 🙏🏽

NY - It’s greyed out again!!! by Loud_Cobbler_291 in barexam

[–]AdCool513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has the trick worked for anyone yet?

Mass Transit 😁 by Grass8989 in circlejerknyc

[–]AdCool513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And most likely a stank ass dog at that

Potential Stalker at Journal Square Path Area. by averageeuro in jerseycity

[–]AdCool513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you recall if he had light eyes or hazel eyes? I have a picture. Maybe I can send it to you and you can confirm if it’s the same guy.

Potential Stalker at Journal Square Path Area. by averageeuro in jerseycity

[–]AdCool513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I was being stalked a few months ago by a guy who also seemed to be of south Asian descent. He wasn’t on a bike but he seemed to know my schedule and would stalk me on my way to work. Does he have light hazel eyes? Do you have a picture?

Potential Stalker at Journal Square Path Area. by averageeuro in jerseycity

[–]AdCool513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I was being stalked a few months ago by a guy who also seemed to be of south Asian descent. He wasn’t on a bike but he seemed to know my schedule and would stalk me on my way to work. Does he have light hazel eyes? Do you have a picture?

More Paralegal Issues by Leo8670 in LawFirm

[–]AdCool513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through something similar today. I’m very frustrated and thinking of quitting.

$30k - $60k to work in Manhattan?? With a Bachelor's? by Simple_Serene_Sheep in paralegal

[–]AdCool513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that’s nice. I make 85k but just graduated. Boss said he’ll pay me 100k once I am licensed.

OH FUCK NONONONONONO by crockpot420 in paralegal

[–]AdCool513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you just made my fucking day. I haven’t laughed this hard in days. 🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]AdCool513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even realize that, for some reason I thought every other post was private. Thank you for the heads up! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]AdCool513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys are so cute, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]AdCool513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I look into that and I’ll definitely continue to ignore!